nnennachiji:


That means you have not tried adopting
It’s even more expensive and the process exhausting Just pray you are not in this situation

Are you serious?

I always thought it's just a situation where you visit an orphanage home and pick the baby you want to adopt and then start the adoption process. I never knew it's this expensive and tedious as well.

Well we learn everyday. I pray when I get married I never have to think of any of that sha

YourhealthNG2:
It takes grace and mercy of God to surmount some challenges in marriage, especially poverty, childlessness and infidelity.

These ones have succumbed to their own challenges causing their marriage to collapse beyond repair. It is best for all parties to go their separate way.

Better than dying there........ societal pressure is the measure problem in our marriages today

srclark:
Marriage is about companionship and not childbearing (childbearing is just a plus to it ) But it is so annoying our society has overrated the issue of marriage and childbearing, that is one of the reasons you see so many failed marriages all over the place and the issue of paternity fraud is on the rise every day. When people learn to understand marriage is more about companionship then better choices will be made when selecting their partners and also learn not to bow to society pressure on these issues, my own opinion.

Thank you!

nnennachiji:

That means you have not tried adopting
It’s even more expensive and the process exhausting Just pray you are not in this situation

Yet many in that same country are also adopting kids each day? Na to sell IVF you dey here to do?

srclark:
Marriage is about companionship and not childbearing (childbearing is just a plus to it ) But it is so annoying our society has overrated the issue of marriage and childbearing, that is one of the reasons you see so many failed marriages all over the place and the issue of paternity fraud is on the rise every day. When people learn to understand marriage is more about companionship then better choices will be made when selecting their partners and also learn not to bow to society pressure on these issues, my own opinion.

Children are the fruits of marriage, the way profit is to business

Fortune2016:


When they can't afford such
What do you suggest they do

Become river niger & river benue..........

nzeobi:
Children are the fruits of marriage, the way profit is to business

There are other fruits of a marriage.

Fortune2016:


When they can't afford such
What do you suggest they do

Let both of them go out and test run to know who something is wrong with

Kajaard:


They can try adoption. Last time I checked adoption doesn't cost an arm and leg.

And there are lots of babies/children waiting to be adopted.

Same thing I thought.. So many kids in those orphanage homes are looking for parents to call mum and dad..

Kobojunkie:
There are other fruits of a marriage.

You can name them

If they have money they should go for ivf it’s not a sin. But incase they don’t have they should hold on to God. Meanwhile I’m into fertility issues and we give treatment in a way it will be beneficial to both spouses. Sometimes it’s the mans that’s inadequate here but the woman will be blamed. All the same contact and reach me on 08.177.36.78.75 call or WhatsApp for more info on our fertility consults

Kobicove:
I can't say I blame the woman for wanting out of the marriage especially if she know the fault is not from her

How can you say that? Watch them come for you.

nzeobi:

You can name them

Companion is the biggest one.

Kobojunkie:
Companion is the biggest one.

Your friend, brother, sister or colleague can be a companion

nzeobi:
Your friend, brother, sister or colleague can be a companion

Nope, because those you listed cannot become one with you like God declared of marriage.

Kobojunkie:
Nope, because those you listed cannot become one with you like God declared of marriage.

No be everything be about God or religion and holiness. This is the definition of companion

nzeobi:

No be everything be about God or religion and holiness. This is the definition of companion

Companionship between a man and wife can't be compared to that before other relationships.

Kobojunkie:
Companionship between a man and wife can't be compared to that before other relationships.

Please stop quoting me believe whatever you want or define English as you wish

nzeobi:

Please stop quoting me believe whatever you want or define English as you wish

For this reason, marriage companionship requires a contract, which other forms of companionship you suggested do not require.

Better to be childless than having yahoo child

Kajaard:


They can try adoption. Last time I checked adoption doesn't cost an arm and leg.

And there are lots of babies/children waiting to be adopted.

It's very expensive & very difficult to do

Oh

Fortune2016:


Lets pray not to be in that state

You think is easy to be childless for years

Patient will run away

Reproach may even set in

Let God have mercy on us shaa

A resounding Aaaaaamen!

Hmmm

Both statements emerged from the same truth.
woman wanted to kill her husband because she has tired of the union as a result of childlesness. It is now left to the judge to either dissolve the union to protect life or to ease the woman's tension through other means.

She should still persevere.

Testimony1988:
She should still persevere.

Her husband dragged her to court and accused her of wanting to kill him. If you ask me, that seems the excuse every man uses when trying to get rid of their wife.

nzeobi:


Children are the fruits of marriage, the way profit is to business

so you think everyone will get married, or you think all married people will have kids guy this life no balance. Many people out there are facing real-time problems and challenges marriage or childbearing is the least on their mind

Kobojunkie:
Her husband dragged her to court and accused her of wanting to kill him. If you ask me, that seems the excuse every man uses when trying to get rid of their wife.

lolz.