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What Would Make A Man Do Change Of Name by pocohantas(f): 1:44pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
I was going through a thread yesterday and saw guys asking how their new names can reflect on official IDs. I am just curious, I know majority of women do official name change for marital reasons, but why would a man change his name? Even in the course of my work, I have seen men that changed all their names. It is not in my place to ask sha, but I am suspicious of a man that changes two or all his name. 1 Like
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Re: What Would Make A Man Do Change Of Name by Nobody: 1:47pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
It could be a case of disowning their fathers or vice versa. Secondly, it could be as a result of irregularities in the names they have in their school certs with the ones they opened a bank account and registered their BVN with. |
Re: What Would Make A Man Do Change Of Name by pocohantas(f): 1:51pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
CharisEleos: The former would be more applicable. Omo, if my papa disowns me abi I disown am, I no dey change anything. 1 Like |
Re: What Would Make A Man Do Change Of Name by Nobody: 1:55pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
pocohantas: You may have to, depending on the gravity of the matter. Some fathers can go to lengths to make you regret your sonship to him. Again, if it was a DNA fraud? You have no choice. |
Re: What Would Make A Man Do Change Of Name by Kondomatic(m): 2:07pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
I just didn't like the name. 1 Like |
Re: What Would Make A Man Do Change Of Name by izzou(m): 2:41pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
I noticed this trend some years back.. Some people change their surname because they don't know how it originated (something like that) You see a man bearing Okafor John He gives birth and names his son Okafor Peter. Peter grows up and feels he doesn't know Okafor, and shouldn't be bearing the name of an ancestor So Peter changes his name to John Peter 12 Likes |
Re: What Would Make A Man Do Change Of Name by iamyemiakins(m): 5:33pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
Religious beliefs. Some people change their name(s) or just the prefix to convert it from the traditional one(s) to match up with their religious beliefs. E.g. Ògúnsọlá to Ọlọrunsọlá Ogun is the god of iron while Olorun is God (Almighty). 3 Likes |
Re: What Would Make A Man Do Change Of Name by pocohantas(f): 5:44pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
Kondomatic: Why? Is your name Romanus Nwamu? iamyemiakins: Nice one. I have a friend that did this. Her name was Ndidi (Endurance), she changed it to something she considered positive. 6 Likes |
Re: What Would Make A Man Do Change Of Name by Bodyodour: 5:47pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
pocohantas:wetin that word mean for English? 1 Like |
Re: What Would Make A Man Do Change Of Name by Kondomatic(m): 5:50pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
pocohantas: It's not a bad name per se but I personally dislike it. |
Re: What Would Make A Man Do Change Of Name by 1Sharon(f): 8:49pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
After a divorce or separation If they find the name embarrassing |
Re: What Would Make A Man Do Change Of Name by 1Sharon(f): 8:50pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
iamyemiakins: Oluwa is still a pagan god, you know that right? 1 Like |
Re: What Would Make A Man Do Change Of Name by LadeeE: 3:36pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
Maybe he is using someone's certificate. 1 Like |
Re: What Would Make A Man Do Change Of Name by poshestmina(f): 3:02am On Jun 18, 2021 |
BAD NAMES : My surname (dad's surname) has been in existence since 1970/80's ,no one knows the meaning ,not even my grandpa's age grades . The closest I got on google (it was spelt with the first letter changed) means ' Son of Slavery' (very sezzy name inbtwn) ,so none of my brothers wives and kids are bearing the Old surname ,replaced it with my dad's name that means something good. Another one ,a friend changed her name from Patience to Olivia ,that she was tired of been patience . My cousin was named 'Forgive' at birth ,had to change her name because she kept reminding everyone of her mum's death (mum had premature delivery after hearing the husband was getting married to another woman,so she asked them to name the child ' Forgive' and passed away) CHANGE OF RELIGION/BELIEFS: Adamus,Musas,Gambos etc can become Christians and decide a name change . Same way Abel, Charles,Godwin can become muslim overnight and change their names. All those Ifagbemi,Ogunmola,Sangotobi change when they change religious perspectives. WRONG SURNAMES: Where I'm from,any child born out of wedlock bears the mother's surname except the man comes back to marry the woman ,now when some of this illegitimate kids grow up (especially Men) ,they mostly change back to their (runaway) father's names to connect back to their roots . Eg one very popular warlord in Niger Delta causing problems ear and dear . SOME JUST DISLIKE THE NAME(S) : If I was bearing Ignatius ,Dogood, Evangelism ,Nwaeke,Onwukanma . I'd gladly change them even change my gender join sef . 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Would Make A Man Do Change Of Name by The5DME(m): 9:43am On Jun 18, 2021 |
