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Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by akpunda86: 6:57am On Jun 08, 2021
Married women are cheating more than Men.I tut was a joke till I entered this Facebook group.come see married women I said married women sending us nudes doing video calls.Theu are in all states even I'm presently in their WhatsApp group.Adultery is the key word.Group rules before you enter asks you will u Bleep outside your marriage.
The group is irritating.If you are in Onitsha your in danger many of the married women from Onitsha.The language is sex sex.
Group name is Married dating.you might see your Mum or Dad there but is very very painful seeing our parents or young married couples cheating.
Is not a sugar mummy stuff is sex among married couples.
Group name again Married Dating.please I'm not promoting them rather I'm trying to see if a way married guys can enter the group and betray many of this married women promoting adultery.it is finished.
Re: Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by blazepascal(m): 7:00am On Jun 08, 2021
Problem
Re: Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by fati2001(m): 7:05am On Jun 08, 2021
akpunda86:
Married women are cheating more than Men.I tut was a joke till I entered this Facebook group.come see married women I said married women sending us nudes doing video calls.Theu are in all states even I'm presently in their WhatsApp group.Adultery is the key word.Group rules before you enter asks you will u Bleep outside your marriage.
The group is irritating.If you are in Onitsha your in danger many of the married women from Onitsha.The language is sex sex.
Group name is Married dating.you might see your Mum or Dad there but is very very painful seeing our parents or young married couples cheating.
Is not a sugar mummy stuff is sex among married couples.
Group name again Married Dating.please I'm not promoting them rather I'm trying to see if a way married guys can enter the group and betray many of this married women promoting adultery.it is finished.

okay

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Re: Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by LilMissFavvy(f): 7:23am On Jun 08, 2021
Look at you, you seem so worried about married women cheating, how about the men? Married women learnt cheating from their husbands, that's the truth.

Instead of of you to encourage married men/women to be faithful, you want to bust the ladies in that FB group. If you bust them and destroy their marriages what will you gain? What if their husbands are doing worse? Oga mind your life, your type may get married and will not even be faithful, that's if you aren't a cheat yourself.

Go and bust married men first before busting women, hypocrite.
akpunda86:

Group name again Married Dating.please I'm not promoting them rather I'm trying to see if a way married guys can enter the group and betray many of this married women promoting adultery.it is finished.

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Re: Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by orisa37: 7:23am On Jun 08, 2021
A Sin, Formality? You are dead.
Re: Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by orisa37: 7:25am On Jun 08, 2021
A Sin, Formality? You are dead. What killed TB Joshua?
Re: Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by orisa37: 7:26am On Jun 08, 2021
blazepascal:
Problem


Real one.

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Re: Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by Kamdil: 7:30am On Jun 08, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
Look at you, you seem so worried about married women cheating, how about the men? Married women learnt cheating from their husbands, that's the truth.

Instead of of you to encourage married men/women to be faithful, you want to bust the ladies in that FB group. If you bust them and destroy their marriages what will you gain? What if their husbands are doing worse? Oga mind your life, your type may get married and will not even be faithful, that's if you aren't a cheat yourself.

Go and bust married men first before busting women, hypocrite.
look at one of them. Always pained when adulterous women are hunted down

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Re: Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by LilMissFavvy(f): 7:33am On Jun 08, 2021
Call it pained or whatever, I don't give a hoot. My point stands, the wives learnt it from their husbands, the men deserve it.
Kamdil:
look at one of them. Always pained when adulterous women are hunted down

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Re: Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by alexsoftwork(m): 7:36am On Jun 08, 2021
What's the name of the group

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Re: Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by Kamdil: 7:42am On Jun 08, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
Call it pained or whatever, I don't give a hoot. My point stands, the wives learnt it from their husbands, the men deserve it.
lol

I kno you don't care,but stop been pained when they are caught and thrown out of their matrimonial home. No one will ask them where they learnt it from

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Re: Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by AmuAwusa: 7:42am On Jun 08, 2021
Committing adultery go both ways, and to be honest it's as disgusting it is for women as it is for men.Both should zip up.

My aunt died from Aids more than 10 years ago ,and yes the husband infected her with it and didn't let her know on time.He died three years or more before she succumbed


Married women are cheating more now because married men are hunting people's wives more than before. Many men can't afford the money to _fuck this slay queens no more so they rather opt for any lesser bargain and we all know that second hand and third goods, them no dey tey for the price. grin

Again you wey pregnant married woman, Na Wetin you dey find near person wife if no be say devil use you dey drink coke.

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Re: Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by Franzinni: 8:02am On Jun 08, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
Look at you, you seem so worried about married women cheating, how about the men? Married women learnt cheating from their husbands, that's the truth.

