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The Art Of Apology:how To Say ‘sorry’ The Correct Way by PrinceMike24: 12:55pm On Oct 09, 2021
When in love, we are not always able to stay calm and say the right things, especially if we have an issue within relationships that needs to be fixed. If you did something wrong or rude to a person you love you might know how awful an aftertaste of a fight is. Don't lose a chance to build a happy life with a person you love because of foolish pride but find the best approach and apologize sincerely to someone you love.
The way #1: WITH THE WORDS

You need to think carefully through your fight and realize the fact you are wrong. The best thing to choose the right words to apologize is to put yourself in your partner's shoes. Ask yourself several questions:

- why does she feel upset?

- what did you do to make her feel that way?

- what can you do to help her recover from this situation?

Imagine what you would like to hear from your wife or husband after a huge fight. Also, if the topic of your dispute is controversial then offer a compromise that will help you both to find a solution to this situation. Your girlfriend might not be ready for the conversation which is fine. Simply let her know you love her and it was never your goal to make her hurt. That will calm her down.


The way #2: SAY THE HARDEST WORD

It is not only Elton John who finds sorry to be the hardest word to say. Most people find this word as a showoff of weakness whereas we believe it is an indicator of a wise and caring person. It is okay to admit you were wrong or ask for forgiveness when rude chatting took place.

And make sure to pick the right words. You need to develop and improve your communication skill. Whatever one may say, words are important.



The way #3: BE READY FOR CHANGES

Relationships imply compromises as every person is different and we need to give way to someone's opinion to coexist in peace. Tell your girlfriend you are ready to change if the matter of your fight is important for you. Ask her, what she would like to change in your relationships without interrupting and commenting but listening to her carefully.

You can be a bad boy in the beginning of your relationship, but you will need to evolve further.

Sometimes, a boyfriend or girlfriend might require more time to think over the situation so give it to her if needed.

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