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Fear Enugu Boys. Must A Lady Have Sex With You When She Spends The Night? by Calmbaby: 8:31pm On Dec 17, 2020
I went to see a guy called UC, he is a friend, though I won't call it my boyfriend because there isn't anything special between us.

I was around his house that night that I hang out with my friends. So, I put a call to him telling him I was around his house. He said he will meet me where I was. After the hangout, it was around 10 pm, the guy called me when I was about entering keke to my house, asking me to come over. I had to go to his house instead.

On reaching his house, when I meet him, the first thing, I said to him was "Hope you will not touch me at night"? He smiled.

We got inside the house and we started seeing a movie before I knew it, I have slept off. Thinking my night would go soundly. I balance dey sleep my thing. Only for this guy to wake me up at 2:23 am for sex.

I struggled with this guy, fought him. He torn my pant, gave me a blow on my left eye. I shouted, I started seeing Stars. I was screaming 'Jesus Jesus' while covering my left eye with my hands, and standing up at the same time. This boy did not stop at that, he still went ahead to push me down when I kept resisting him.

I insisted am not going to allow him to have sex with me. And then, he asked me to leave his house by 3 am. I was like, What? How can I leave by that time? He went to bring a belt, that if I don't step out, he will beat me.

He escorted me downstairs to the sitting room. I was like, please, allow me to sleep here, in the sitting room. He refused and insisted I leave the house entirely. At that point, I became mad and shouted to him telling him, I can't leave, he would have to kill me this night, I was saying to him, that you can't force a girl to have sex if she says no.

This guy changed instantly, and he was like, " shebi you wan mad? You are screaming at me abi"? The next thing I knew, he went and brought Cutlass.

Machete Because I refused you sex?? I was damn surprised. Guy, brought out a cutlass and chased me out of the house. I sat down at the front of the house around 3 am, thinking of what to make of that attitude. What should I call it? Simply because I said no to sex. I was been treated like that? Like a trash bag. Choi. Girls have suffer sha. With my swollen left eye, I was crying, reflecting.

Shouldn't a girl have the right to say no? Simply because a girl slept in your house doesn't give you the right to force her to have sex with you. He had to struggle with me, gave me a blow on my eye, slapped me, pushed me down, asked me out of his house, brought out a cutlass on me. All that because I refused and insisted am not going to Bleep him. Choi.. Some Men are Monsters sha.

I still dey battle with my swollen eye sha.. E go better. Na me cause am

PS: the guy is cute, fresh, attractive. And am beautiful too, black and very curvy.

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Re: Fear Enugu Boys. Must A Lady Have Sex With You When She Spends The Night? by Madibahisback: 8:34pm On Dec 17, 2020
I hate hearing stories from HOES
He should have cut off your head off seff

And lastly you said you're very curvy??
Post your pics na
I won't be surprised if its an amoeba shape seff undecided

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Re: Fear Enugu Boys. Must A Lady Have Sex With You When She Spends The Night? by GodWrites: 8:34pm On Dec 17, 2020
I was around his house that night that I hang out with my friends. So, I put a call to him telling him I was around his house. He said he would meet me where I was. After the hangout, it was around 10 pm; the guy called me when I was about entering keke to my house, asking me to come over. I had to go to his house instead.

On reaching his house, when I meet him, the first thing I said to him was, "Hope you will not touch me at night"? He smiled.



Look at this h0rny hoe looking for the slightest opportunity to undermine men, forgetting that his father still has two small balls dangling between his legs.

Just because you've started eating banana of all sizes doesn't give you the audacity to talk ill about any man.

If I may ask, what were you doing in the house of a man that is neither your boyfriend or friend at such an odd hour?

The reason you visited him was so he could dig that itchy pussy of yours. That's why you gave him a hint of sex - reverse psychology!

Perhaps the nigga doesn't know how to get hypocritical shy girls like you, which is a craft I always advise men to master.

She's fighting and saying NO doesn't always mean she meant it. In her mind, she's praying for you to fight harder and dominate her.

I can bet my left hairy balls that you didn't slept with any pant.

Unfortunately, this nigga used the wrong approach, and you went home without your pussy getting a scratch.

