Nowadays, people are always in competition with one another be it maritally, financially e.t.c.
Your friend got married two weeks ago you have already started fighting your fiancebecause he didn't propose to you yet. Sandra has this you also want to have, Tolu just finished building her house you went to borrow loan for the same thing. Aunty follow your own lane and do things at your own pace remember slow and steady wins the race. Most people die before their time because of competition cause they're always competiting with their fellow colleagues. Face your lane and don't let convetiousness/ unhealthy rivalry / Jealousy kill your peace. Buy what you need not what you want.