Instead of of you to encourage married men/women to be faithful, you want to bust the ladies in that FB group. If you bust them and destroy their marriages what will you gain? What if their husbands are doing worse? Oga mind your life, your type may get married and will not even be faithful, that's if you aren't a cheat yourself.

Go and bust married men first before busting women, hypocrite.
this is scary.
Re: Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by akpunda86: 8:20am On Jun 08, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
Look at you, you seem so worried about married women cheating, how about the men? Married women learnt cheating from their husbands, that's the truth.

Instead of of you to encourage married men/women to be faithful, you want to bust the ladies in that FB group. If you bust them and destroy their marriages what will you gain? What if their husbands are doing worse? Oga mind your life, your type may get married and will not even be faithful, that's if you aren't a cheat yourself.

Go and bust married men first before busting women, hypocrite.

Thank you both cheat

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Re: Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by efficiencie(m): 8:22am On Jun 08, 2021
This is what happens when men and women become sexually reckless before marriage...and we expect them to become saints the instant they are married. It doesn't work that way. If a person has had multiple sex partners before marriage steer clear of such a person as far as marriage is concerned because no amount of love, loyalty, care, money or gifts can make that person change. We need to return to the era when virginity was a criteria for marriage. This would make more and more mothers and fathers harp on their daughters remaining virgins. More and more ladies will be less inclined to spreading their legs for men they are not married to no matter what he says or does. Fewer randy men would have the opportunity to cheat and of course more homes will have faithful husbands...but as long as there are ladies that have legs that spring open just for anything as insignificant as a glass of wine then there will always be men who will be available to cheat. According to J.B Say, "supply creates it's own demand", so if the ladies are willing to supply their overused holes randy men will always be willing to take a dive. The ratio of reports of nude female pictures to nude male pictures (on most social media platforms from nairaland to instagram) is enough indicator that our ladies are the ones supplying the fornication, adultery and pornography industry!

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Re: Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by LilMissFavvy(f): 8:30am On Jun 08, 2021
Do you think every married man who catches his wife cheating would throw her out? Do you also think every woman who is thrown out because of cheating would stay unmarried without finding another husband? I know of a lady who got married to a rich man, she had two kids, she was still in touch with her ex BF and later began dating him. Husband caught her and they began having quarrels, she later quit her marriage and is currently married to her ex BF. I do not support cheating, but i always like to point it out, that it is not correct to always call out the female gender to be faithful, it can't work. Both should be called out, both should be faithful.
Kamdil:
lol

when they are caught and thrown out of their matrimonial home. No one will ask them where they learnt it from

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Re: Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by Oksman(m): 9:27am On Jun 08, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
Call it pained or whatever, I don't give a hoot. My point stands, the wives learnt it from their husbands, the men deserve it.

So if your husband is a killer you will become a killer also? You already exposed yourself as a woman of easy virtue. I am sorry for you.

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Re: Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by Mayniaa: 9:35am On Jun 08, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
Do you think every married man who catches his wife cheating would throw her out? Do you also think every woman who is thrown out because of cheating would stay unmarried without finding another husband? I know of a lady who got married to a rich man, she had two kids, she was still in touch with her ex BF and later began dating him. Husband caught her and they began having quarrels, she later quit her marriage and is currently married to her ex BF. I do not support cheating, but i always like to point it out, that it is not correct to always call out the female gender to be faithful, it can't work. Both should be called out, both should be faithful.

Keep deceiving yourself.

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Re: Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by Kamdil: 9:39am On Jun 08, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
Do you think every married man who catches his wife cheating would throw her out? Do you also think every woman who is thrown out because of cheating would stay unmarried without finding another husband? I know of a lady who got married to a rich man, she had two kids, she was still in touch with her ex BF and later began dating him. Husband caught her and they began having quarrels, she later quit her marriage and is currently married to her ex BF. I do not support cheating, but i always like to point it out, that it is not correct to always call out the female gender to be faithful, it can't work. Both should be called out, both should be faithful.
congrats to her for finding another dingbat to marry.

But if you are caught and not fortunate to find your ex boyfriend to marry,sorry oo,OYO is your case
Re: Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by Fiscus105(m): 9:47am On Jun 08, 2021
akpunda86:
Married women are cheating more than Men.I tut was a joke till I entered this Facebook group.come see married women I said married women sending us nudes doing video calls.Theu are in all states even I'm presently in their WhatsApp group.Adultery is the key word.Group rules before you enter asks you will u Bleep outside your marriage.
The group is irritating.If you are in Onitsha your in danger many of the married women from Onitsha.The language is sex sex.
Group name is Married dating.you might see your Mum or Dad there but is very very painful seeing our parents or young married couples cheating.
Is not a sugar mummy stuff is sex among married couples.
Group name again Married Dating.please I'm not promoting them rather I'm trying to see if a way married guys can enter the group and betray many of this married women promoting adultery.it is finished.


let me tell you fact about all these groups, many are just saying for saying sake, you can do the findings urself, hardly you will see any members of the group had or having sex since they joined the group, though I'm not disputing immorality and infidelity o

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Re: Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by gremp(m): 10:55am On Jun 08, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
Call it pained or whatever, I don't give a hoot. My point stands, the wives learnt it from their husbands, the men deserve it.