Out of anger, you have to make this post.

If he had given you all the styles and sucking, I doubt if this post will exist.

This story is either fabricated or highly garnished with falsehood to make it appeal better to the feminist audience.

But like every fabrication and lie, there are always inconsistencies and glaring loopholes. Only a fool will believe this dumb horseshit.

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Re: Fear Enugu Boys. Must A Lady Have Sex With You When She Spends The Night? by UjuJoan2: 8:37pm On Dec 17, 2020
Calmbaby:
I went to see a guy called UC, he is a friend, though I won't call it my boyfriend because there isn't anything special between us.

I was around his house that night that I hang out with my friends. So, I put a call to him telling him I was around his house. He said he will meet me where I was. After the hangout, it was around 10 pm, the guy called me when I was about entering keke to my house, asking me to come over. I had to go to his house instead.

On reaching his house, when I meet him, the first thing, I said to him was "Hope you will not touch me at night"? He smiled.

We got inside the house and we started seeing a movie before I knew it, I have slept off. Thinking my night would go soundly. I balance dey sleep my thing. Only for this guy to wake me up at 2:23 am for sex.

I struggled with this guy, fought him. He torn my pant, gave me a blow on my left eye. I shouted, I started seeing Stars. I was screaming 'Jesus Jesus' while covering my left eye with my hands, and standing up at the same time. This boy did not stop at that, he still went ahead to push me down when I kept resisting him.

I insisted am not going to allow him to have sex with me. And then, he asked me to leave his house by 3 am. I was like, What? How can I leave by that time? He went to bring a belt, that if I don't step out, he will beat me.

He escorted me downstairs to the sitting room. I was like, please, allow me to sleep here, in the sitting room. He refused and insisted I leave the house entirely. At that point, I became mad and shouted to him telling him, I can't leave, he would have to kill me this night, I was saying to him, that you can't force a girl to have sex if she says no.

This guy changed instantly, and he was like, " shebi you wan mad? You are screaming at me abi"? The next thing I know, he went and bring Cutlass.

Machete Because I refused you sex?? I was damn surprised. Guy, brought out a cutlass and chased me out of the house. I sat down at the front of the house around 3 am, thinking of this attitude. What should I call it? Simply because I said no to sex. I was been treated like this? Like a trash bag. Choi. Girls have suffer sha. With my swollen left eye, I was crying, reflecting.

Shouldn't a girl have the right to say no? Simply because a girl slept in your house doesn't give you the right to force her to have sex with you. He had to struggle with me, gave me a blow on my eye, slapped me, pushed me down, asked me out of his house, brought a cutlass on me. All that because I refused and insisted am not going to Bleep him. Choi.. Some Men are Monsters sha.

PS: the guy is cute, fresh, attractive. And am beautiful too, black and very curvy.

This is why I don't trust men or accept any form of 'assistance' from them except I'm willing to sleep with them.

They are brutes . . . 99.9 percent of them!

That being said . . . This is where I blame you even though you are the victim here . . .

You should never have slept in the same room with him. You mentioned 'downstairs sitting room', so I'm assuming he had other rooms, so why sleep in his room, what were you expecting? When eating with the devil, it's better to use a very long spoon.

Going to his house by that time was already a risk, sleeping in his room was just plain foolish!!!

It's not like you were stranded . . . . It's not like you came into town and needed a place to crash . . . You were already on your way home . . . How did you NOT know that him calling you to come to his place was a booty call?

As a woman, you have a responsibility to yourself to avoid situations that would expose you to such dangers, and it appears as if you are not even taking this seriously. What if he killed you that night?

You took a BIG risk, and it wasn't even worth it.

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Re: Fear Enugu Boys. Must A Lady Have Sex With You When She Spends The Night? by blackpanthar: 8:37pm On Dec 17, 2020
Calmbaby:
I went to see a guy called UC, he is a friend, though I won't call it my boyfriend because there isn't anything special between us.

I was around his house that night that I hang out with my friends. So, I put a call to him telling him I was around his house. He said he will meet me where I was. After the hangout, it was around 10 pm, the guy called me when I was about entering keke to my house, asking me to come over. I had to go to his house instead.

