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Best Answer To Why Do Women Lose Sex After Marriage by Nobody: 4:59am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Incase most men didn’t see this answer. Learn from your fellow man to avoid stories that touch in the future. Though I wonder why his wife had to tell him before he could understand her pains. Men are just insensitive! banmee: 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Best Answer To Why Do Women Lose Sex After Marriage by banmee(m): 5:10am On Jan 18, 2021 |
nenyewrites: Because I was young. But like life I learnt from my mistake. We've been living a life of bliss since then. That was 15 years ago. You on the other hand I doubt if you'll ever find that kind of bliss since you obviously missed the whole point of my write up. So calm down and read my initial post again and don't be so quick with your masturbating fingers to type rubbish. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Best Answer To Why Do Women Lose Sex After Marriage by YoonSung79: 6:26am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Let me take a sit |
Re: Best Answer To Why Do Women Lose Sex After Marriage by Nobody: 6:38am On Jan 18, 2021 |
banmee: So I missed the whole point and I created a thread for it? Your wife is trying o. Women dey try! My marriage is heaven on earth so take your negativity back to the pit of hell. |
Re: Best Answer To Why Do Women Lose Sex After Marriage by nony43(m): 7:00am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Some women do have high libido after child birth 1 Like |
Re: Best Answer To Why Do Women Lose Sex After Marriage by Hathor5(f): 7:01am On Jan 18, 2021 |
banmee: Helping your spouse handle stress goes a long way but the red part is important too. Bizme has suggested it too on the said thread, which he created, and I agree. It's important to prioritize quality time together where to date each other/do recreational activities together and give each other undivided attention. It's a challenge with children but it's feasible. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Best Answer To Why Do Women Lose Sex After Marriage by meobizy(f): 7:18am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Of recent I'm trying to wonder which platform has the most bored children, Nairaland or Twitter. 1 Like |
Re: Best Answer To Why Do Women Lose Sex After Marriage by LadySarah: 7:35am On Jan 18, 2021 |
This is the whole truth whether or not some believe it. Homechores/childcare is a very stressful thing.Add Being a working mum to it,the libido goes on holiday. Nothing changed for me because my partner has been helpful right from day one.Once hes around I know my job is minimised. He doesn't wait to be asked. It doesn't make you less of a man even though I know some women might take advantage of it to belittle their man. see it as what you are doing for yourself. The result. Na me dey rush him. why wont i when we retire happy and less stressed 6 Likes |
Re: Best Answer To Why Do Women Lose Sex After Marriage by Hathor5(f): 7:38am On Jan 18, 2021 |
LadySarah: Enjoy yourself dear and keep appreciating your husband. 2 Likes |
Re: Best Answer To Why Do Women Lose Sex After Marriage by LadySarah: 7:40am On Jan 18, 2021 |
double post |
Re: Best Answer To Why Do Women Lose Sex After Marriage by Arsenate(m): 7:47am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Women use sex to buy love. Men use love to buy sex. Like any economic transaction each party is looking to find a bargain, i.e. spend the minimum amount of their currency to purchase the maximum amount of the service they need. So once women have gotten the man's commitment, they will thereafter spend as little sex as is necessary to keep him from straying to another market. Whereas, once a man has acquired the woman's sexual favours, he will spend the minimum amount of love and commitment to keep her from withholding them. The best solution is to marry more than one wife. Thereafter, they can share the sexual burden among themselves, and the man can pretend to love all of them equally and share a little of his attention among each of them; satisfying all parties involved. By RisenPhoenix1 is the best answer, not this Simp of a response blaming domestic duties. Most homes even have maids these days so what da fckk are we talking about? 2 Likes |
Re: Best Answer To Why Do Women Lose Sex After Marriage by Hathor5(f): 7:50am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Arsenate: Nonsense with ingredients. Who told you that women don't like sex? 4 Likes |
Re: Best Answer To Why Do Women Lose Sex After Marriage by Arsenate(m): 8:20am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Hathor5:That's all you got from that write up? |
Re: Best Answer To Why Do Women Lose Sex After Marriage by Hathor5(f): 8:24am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Arsenate: This is the premise of your write-up and since it is wrong the rest is null and void. 3 Likes |
