Sirmuel1:



I understand your point. But some Women make things worse. No matter how much effort the Man gives, it's never appreciated. She takes all the glory to herself without telling the kids where the money is coming from.

FarahAideed:
She died not seeing the Nigeria of her dreams

Sterope:
This is a very big fat lie. You have not been talking to many older men. You should do that more often. I love their moans .

larryjonze:



Lets just say have been fortunate to be around old men who have a solid retirement plan. what they need they get
Men are not lonely as you think, men have a social life the society not scrutinize ... travel visit guest houses on weekend n see how old men lodge with gurls of age, for my final year project please how do igbo men moan on bed, is it chiimo or eewo

truthsayer009:


Will the kids not know where the money is coming from when they grow up and become adults?

Anyway, i understand you though. Just like Dr Dre's wife is currently being a nuisance and the daughter is even more senseless.

Revere27:
Rip ma'am

I pledge to Nigeria my country
To be faithful loyal and honest
To serve Nigeria with all my strength
To defend her unity,
And uphold her honour and glory
So help me God.

It's so unfortunate that the pledge has lost its value by many Nigerian citizens.

We're no longer faithful loyal and honest
Our strength and bravery for this country is long gone
Hooops!!! To uphold her honour and Glory is a now a thing of the past.

This administration failed it citizens!!!

Sterope:
Lol. It is always about this money even when many homes in Nigeria and the world survive on double income.

For example, market women manage to stay in the sun from morning till night, take care of the kids and the home and somehow secure their children's dedication.

What excuse do you have deny yourself that?

Kingpele:
Rip ma ,u did your best for your country but the same obj that ensured that it became part of our national Anthem ,never believed nor practiced the letters when he came back in 1999,he ensured that corruption replaced the national Anthem ...this is to show u that most of our national leaders are hypocriFooltes

truthsayer009:
Great! i love the fact that every woman uses market women as their prime example on women being providers and also taking care of children.

Let's talk about Conductors, Drivers, Bricklayers, Carpenters, Coal Miners, Plumbers who work for NNPC and stay offshore for months and have no choice but to work 24/7 to provide for their homes, besides a lot of those market women kids usually end up as touts, harlots etc. They become useless in the long run.

Speaking of money, will you accept your husband to take a lower paying job just to stay more with the kids?

Maybe I should create a thread and ask fellow Nairaland women because the usual answer will be capital NO.

I have worked a whole month where I couldn't even cook my own food because I was super busy with my job as I wanted to impress my new employer, you think say na beans?. Making money is hard please, it takes your time, soul and emotions.

I currently have a guy who is a software engineer with one child and wife, he sleeps in the office trying to make ends meet, even on Sundays. I still spoke to him last week. He his trying to leave but no jobs no switch to.

Sterope:
All men work offshorea, lol? What do they do when they are at home? Bond with their kids or form head of the house

Lol. Women who act like the typical fathers are met with the same attitude at their old age.

I would want my husband take a lower paying job to spend time with his family. That is no brainer.

Sterope:
Lmao. The point is flying over your head.

How does a man sleeping with many younger women equals the love, dedication and care that should flow from children to their parents at the age when they need it most.

larryjonze:




are you sure it flyover my head, maybe i just bend my head for an incoming stone.
I did not equate sex with family affection,however if men are as dependent as you think, many won't allow their wives to go sit in their children's house. naa those period papas they play friendly matches you know naw no dey whine me

FarahAideed:
She died not seeing the Nigeria of her dreams

Maxymilliano:
May her soul rest in peace.

At the age of 6, i already knew that i was in the wrong country when i learnt that the National pledge ended with 'so help me god' Ahh !

Sterope:
Like they have a freaking choice