On reaching his house, when I meet him, the first thing, I said to him was "Hope you will not touch me at night"? He smiled.

We got inside the house and we started seeing a movie before I knew it, I have slept off. Thinking my night would go soundly. I balance dey sleep my thing. Only for this guy to wake me up at 2:23 am for sex.

I struggled with this guy, fought him. He torn my pant, gave me a blow on my left eye. I shouted, I started seeing Stars. I was screaming 'Jesus Jesus' while covering my left eye with my hands, and standing up at the same time. This boy did not stop at that, he still went ahead to push me down when I kept resisting him.

I insisted am not going to allow him to have sex with me. And then, he asked me to leave his house by 3 am. I was like, What? How can I leave by that time? He went to bring a belt, that if I don't step out, he will beat me.

He escorted me downstairs to the sitting room. I was like, please, allow me to sleep here, in the sitting room. He refused and insisted I leave the house entirely. At that point, I became mad and shouted to him telling him, I can't leave, he would have to kill me this night, I was saying to him, that you can't force a girl to have sex if she says no.

This guy changed instantly, and he was like, " shebi you wan mad? You are screaming at me abi"? The next thing I know, he went and bring Cutlass.

Machete Because I refused you sex?? I was damn surprised. Guy, brought out a cutlass and chased me out of the house. I sat down at the front of the house around 3 am, thinking of this attitude. What should I call it? Simply because I said no to sex. I was been treated like this? Like a trash bag. Choi. Girls have suffer sha. With my swollen left eye, I was crying, reflecting.

Shouldn't a girl have the right to say no? Simply because a girl slept in your house doesn't give you the right to force her to have sex with you. He had to struggle with me, gave me a blow on my eye, slapped me, pushed me down, asked me out of his house, brought a cutlass on me. All that because I refused and insisted am not going to Bleep him. Choi.. Some Men are Monsters sha.

PS: the guy is cute, fresh, attractive. And am beautiful too, black and very curvy.

You ladies won't respect yourself in the first place, but later you blame guys.


Does a goat go to sleep over in a lion's den all because rain is falling? is that not temptation enough?

So, what did you expect, only a lady who lacks discipline will not know how far time has gone that she should return home or stay with her female friends but instead chose a guys place to stay and expect him to be NICE? for this same naija? na wa o....

See, there is NOTHING LIKE "ordinary friendship" between a guy and girl o, either at masturbation or wild fantasies AROUSING SENSUAL THOUGHTS must come.

So if by now you do not know that, pls stay in your parents house o. Streets are not smiling.

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Re: Fear Enugu Boys. Must A Lady Have Sex With You When She Spends The Night? by Organsmuggler(f): 8:37pm On Dec 17, 2020
this story get k_leg but the funny part is "And am beautiful too, black and very curvy" like we care

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Re: Fear Enugu Boys. Must A Lady Have Sex With You When She Spends The Night? by Charleys: 8:37pm On Dec 17, 2020
You didn't tell us the part where you went back inside and had sex with him because you couldn't stay outside alone.

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Re: Fear Enugu Boys. Must A Lady Have Sex With You When She Spends The Night? by Nobody: 8:38pm On Dec 17, 2020
All these useless and jobless boys opening female monikers just to deceive some foolish morons on nairaland

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Re: Fear Enugu Boys. Must A Lady Have Sex With You When She Spends The Night? by Organsmuggler(f): 8:39pm On Dec 17, 2020
Charleys:
You didn't tell us the part where you went back inside and had sex with him because you couldn't stay outside alone.

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Re: Fear Enugu Boys. Must A Lady Have Sex With You When She Spends The Night? by Ahmed0336(m): 8:40pm On Dec 17, 2020
you took yourself to a bachelor's house, what were you expecting when you are not in the house of God
Re: Fear Enugu Boys. Must A Lady Have Sex With You When She Spends The Night? by Calmbaby: 8:42pm On Dec 17, 2020
Organsmuggler:
this story get k_leg but the funny part is "And am beautiful too, black and very curvy" like we care
What made it K leg? I told the whole truth. Go jare
Re: Fear Enugu Boys. Must A Lady Have Sex With You When She Spends The Night? by Organsmuggler(f): 8:45pm On Dec 17, 2020
Calmbaby:
What made it K leg? I told the whole truth. Go jare
No vex
Re: Fear Enugu Boys. Must A Lady Have Sex With You When She Spends The Night? by Baiser(m): 8:45pm On Dec 17, 2020
U no get bed for house?

