Dear nairalanders i need your advice. I finished secondary school last year my dad want me to learn trade which I accepted. but I want to be a professional footballerin my heart. the issue is that I have not told my father that I want to be a footballer for once . I told my mother my intention and he told me whenever scouting trial is available I should tell her. Am the firstborn in the family of five my parents are poor telling my father my intention will categorically means I don't want to help myself nor our family present situation. due to the kind of person my father is he is looking at me as the asset he got now please help me