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Re: What My Black Lips Caused Me During An Interview Today by Rrchrd(m): 4:04pm On Dec 08, 2020
Depressed101:
why are you shitting your ass on someone's thread... Are you ok
don't mind that slowpoke
Re: What My Black Lips Caused Me During An Interview Today by Rrchrd(m): 4:05pm On Dec 08, 2020
walozanga:


Are u sure u didn't forget your brain somewhere, abi na oshogbo weed dey talk so
it's very obvious
Re: What My Black Lips Caused Me During An Interview Today by Rrchrd(m): 4:06pm On Dec 08, 2020
jaxxy:


She forgot to ask in future tense asin do u plan to smoke or are u going to smoke grin
abi ooooh
Re: What My Black Lips Caused Me During An Interview Today by Rrchrd(m): 4:08pm On Dec 08, 2020
franklingud:
Pics or ahdonbelivIT
naughty you �
Re: What My Black Lips Caused Me During An Interview Today by Rrchrd(m): 4:08pm On Dec 08, 2020
franklingud:
Pics or ahdonbelivIT
naughty you �
Re: What My Black Lips Caused Me During An Interview Today by Rrchrd(m): 4:09pm On Dec 08, 2020
djflexcy:
Op where in Abj do you reside?
Kubwa any info.
Re: What My Black Lips Caused Me During An Interview Today by BafanaBafana: 4:20pm On Dec 08, 2020
WoundedLamb:


While it's truly a possibility, that's not always the case, sir. Contrary to what an average man thinks, women don't generally live their lives to impress men. Fashion is a very personal thing. Just like a guy who has tattoos, dreads, ear piercings, etc., people generally dress in a way that makes them feel good about themselves. Men like to woo and attract girls but it would illogical to say we buy expensive shoes solely for that purpose. Dressing (appearance generally) boosts one's personal confidence. While there are many things that could boost one's confidence, most of them are not easily within our control but dressing is. And that is why both men and women would dress whichever way makes them feel confident even when it appears unacceptable to others. A girl who dresses shabbily is still likely to dress that way even after marriage or in all female gatherings cause that's her sense of fashion and possibly source of confidence.

I get your point. However the example you gave about police profiling guys based on dressing and men profiling girls based on their dressing does not correlate.
Psychologically, you can not link any mode of dressing to any crime. Check the hardest criminals arrested by the police, the are decent looking young men.
However, all active commercial sex workers dress to advertise their sexuality because that's what they sell.
And I also agree with you that girls dress sexily to boost their confidence. Girls who dress shabbily get lots of glances, admires and toasters which gives them a sense of acceptance. You should also note that girls who dress anyhow irrespective of what people will say can also do anything they wanna not caring what people think. Reason why men rush them for night stands and all
Re: What My Black Lips Caused Me During An Interview Today by Negotiate: 4:24pm On Dec 08, 2020
Rrchrd:

I gat you
but she didn't asked for a conjunction
in the given situation she only requested for a mere response either"yes or "no"

It's up to you. No interview question is a Yes/No.
Re: What My Black Lips Caused Me During An Interview Today by WoundedLamb: 4:52pm On Dec 08, 2020
BafanaBafana:

I get your point. However the example you gave about police profiling guys based on dressing and men profiling girls based on their dressing does not correlate.
Psychologically, you can not link any mode of dressing to any crime. Check the hardest criminals arrested by the police, the are decent looking young men.
However, all active commercial sex workers dress to advertise their sexuality because that's what they sell.
And I also agree with you that girls dress sexily to boost their confidence. Girls who dress shabbily get lots of glances, admires and toasters which gives them a sense of acceptance. You should also note that girls who dress anyhow irrespective of what people will say can also do anything they wanna not caring what people think. Reason why men rush them for night stands and all

Thanks.