I'd like to change my surname to Rothschild. |
Re: What Would Make A Man Do Change Of Name by Emperormartin(m): 10:11pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
Name especially surname is an Identity. Changing it is changing your identity |
Re: What Would Make A Man Do Change Of Name by Nuelito: 1:08am On Jun 20, 2021 |
Am here to learn...let me get a glass of water 1 Like |
Re: What Would Make A Man Do Change Of Name by Divoc19(f): 8:03am On Jun 21, 2021 |
Am currently having serious issues with my names too. As a graphic designer those days (I played around with IDs and try them out at banks) I opened different bank accounts with different names. Then BVN came, with little knowledge and pressure by banks I registered one of my names I didn't like again. 2. My nin, international passport, marriage certificate, drivers license all have different names. In short I taya for my name matter Nigeria should just issue something like social security number to help we name changers |
Re: What Would Make A Man Do Change Of Name by chatinent: 8:16am On Jun 21, 2021 |
I'll change my name if it is meaning anything close to consolation, complaints, death plea, patience, or any stupid name I don't understand. You see all those names like onwughara, zereuwa..I can't bear it...and yes, my family and wife will bear my name directly. |
Re: What Would Make A Man Do Change Of Name by chatinent: 8:18am On Jun 21, 2021 |
Divoc19: You mah wey go dey use many names for different agencies, you didn't know they'd be repercussions? 1 Like |
Re: What Would Make A Man Do Change Of Name by chatinent: 8:21am On Jun 21, 2021 |
The5DME: I just hope this has nothing to do with your teeth.
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Re: What Would Make A Man Do Change Of Name by chatinent: 8:24am On Jun 21, 2021 |
My cousin was named 'Forgive' at birth ,had to change her name because she kept reminding everyone of her mum's death (mum had premature delivery after hearing the husband was getting married to another woman,so she asked them to name the child ' Forgive' and passed away) This is big deep, poshestmina. |
Re: What Would Make A Man Do Change Of Name by chatinent: 8:26am On Jun 21, 2021 |
LadeeE: Do people do this? |
Re: What Would Make A Man Do Change Of Name by Divoc19(f): 9:46am On Jun 21, 2021 |
Truly, I didn't know. But they are all my names. I still answer to them Lesson: Don't give children plenty names chatinent: |
Re: What Would Make A Man Do Change Of Name by Divoc19(f): 9:46am On Jun 21, 2021 |
Re: What Would Make A Man Do Change Of Name by poshestmina(f): 11:57am On Jun 21, 2021 |
chatinent: Yeah. She had a Cesarean section and drank fruit juice when no one was close to her ( said she was very thirsty and nurses were not around her) ,coupled with very high bp . Baby was in an Incubator . She got swollen and couldn't make it. So she said if the child survived,they should name her' Forgive'. This man was one of the richest man according to stories ,was supplying Dried fish and foodstuffs from Maiduguri to the whole East . Baba became a pauper before he died few years after the wife. Thankfully most of the kids are doing well . Forgive and the kid from the other woman are inseparable now and schooling somewhere in Europe. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Would Make A Man Do Change Of Name by chatinent: 4:14pm On Jun 21, 2021 |
poshestmina: Such a happy ending... |
Re: What Would Make A Man Do Change Of Name by The5DME(m): 4:34pm On Jun 21, 2021 |
chatinent:Not at all. |
Re: What Would Make A Man Do Change Of Name by Naughtysex: 5:49am On Jun 29, 2021 |
There are many and different reasons to make a man want to change his surname In my own case, my surname is my old family name and it's overshadowing the sacrifices my late father made for us as no one is bearing his I remember when i named my first child and replace the family name with my father's name (has her surname), my sisters were so happy and really thank me for giving my father's name the recognition it deserves 2) Another reason is Anytime someone sees or hears my names (surname inclusive), especially those who come from Aniocha South in Delta State or anyone who has been in Nigeria police force for long ,there are some funny question they normally ask me (after knowing that i truly belong to the family) Questions like: why your own con different na, others are seriously rich. etc So as i am now, i have made the final consultation within myself, my next step is to legally change the surname from my well known family name to my father's name because i want it to be known also My point is that men change their surname for different reasons |
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