Re: Best Answer To Why Do Women Lose Sex After Marriage by chichima67791: 9:40am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Some women do have high libido after child birth 1 Like |
Re: Best Answer To Why Do Women Lose Sex After Marriage by johnkey: 11:06am On Jan 18, 2021 |
wahala for who marry in this generation, baby mama on point. |
Re: Best Answer To Why Do Women Lose Sex After Marriage by Nobody: 12:36pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
It's actually interesting reading through others' comments on the original thread in particular. I only wished I knew the marital status of the individuals suggesting certain dangerous ideas. It is sometimes dangerous listening to suggestions from unmarried individuals about how a marriage should be structured. Until you are married you don't know anything about marriage: it isn't just something you know by reading books or by watching others' marriage. My wife and I had known each other for nearly 7 years before marriage and yet I sometimes felt I had married a stranger... Not in bad way though. In sincerity I have nothing against polygamy but to destroy your own wife emotionally just so you could have more sex seems too unwise for me. But then it depends on the wife we are talking about. Some of us our wife is literally our best partner at every single thing...home, business, friendship...etc. Some of us have working wives, and not full housewives and I believe the most practical solution is to delegate house chores as much as possible. We have a house help at the moment and I have been on my wife's neck that we take a second help because I know house chores have increased; my wife is the one hesitating. In any case, I have enjoyed your contributions and I only wish we could have more mature contributions from others on this beautiful forum. Hathor5: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Best Answer To Why Do Women Lose Sex After Marriage by Hathor5(f): 1:10pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
bizme: Some of the comments are not only immature but sick. And once you are the first to comment on a thread that hits front page people will like the comment no matter how stupid or sick because many people do not seem to think for themselves. Anyway, it's a free world so let everyone air the opinions. The wise ones will pick the appropriate pieces and the rest will create toxic marriages and families. It's not possible to save everyone. Village people are against it. I enjoyed your contributions too. It's refreshing to read from people who know how to make their marriages work. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Best Answer To Why Do Women Lose Sex After Marriage by bukatyne(f): 1:22pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
nenyewrites: You created a thread to bash someone's real life experience @Topic: considering the fact 62% of Nigerian wives are alleged to commit adultery, the proper question should be: Why do Nigerian couples lose interest in themselves sexually after marriage? 2 Likes |
Re: Best Answer To Why Do Women Lose Sex After Marriage by Nobody: 2:11pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
bukatyne: what’s wrong with people on this forum? 1 Like |
Re: Best Answer To Why Do Women Lose Sex After Marriage by raumdeuter: 2:51pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
bukatyne: Someone today quoted this post I made from 2018 raumdeuter: https://www.nairaland.com/4436386/transactional-vs-validational-sex |
Re: Best Answer To Why Do Women Lose Sex After Marriage by mariahAngel(f): 2:51pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
nenyewrites: Are you new here? 1 Like |
Re: Best Answer To Why Do Women Lose Sex After Marriage by Liposure: 3:16pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
Better. All hands must be on deck to make sex worth the stress |
Re: Best Answer To Why Do Women Lose Sex After Marriage by Nobody: 4:10pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
mariahAngel: No, just wondering. |
Re: Best Answer To Why Do Women Lose Sex After Marriage by cococandy(f): 4:27pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
You’ve always been one of the sane voices on here banmee: 2 Likes |
Re: Best Answer To Why Do Women Lose Sex After Marriage by banmee(m): 6:35pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
cococandy: I try but it's extremely exasperating trying to enlighten these block heads. |
Re: Best Answer To Why Do Women Lose Sex After Marriage by bukatyne(f): 6:56pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
raumdeuter: This my thread. Dude resurrected it Long time, happy new years. |
Re: Best Answer To Why Do Women Lose Sex After Marriage by Nobody: 7:08pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
meobizy:Are you excited? |
Re: Best Answer To Why Do Women Lose Sex After Marriage by Nobody: 7:11pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
Hathor5:Some marriages are bound to fail. |
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