I don't agree with the softlanding you gave for men. Many criminals and drug lords are known to have tattoos, dreads, black lips, red eyes, etc. There are exceptions but in as much as we are against profiling, let's not dispute these traditional appearances that have smeared the image of the innocent ones. The police didn't just wake up one morning and decided to work with that appearance profile. We see them everyday on the front page. We do not need to narrow it to the hardest criminals alone cause those ones need camouflaging to survive. Moreover, many girls that don't dress in the way you term shabbily also sleep around as well. However, that these criminals dress or look that way doesn't mean that anyone they dresses or looks that way is a criminal. Likewise, that a harlot dresses shabbily doesn't mean that anyone that dresses 'shabbily' is a harlot. 'Shabilly' dressed women may attract men's attention but it does not mean that is always the purpose of the dressing. Men that drive good cars also get a lot of attraction from ladies but it would be illogical to say men buy good cars for the sole purpose of attracting ladies. Notice I put the word 'shabbily' in quotes cause another thing worth noting is that what one calls 'shabbily' is heavily influenced by ones background and therefore very subjective.

Do we also say that boys that go on dreads without caring about what the elders will say are the ones that do anything without caring about what people would say? So maybe the police are right for profiling them? And since when did a girl living her life without caring what others say mean she's promiscuous? What makes you think that sex would be that thing she'd do without caring what others say? Can't she also decide to keep her virginity without caring how her friends mock her since the "I don't care" attitude is the profile you've given such girls? One moment we advice people to live thier lives without paying attention to what people say, the next moment, we are criticizing them for doing just that; at the end, we are the people saying. The fact that you think profiling is OK when it has to do with women but not with men is heavily biased. And the way you disassociate your gender from the menace makes it hard for one to discuss the overall impact of profiling in the society.

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Re: What My Black Lips Caused Me During An Interview Today by Rrchrd(m): 5:09pm On Dec 08, 2020
Negotiate:

It's up to you. No interview question is a Yes/No.
everyone knows the disadvantages of smoking so no need for further explication
Re: What My Black Lips Caused Me During An Interview Today by Rrchrd(m): 5:10pm On Dec 08, 2020
Negotiate:

It's up to you. No interview question is a Yes/No.
everyone knows the disadvantages of smoking so no need for further explication
Re: What My Black Lips Caused Me During An Interview Today by kingsolomonjnr01(m): 5:52pm On Dec 08, 2020
Rrchrd:
My lips is always black as if I smoke
but true to God I've never smoke since I was born...

Today an interviewer asked me
Do you smoke
Me:No
did you used to smoke before
Me:No
she echo Ok

Other astonished questions she asked me are;
how many are you in the family
me:6
do you have kids
me:No
which church do you worship
I reiterate

*what would you do if "shout @ you"
oboy this one marveled me most

I'm a graduate though
& the position applied for is: Office Cleaner
I can't stay @ home again
location:Abuja
salary :50
Tp to&fro:700
work days :Monday to Fri or Sat.
Time 7am-4pm daily

I'm sure they would call me to start work


I have the same lip issues bro.... So dark but I don't smoke

Looking for what to apply on it to be Pinkish

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Re: What My Black Lips Caused Me During An Interview Today by djflexcy(m): 6:12pm On Dec 08, 2020
Rrchrd:
Kubwa any info.
Not really bro equally kubwa based

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Re: What My Black Lips Caused Me During An Interview Today by Came4apost(m): 7:02am On Dec 09, 2020
Rrchrd:
My lips is always black as if I smoke
but true to God I've never smoke since I was born...

Today an interviewer asked me
Do you smoke
Me:No
did you used to smoke before
Me:No
she echo Ok

Other astonished questions she asked me are;
how many are you in the family
me:6
do you have kids
me:No
which church do you worship
I reiterate

*what would you do if "shout @ you"
oboy this one marveled me most

I'm a graduate though
& the position applied for is: Office Cleaner
I can't stay @ home again
location:Abuja
salary :50
Tp to&fro:700
work days :Monday to Fri or Sat.
Time 7am-4pm daily

I'm sure they would call me to start work


Don't work as an office cleaner if u can drive drive uber and taxify u will be happier .. don't work as office cleaner
Re: What My Black Lips Caused Me During An Interview Today by Rrchrd(m): 1:32pm On Dec 09, 2020
Came4apost:


