Positive Life Tips Mar 11, 2021 0 18 Add to Reading List
All of us eventually fail at something. It is part of the human experience. The fact is, we learn best by failure. Year after year, even the best and brightest of us eventually do really dumb things. We sabotage our future, our relationships, our financial well-being, our businesses or our health by resorting to behaviors that are self-defeating. We shoot ourselves in the foot. Our problem, in most cases, is not personality or intelligence; it is cluelessness. We are clueless as to what’s really happening. Our view of our life or situation is incorrect. That’s why we don’t always get what we hope for. We implement ineffective strategies and tactics because we cannot see clearly. The reason is that we are blind to or refuse to acknowledge the role we play in generating the failure. Most of us are clueless as to what we bring to the party.
https://positivepsychology.org.ng/cluelessness-reason-for-most-peoples-continuous-failure

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