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Re: Fear Enugu Boys. Must A Lady Have Sex With You When She Spends The Night? by Calmbaby: 8:45pm On Dec 17, 2020
Charleys:
You didn't tell us the part where you went back inside and had sex with him because you couldn't stay outside alone.

He actually came and apologized when I was outside. I ended up sleeping in the sitting room while he slept upstairs.

If I had died? Would he see me and apologize? I deleted his number immediately I left the house. I hate nonsense
Re: Fear Enugu Boys. Must A Lady Have Sex With You When She Spends The Night? by Charleys: 8:46pm On Dec 17, 2020
Calmbaby:

What made it K leg? I told the whole truth. Go jare

How does being black and very curvy the funniest part of this your story?

I don't get it.

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Re: Fear Enugu Boys. Must A Lady Have Sex With You When She Spends The Night? by Calmbaby: 8:49pm On Dec 17, 2020
Madibahisback:
I hate hearing stories from HOES
He should have cut off your head off seff

And lastly you said you're very curvy??
Post your pics na
I won't be surprised if its an amoeba shape seff undecided

Spotted.. Rapist

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Re: Fear Enugu Boys. Must A Lady Have Sex With You When She Spends The Night? by Calmbaby: 8:51pm On Dec 17, 2020
UjuJoan2:


This is why I don't trust men or accept any form of 'assistance' from them except I'm willing to sleep with them.

They are brutes . . . 99.9 percent of them!

That being said . . . This is where I blame you even though you are the victim here . . .

You should never have slept in the same room with him. You mentioned 'downstairs sitting room', so I'm assuming he had other rooms, so why sleep in his room, what were you expecting? When eating with the devil, it's better to use a very long spoon.

Going to his house by that time was already a risk, sleeping in his room was just plain foolish!!!

It's not like you were stranded . . . . It's not like you came into town and needed a place to crash . . . You were already on your way home . . . How did you NOT know that him calling you to come to his place was a booty call?

As a woman, you have a responsibility to yourself to avoid situations that would expose you to such dangers, and it appears as if you are not even taking this seriously. What if he killed you that night?

You took a BIG risk, and it wasn't even worth it.

Yeah.. I realised. First and last experience. It won't happen again, I promised

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Re: Fear Enugu Boys. Must A Lady Have Sex With You When She Spends The Night? by Fvckhypocrite(f): 8:58pm On Dec 17, 2020
Hoe

Show us the pics of ur swollen eye or gtfo here

Curvy yen yen yen yen


Mumu thread the guy 4 no beg u back make u sleep outside so that mosquito can also suck ur bwest

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Re: Fear Enugu Boys. Must A Lady Have Sex With You When She Spends The Night? by SweetCunt97(f): 8:58pm On Dec 17, 2020
Madibahisback:
I hate hearing stories from HOES
He should have cut off your head off seff

And lastly you said you're very curvy??
Post your pics na
I won't be surprised if its an amoeba shape seff undecided
Please just shut it! That how you fools feel entitled to a lady's body. Nonsense. Freaking idiots, if they feel d lady won't yield, they look for ways to get her to drink and drop her guard. Bloody idiot

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Re: Fear Enugu Boys. Must A Lady Have Sex With You When She Spends The Night? by lkillbrokehoes: 8:58pm On Dec 17, 2020
Super story! why would you go to a guy's place in the first place to spend a night?