That is an objective statement you're making, so by that statement you're saying every married man whose wive cheats also cheats or cheated on her first??, Every married woman isn't capable of freewill and making choices which can result in choosing to cheat

That's just rejecting responsibility, I've seen cases of married women cheating without the husband ever cheating, does the husband deserve it??
Of course there are nitty-gritty details in most things e.g lack of initial desires, lower bedroom romance frequency e.t.c but that doesn't detract from the fact that a choice was made to cheat.
Re: Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by yemmit90: 11:45am On Jun 08, 2021
akpunda86:
Married women are cheating more than Men.I tut was a joke till I entered this Facebook group.come see married women I said married women sending us nudes doing video calls.Theu are in all states even I'm presently in their WhatsApp group.Adultery is the key word.Group rules before you enter asks you will u Bleep outside your marriage.
The group is irritating.If you are in Onitsha your in danger many of the married women from Onitsha.The language is sex sex.
Group name is Married dating.you might see your Mum or Dad there but is very very painful seeing our parents or young married couples cheating.
Is not a sugar mummy stuff is sex among married couples.
Group name again Married Dating.please I'm not promoting them rather I'm trying to see if a way married guys can enter the group and betray many of this married women promoting adultery.it is finished.

Dont be carried away by the attitude of those women, they are mostly divorces and baby mamas. A normal married woman dont join such a group, let alone chatting with random men on WhatsApp or Facebook. I have them on my Facebook groups as well, try to press them very well, you will discover they are baby mamas, divorces or living with irresponsible man or in abusive marriage.

And contrary to your opinion, unlike men, quite alot of married women dont always find it necessary to cheat, especially those whose their husband are responsible.

Women dont prioritise sex like men, they will pick money 100 times over a good sex. They can endure sex for long period of time especially when they are well taking care of.

Let we the men be responsible at home, cheating will be the least thing they wiil stoop so low to engage themselves in.

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Re: Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by EmekaChiwe: 12:59pm On Jun 08, 2021
Dont let this guy deceive you, he is the owner of the group.

And he is promoting his group. How can a group have 800 members and you accuse every married women of cheating.

Stop promoting your group.

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Re: Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by bukatyne(f): 1:18pm On Jun 08, 2021
efficiencie:
This is what happens when men and women become sexually reckless before marriage...and we expect them to become saints the instant they are married. It doesn't work that way. If a person has had multiple sex partners before marriage steer clear of such a person as far as marriage is concerned because no amount of love, loyalty, care, money or gifts can make that person change. We need to return to the era when virginity was a criteria for marriage. This would make more and more mothers and fathers harp on their daughters remaining virgins. More and more ladies will be less inclined to spreading their legs for men they are not married to no matter what he says or does. Fewer randy men would have the opportunity to cheat and of course more homes will have faithful husbands...but as long as there are ladies that have legs that spring open just for anything as insignificant as a glass of wine then there will always be men who will be available to cheat. According to J.B Say, "supply creates it's own demand", so if the ladies are willing to supply their overused holes randy men will always be willing to take a dive. The ratio of reports of nude female pictures to nude male pictures (on most social media platforms from nairaland to instagram) is enough indicator that our ladies are the ones supplying the fornication, adultery and pornography industry!

@bold:

I agree with you 100%.

@the rest of your post:
Girls and BOYS NEED to be taught sexual purity before marriage.

Sex is an activity involving a minimum of two people that the burden of chastity cannot be on one person.

Prior to now, male infidelity was not frowned upon 'because the wives were faithful' and the men chased 'small girls'.

Today, married men are going for married women because they are less expensive to cheat with and have equal stake in ensuring secrecy. This is in addition to other reasons why the women cheat.

You cannot sow the wind and cry foul when you reap the whirlwind.

It is either you preach sexual purity to both parties or sit back and lament like the OP on the number of cheating husbands and wives.

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Re: Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by efficiencie(m): 1:43pm On Jun 08, 2021
bukatyne:


@bold:

I agree with you 100%.

@the rest of your post:
Girls and BOYS NEED to be taught sexual purity before marriage.

Sex is an activity involving a minimum of two people that the burden of chastity cannot be on one person.

Prior to now, male infidelity was not frowned upon 'because the wives were faithful' and the men chased 'small girls'.

