Nlers, if I am guilty of the following comments:

1. You don't call me/ You no dey call person.
2. You forgot me/ You don forget me.
3.You don't check on me / You nor dey ask about your guy.

Have I done anything bad, has a crime been committed really?

I and I believe many of us often get this comments when we meet, run into, or finally get to talk or chat with acquainted persons we haven't meet or engaged for a while. Does this really make me a bad person, if I dont call or chat a friend/family/colleague unless there is a reason or event for it?

I have met a couple of people within this couple of days I have spent here on earth, most of whom have come and gone. As much as I really do wish some never left, I much more wish I never met, and will never meet some again.

There are persons that I unavoidably meet or talk to on daily basis and I can't even cut my nails for their sake, because they really do not deserve it. Whereas, there are persons I haven't seen or talk to for years, but if they come tru today, I will give nothing less than my best to them.

So back to my first question, how do you deal in face of people with this mind set and challenge?

Naija hard bro. It's not your fault. People hardly think about people or remember people! Everybody dey find daily bread. Anytime we see, we greet....then movement!


Any free time you have to surf the web, you can send them a hi/hello message on WhatsApp. It's not hard!

There are bothering issues to worry about. Men dey find job!

Barbiturate:
Naija hard bro. It's not your fault. People hardly think about people or remember people! Everybody dey find daily bread. Anytime we see, we greet....then movement!

There are bothering issues to worry about. Men dey find job!

Baba you know. This is just the basic reason! Country hard and the man time is not even enough to fetch man enough bread, but I nor fit they explain to everybody especially people wey soppose know.

I gas just feel I haven't hurt anyone just because I didn't remotely contact you to greet...