Don't work as an office cleaner if u can drive drive uber and taxify u will be happier .. don't work as office cleaner
mmm! it's the only job available for me currently
& I don't know Abj routes much
I'm new in Abj
Re: What My Black Lips Caused Me During An Interview Today by Came4apost(m): 8:18am On Dec 13, 2020
Rrchrd:

mmm! it's the only job available for me currently
& I don't know Abj routes much
I'm new in Abj

U will say I told you bro .. mental well being is better than 40k monthly .. look for another job can u do waiter drop your number I will send u someone's number there is an opening in wuye
Re: What My Black Lips Caused Me During An Interview Today by Rrchrd(m): 2:05pm On Dec 13, 2020
Came4apost:


U will say I told you bro .. mental well being is better than 40k monthly .. look for another job can u do waiter drop your number I will send u someone's number there is an opening in wuye
Thanks bro but I can't do waiter job
except other hotel work like Porter or Housekeeping Supervisor
Re: What My Black Lips Caused Me During An Interview Today by Came4apost(m): 5:22pm On Dec 13, 2020
Rrchrd:

Thanks bro but I can't do waiter job
except other hotel work like Porter or Housekeeping Supervisor

Its hotel maybe they will put u in that section
Re: What My Black Lips Caused Me During An Interview Today by Rrchrd(m): 4:23pm On Dec 14, 2020
Came4apost:

Its hotel maybe they will put u in that section
Ok: 07036438197 Thank You!
Re: What My Black Lips Caused Me During An Interview Today by Rrchrd(m): 6:37pm On Dec 14, 2020
Came4apost:

Its hotel maybe they will put u in that section
Ok bro 07036438197 I appreciate
Re: What My Black Lips Caused Me During An Interview Today by Rrchrd(m): 7:14pm On Dec 18, 2020
Came4apost:


Its hotel maybe they will put u in that section
I'm still hoping to hear from you bro
Re: What My Black Lips Caused Me During An Interview Today by Came4apost(m): 10:23am On Dec 20, 2020
Rrchrd:
I'm still hoping to hear from you bro
Sorry bro they have not started the process
Re: What My Black Lips Caused Me During An Interview Today by Rrchrd(m): 6:01pm On Dec 20, 2020
Came4apost:
Sorry bro they have not started the process
ok bro pls don't forget to tell the person about me
Re: What My Black Lips Caused Me During An Interview Today by Came4apost(m): 8:44pm On Dec 22, 2020
Rrchrd:

ok bro
pls don't forget to tell the person about me
I need a male that can work effectively (With Hospitality experience) in a serviced apartment.

Must be conversant with Abuja.

Send CV to manasskome@gmail.com ASAP. https:///EEoTOKT2lv
Re: What My Black Lips Caused Me During An Interview Today by Rrchrd(m): 3:19pm On Dec 23, 2020
Came4apost:

I need a male that can work effectively (With Hospitality experience) in a serviced apartment.

Must be conversant with Abuja.

Send CV to manasskome@gmail.com ASAP. https:///EEoTOKT2lv
Ok bro I'm still expecting more update... thank you!
Re: What My Black Lips Caused Me During An Interview Today by Lastoffourtnyt: 6:35pm On Dec 23, 2020
Rrchrd:
My lips is always black as if I smoke but true to God I've never smoke since I was born...
Today an interviewer asked me Do you smoke Me:No did you used to smoke before Me:No she echo Ok
Other astonished questions she asked me are; how many are you in the family me:6 do you have kids me:No which church do you worship I reiterate
*what would you do if "shout @ you" oboy this one marveled me most
I'm a graduate though & the position applied for is: Office Cleaner I can't stay @ home again location:Abuja salary :50 Tp to&fro:700 work days :Monday to Fri or Sat. Time 7am-4pm daily
I'm sure they would call me to start work
hey dude, did you later get the job?
Re: What My Black Lips Caused Me During An Interview Today by Lastoffourtnyt: 6:40pm On Dec 23, 2020
do we still have any job in the section, forget about mental health, I'm a "certified Nigerian".
Re: What My Black Lips Caused Me During An Interview Today by Rrchrd(m): 3:17pm On Dec 24, 2020
Lastoffourtnyt:


hey dude, did you later get the job?
mmm! one guy I met there told me they took them to residential areas too tidy & the salaries is 30k
bc of my level they didn't called me

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