Budding Nollywood actress Chelsea Obiakalusi who recently got featured on front cover of popular Lifestyle Magazine, Hustle, shared her view on modern day relationships and the sudden trade of s*x for money.

According to the beautiful thespian, “Society has set a lot standards for how relationships should be these days. If s*x is not involved, then what exactly are you looking for? If he’s not paying my bills, why am I here?”

Explaining further, Chelsea added that most relationships today are arranged in a format configured for 'money and s*x', “A lot of relationships these days are based on money and s*x, take away these two from the equation and what we have is what a lot of people are refusing to call it ‘Prostitution in Disguise"

“There are a lot of men out there willing to pay for these services, why not go ahead, why label it with the terms of boyfriend and girlfriend to extort. The men see it as their reward, the women see the money as their right. Baby girl, if he has to buy certain gifts to quantify how you satisfy him in bed, you’re a classified call girl and that’s that.”


Chelsea gave an encouraging note on how to build a successful relationship, stressing that the bond between men and women should be held sacred. She recalled her past and how it helped her set certain standards and values that has shaped her relationships today.

“Growing up my mother always said that there will always be men and there would always be women, each one more handsome and more beautiful than the other. But you are permitted to have only one. If you’re not in a relationship to get married, what exactly are you looking for?”

“See baby girl, if you have to sleep with him to secure him, then just walk away. You deserve to be wined and dined. You deserve dates. Not one or two but ten, twenty. You deserve flowers, chocolates. Let him woo you.
And men you deserve to be loved, don’t settle for a woman that will just be billing you because she’s good in bed. You’re a king to, and you should be treated as one.”

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Ask few random girls what they have to offer in a relationship and you will be shocked at their responses. Sx seems to be the only tangible offer a man can receive from a lady in exchange of all the care, financial support and more the guys will give her.

I have never bergained for s*x with money in my life before.. Its not worth it.
I find it really annoying when I hear some stories of men spending money they could have used to feed and sponsor some of their family members they will be using it on some girls that will still dump them after meeting another maga

Well said.

Lalasticala have you seen this?

Well spoken, Go girl

Preach from now till ever, girls will still sleep with men for money. It's just natural and not looking like it will be changed anytime soon

Cc lalasticala

unofficialmadman:
Preach from now till ever, girls will still sleep with men for money. It's just natural and not looking like it will be changed anytime soon

Not all women are so cheap to depend on a man for survival.. Please grow up and let behind this old thought.

Nice words....well spoken

Such encouraging word.. Well said

Intelligently delivered.. Just that in such industry (nollywood), its really hard to pick a good person out there cos the industry is too dirty.

well said.
but how are we such shes practicing wat she's preaching

stupidmod3:
well said.
but how are we such shes practicing wat she's preaching

They hardly do.. Na just talk to cover up. They still go back and run stuff.. No be today