Good evening heart doctors on nairaland, I want to kindly remain anonymous for the sake of the question am about to ask.
I'm a 28 years old father of one, and there's this lady I met and instantly fell in love with about 4 yrs ago. And that relationship has produced a lovely girl.
But the dilemma now, is that she has successfully drove me out of loving her the way I do cos of her insecurities. She get jealous so easily, nags at every slightest provocations. Please I want to kindly ask, how can a brother peacefully break free from this kind of relationship? I don't see us settling together, cos am afraid it might become worse. Mature advice please.

The question is what's fuelling the insecurities? Is there something you're doing that's making her jealous? You have to talk things out and try to listen to her. Breaking up might not be the solution.

Is she the mother of your child?
Seat her down and tell her u are no longer interested in the relationship, if she likes u, she will repent and come back to apologise
If she dosent den u will enjoy peace of mind and prepare ur heart for the real deal

There are good women out there, don't judge by ur woman character, they can be like children too, annoyed and snappy for inconsequential things esp wen on their period..lol, so try to be understanding when the next one comes

funshint:
The question is what's fuelling the insecurities? Is there something you're doing that's making her jealous? You have to talk things out and try to listen to her. Breaking up might not be the solution.

bro, i have demonstrated love to her in my own best way possible.
she just doesn't like to communicate anything. When she gets angry, that's it for her. She has confessed to have cheated on me herself.but i still forgave her, I know what led her to doing that. But this girl does not want to change.

BirtherOfKings:
Is she the mother of your child?
Seat her down and tell her u are no longer interested in the relationship, if she likes u, she will repent and come back to apologise
If she dosent den u will enjoy peace of mind and prepare ur heart for the real deal

There are good women out there, don't judge by ur woman character, they can be like children too, annoyed and snappy for inconsequential things esp wen on their period..lol, so try to be understanding when the next one comes

bro thank you very much for ur own submission. I've really gat to end things with her, but peacefully though. She's a very nice girl no doubt, but she's got serious insecurity issues. I've tried to talk sense into her, but anytime I try, she picks offenses everytime. Plus she's so unproductive to add to the whole situation.