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Re: Fear Enugu Boys. Must A Lady Have Sex With You When She Spends The Night? by UjuJoan2: 9:00pm On Dec 17, 2020
Calmbaby:


Yeah.. I realised. First and last experience. It won't happen again, I promised

Good!
Ndo . . . brush it off, pick the lesson therein and move on.
Who knows, maybe this experience will help protect you from a bigger mistake in the future!
Re: Fear Enugu Boys. Must A Lady Have Sex With You When She Spends The Night? by UjuJoan2: 9:01pm On Dec 17, 2020
lkillbrokehoes:
Super story! why would you go to a guy's place in the first place to spend a night?

Because he's a friend . . . and he invited her!
This would NOT be a problem in the first place, if men weren't so evil!

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Re: Fear Enugu Boys. Must A Lady Have Sex With You When She Spends The Night? by SweetCunt97(f): 9:02pm On Dec 17, 2020
lkillbrokehoes:
Super story! why would you go to a guy's place in the first place to spend a night?
Una for tell us say men are Monsters naw. Imagine. Someone u have to intimate or romantic relationship with wan come dip, him papa.

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Re: Fear Enugu Boys. Must A Lady Have Sex With You When She Spends The Night? by UjuJoan2: 9:03pm On Dec 17, 2020
Calmbaby:


He actually came and apologized when I was outside. I ended up sleeping in the sitting room while he slept upstairs.

If I had died? Would he see me and apologize? I deleted his number immediately I left the house. I hate nonsense

He chased you with a cutlass and you still entered the house with him? shocked shocked shocked
You get mind oh!!!

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Re: Fear Enugu Boys. Must A Lady Have Sex With You When She Spends The Night? by lkillbrokehoes: 9:10pm On Dec 17, 2020
UjuJoan2:


He chased you with a cutlass and you still entered the house with him? shocked shocked shocked
You get mind oh!!!
cheesycheesycheesy

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Re: Fear Enugu Boys. Must A Lady Have Sex With You When She Spends The Night? by lkillbrokehoes: 9:15pm On Dec 17, 2020
UjuJoan2:


Because he's a friend . . . and he invited her!
This would NOT be a problem in the first place, if men weren't so evil!
She should have known all these even if he's her friend or not, if you visit a guy and you pass the night at his place be ready for sex although there are some guys who doesn't bother but they are rare
Re: Fear Enugu Boys. Must A Lady Have Sex With You When She Spends The Night? by LordKO(m): 9:22pm On Dec 17, 2020
If truly your account is true, he isn't a principled person. His unprincipled disposition, however, doesn't cover your unprincipled disposition too. You weren't stranded in the first instance, so there was no need passing a night at his house under the circumstance as you submitted. Such happenstance is inevitable; once a friendship is based on a meaningless bond.
Re: Fear Enugu Boys. Must A Lady Have Sex With You When She Spends The Night? by UjuJoan2: 9:23pm On Dec 17, 2020
lkillbrokehoes:
She should have known all these even if he's her friend or not, if you visit a guy and you pass the night at his place be ready for sex although there are some guys who doesn't bother but they are rare

When we say 'she should have known' it sounds like we are justifying the man's behaviour.

It's sad that the reality is what you mentioned, that's why I said I would NEVER do it except I'm ready for sex. But is that really right or acceptable behaviour? Why the sense of entitlement on the part of the men?

I don't understand it!
Re: Fear Enugu Boys. Must A Lady Have Sex With You When She Spends The Night? by UjuJoan2: 9:25pm On Dec 17, 2020
LordKO:
If truly your account is true, he isn't a principled person. His unprincipled disposition, however, doesn't cover your unprincipled disposition too. You weren't stranded in the first instance, so there was no need passing a night at his house under the circumstance as you submitted. Such happenstance is inevitable; once a friendship is based on a meaningless bond.

Even the so-called principled men would still act the way the man did.

I bet even you, in all your 'conscientiousness' would still do the same! tongue
Re: Fear Enugu Boys. Must A Lady Have Sex With You When She Spends The Night? by dollytino4real(f): 9:34pm On Dec 17, 2020
some girls sha be thief! why did u go wen u no wan fork? his house na church?

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Re: Fear Enugu Boys. Must A Lady Have Sex With You When She Spends The Night? by Nobody: 9:38pm On Dec 17, 2020
Why are you not making any move for his arrest? Lesson well learnt,next time you won't try such

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