Today’s subject on Abroad Life started her process to leave Nigeria for the USA for school in 2017 and didn’t leave until two months ago. She talks about how money, COVID and visa problems delayed her travel plans. She also talks about arriving in the USA in the middle of a polar vortex and having to survive extreme levels of cold.

When did you first start trying to leave Nigeria?
2017. I was fresh out of secondary school, and I knew I didn’t want to do university in Nigeria so I was already actively searching for opportunities to study abroad. My plan was to come to the USA, but somehow, between not having enough money, visa wahala and COVID, I just got here about two months ago.

Damn, which one came first?
Money wahala. I rushed and wrote my SATs, ready to japa. Sometime in 2018, I got my admission to study nursing in some private university. It was so perfect. And then we saw the fees. My sister was finishing university in the USA at that time, so the financial situation at home wasn’t so great. I just deferred my admission from 2018 to a semester in 2020 and went to join my brother in UNILAG.

Greatest Akokite!
Haha… Great!

How was UNILAG?
It was fun. In my first year, I was the most unserious person because I knew I was still going to America, so what was the point of going for classes or even doing assignments? It didn’t help matters that I applied to study nursing, and I was admitted to study radiology instead. I hated it so much.

After my first year, I approached the sub-dean of my faculty and begged him to transfer me to the Psychology Department, and surprisingly, he did. So I did psychology till I left.

I’m curious. Did your UNILAG friends know you were going to leave them?
Only the extremely close ones knew the situation I was in. Honestly, at some point, even I started doubting that I could still come to the US. Most of my friends were not close enough for me to tell them, so it was when I left they knew.

Which wahala came next?
COVID. It started looking less likely that I was going to travel because of COVID, and my life seemed stuck. Something that made it worse was the ASUU strike. The reason that so many public university students in Nigeria were out of school for almost one year was ASUU strike, not COVID. People didn’t talk about that enough. These people practically wasted one year of our lives.

I eventually started attending classes online last year. I’d paid my fees, but I wasn’t able to leave Nigeria, so we created a system where I attended classes online. That terribly affected my sleeping patterns because I had to adapt to American time zones.

Damn. How did that end?
Travel restrictions were lifted, so I started processing my visa. Somehow, the process was looking bleaker and bleaker. The embassy kept cancelling and rescheduling appointments until early this year when I, out of faith, applied for an emergency visa interview and got it. I left one week later. That was my first time abroad.

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