Today, married men are going for married women because they are less expensive to cheat with and have equal stake in ensuring secrecy. This is in addition to other reasons why the women cheat.

You cannot sow the wind and cry foul when you reap the whirlwind.

It is either you preach sexual purity to both parties or sit back and lament like the OP on the number of cheating husbands and wives.

I agree with you that the burden of chastity should not be placed on a single person and in my post I did not allude to placing the burden of chastity entirely on the ladies...instead I advocate that it starts with the ladies! It is a chain reaction. It is very easy to track virginity in a lady than in a man. A man can easily lie and get away with it but a lady unfortunately does not have that same advantage (as some see it). This is why as a more practicable social policy, I can start from the ladies and advocate that more and more them are taught to enforce the "no sex until after marriage" rule. This rule will impact the randy men badly and require that they adjust accordingly and at this point the men will start bearing the burden of chastity. Ultimately, if this is implemented, fewer men would have the advantage to cheat, ruin the lives of the future wives of men and overall reduce the rate of divorce due to cheating. So I am not advocating that this burden be placed entirely on the ladies but instead I am asking that the process of reform must start with the ladies.

Look at the porn industry. There is no gainsaying that ladies are the predominant suppliers in the industry and men are the predominant consumers...If ladies were to stop posting nude pictures, stop acting porn movies, stop profiting from sex, etc you will see a decline in the industry and more and more men would be forced to direct their sexual energies to their spouses as that would be the only option left for them. But for as long as ladies will keep agreeing readily and easily to the faintest demands of men, cheating and divorce due to cheating will never stop!
Re: Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by Ewizard(m): 4:32pm On Jun 08, 2021
Marriage is a total waste of time and energy.
You can actually live a fulfilling life without a wife/husband figure.

Argue with your keypads. grin

Cc:
Jeff Bezos
Bill Gate
Re: Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by MaritalMandate: 5:36pm On Jun 08, 2021
akpunda86:
Married women are cheating more than Men.I tut was a joke till I entered this Facebook group.come see married women I said married women sending us nudes doing video calls.Theu are in all states even I'm presently in their WhatsApp group.Adultery is the key word.Group rules before you enter asks you will u Bleep outside your marriage.
The group is irritating.If you are in Onitsha your in danger many of the married women from Onitsha.The language is sex sex.
Group name is Married dating.you might see your Mum or Dad there but is very very painful seeing our parents or young married couples cheating.
Is not a sugar mummy stuff is sex among married couples.
Group name again Married Dating.please I'm not promoting them rather I'm trying to see if a way married guys can enter the group and betray many of this married women promoting adultery.it is finished.
Wrong perception.You simply need to be oriented.its the fault of the environment you are
Re: Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by MaritalMandate: 5:37pm On Jun 08, 2021
Ewizard:
Marriage is a total waste of time and energy.
You can actually live a fulfilling life without a wife/husband figure.

Argue with your keypads. grin

Cc:
Jeff Bezos
Bill Gate
Wrong mentality.Those you mentioned achieved the achievement when they were married if you are talking about achievement.You just need to be oriented.

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Re: Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by adadike(f): 7:08pm On Jun 08, 2021
Where I come from, Adultery is a very big taboo. Infact, it is almost like a taboo to discuss it. If you marry in my village, you dare not commit adultery or your husband will die within one month ND the woman in question will also be afflicted with a strange sickness.
It's simple, marry who you truly love, my sister said if you marry your true love you will find it irritating to even harbour the thought of undressing before another man. Tufiakwa!

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Re: Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by AchalugoNwa(f): 7:19pm On Jun 08, 2021
adadike:
Where I come from, Adultery is a very big taboo. Infact, it is almost like a taboo to discuss it. If you marry in my village, you dare not commit adultery or your husband will die within one month ND the woman in question will also be afflicted with a strange sickness.
It's simple, marry who you truly love, my sister said if you marry your true love you will find it irritating to even harbour the thought of undressing before another man. Tufiakwa!
that's why I'm into you my love kiss

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Re: Adultery Is Everywhere Marriage Is Just Formality Now by Vision101(m): 12:33am On Jun 09, 2021
@LilMissFavvy
Call it pained or whatever, I don't give a hoot. My point stands, the wives learnt it from their husbands, the men deserve it.



@me
Finished world. It's crazy what women do these days all in the name of feminism.

If she is copying from me and I catch her and fire her she goes back to square one. In this Bubu time wey husband no dey she will remain like that.

Tear rubber never see husband who go approach over used material wey the vmobile don expand finish. But I can bet you that the day she leaves I will receive several applications.

I know that you, my good lady @ImaIma1 and her gang will not like what I'm saying but this is the hard truth.

You don't fight a battle that you know very well that you can't win.

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