Sunnybabe:
Please read through and pardon my typos

I loss all my life savings last year when I did an online investment (Binary options). After that I re-packaged my self and moved on. I tried to invest more on physical business and build up my graphics design skills. I bought a good and durable laptop for the work and it's moving gradually. I later start learning photographic editing to add to my skills.

Things start stumbling again when I was call up for NYSC January this year and I was posted to where there is no light and other basic amenities which really affect my work.

This is the thread I created and narrated how NYSC bleeped me up
https://www.nairaland.com/6704832/nysc-done-me-more-harm

Even with the hard and frustrating situation that I was, I kept pushing it like that and trying hard to make things comfortable for me, not until come back from my PPA on July 12 and found out that our lodge is been bugled and all my valuable things and means of serving have been stolen and till now no glimpse of hope from anybody.

Please I seriously need help as I don't want to subject my self under depression and psychological trauma which is already all over me.

Thanks

OlawaleBammie:
Guy u better dont despair

Sunnybabe:
hummm...bro, am not and I wont

I just think I should voice out so as to get relieved and maybe I can be helped here by seeing something to do to fetch me atleast a laptop for my work

OlawaleBammie:
Guy u better dont despair


See lemme tell u the hard truth u re yet to know, or maybe u know it but u r hiding from reality.

1) life is like a jungle

2)in life, all man for himself

3)if u re not successful, u re the worst in ur family, nobody wil remember u. Dey wil see u as a burden

4)village people has a way of pulling someone down at the brink of success so watch out.

5) No amount of money donated to u now wil lift u to ur destination, so put ur mind away from eyeing some alms from here, i would rather advise that instead of u to tink about the present, tink future first, and wat u tink about the future wil give u the inner strength u need to propel.

6) see everybody as ur friends as well as ur enemy(only the wise can understand this)

7) try to distance ursef from ur loved ones, i didn't say u should neglect them o, distance in the sense that u walk far away from ur comfort zone, it help many of the tyms, especially if u re having the feeling that ur problems might stem from within. (e get why i talk so)



Dont say i am foolish, i once found myself in similar situation, I felt like I wasn't existing, sometimes I would even be feeling like maybe my destiny has been used, but thank God today dat I took the steps above, especially No7, and i refuse to deeply associate with those at home ever since.

Sunnybabe:
hummm...bro, am not and I wont

I just think I should voice out so as to get relieved and maybe I can be helped here by seeing something to do to fetch me atleast a laptop for my work

OlawaleBammie:
Guy u better dont despair


See lemme tell u the hard truth u re yet to know, or maybe u know it but u r hiding from reality.

1) life is like a jungle

2)in life, all man for himself

3)if u re not successful, u re the worst in ur family, nobody wil remember u. Dey wil see u as a burden

4)village people has a way of pulling someone down at the brink of success so watch out.

5) No amount of money donated to u now wil lift u to ur destination, so put ur mind away from eyeing some alms from here, i would rather advise that instead of u to tink about the present, tink future first, and wat u tink about the future wil give u the inner strength u need to propel.

6) see everybody as ur friends as well as ur enemy(only the wise can understand this)

7) try to distance ursef from ur loved ones, i didn't say u should neglect them o, distance in the sense that u walk far away from ur comfort zone, it help many of the tyms, especially if u re having the feeling that ur problems might stem from within. (e get why i talk so)



Dont say i am foolish, i once found myself in similar situation, I felt like I wasn't existing, sometimes I would even be feeling like maybe my destiny has been used, but thank God today dat I took the steps above, especially No7, and i refuse to deeply associate with those at home ever since.

Bigredmachine:


Fantastic piece of advice...

OlawaleBammie:
Guy u better dont despair


See lemme tell u the hard truth u re yet to know, or maybe u know it but u r hiding from reality.

1) life is like a jungle

2)in life, all man for himself

3)if u re not successful, u re the worst in ur family, nobody wil remember u. Dey wil see u as a burden

4)village people has a way of pulling someone down at the brink of success so watch out.

5) No amount of money donated to u now wil lift u to ur destination, so put ur mind away from eyeing some alms from here, i would rather advise that instead of u to tink about the present, tink future first, and wat u tink about the future wil give u the inner strength u need to propel.

6) see everybody as ur friends as well as ur enemy(only the wise can understand this)

7) try to distance ursef from ur loved ones, i didn't say u should neglect them o, distance in the sense that u walk far away from ur comfort zone, it help many of the tyms, especially if u re having the feeling that ur problems might stem from within. (e get why i talk so)



Dont say i am foolish, i once found myself in similar situation, I felt like I wasn't existing, sometimes I would even be feeling like maybe my destiny has been used, but thank God today dat I took the steps above, especially No7, and i refuse to deeply associate with those at home ever since.