im a young man in my thirties,i was a player for several years and in the process i must hav broken the heart of more than a hundred ladies not to talk of one night stands.now ive cleaned up my acts but ive been unable to find true love.i dont want to go back to my old ways but im so lonely.what do i do?

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Well nemesis is one way to put it . . karma is another name for it.

But one thing though, if you truly repent, all hopes might not be lost. Be patient, live life and hope for the best. Don't think of rushing things, or going back to your old self, will only make your healing process longer

Life has a way of surprising us when we least expect it!!

Come unto me all ye that are sick of heave load and i will give you rest

Go and read your bible and God will help you.

Nemesis? I won't call this nemesis.
Catch HIV;
Get beaten d shit out of by an ex-girlfriend's brothers' thugs;
Get to an interview for a lucrative 6-digit-paying job in a multinational company n' finding an irate ex- as head of the examining team. . etc . . . that's nemesis.

Nemesis? I won't call this nemesis.
Catch HIV;
Get beaten d shit out of by an ex-girlfriend's brothers' thugs;
Get to an interview for a lucrative 6-digit-paying job in a multinational company n' finding an irate ex- as head of the examining team. . etc . . . that's nemesis.

guy u know me before !!!!!!!! its not really like i wanted to hurt those girls,it was youthful exuberance.if only you know ive gone thru this last 2years.i think ive suffered enough!!!!!

no, u neva start

wts up with guys ?is it that uve never made a mistake or what.we've all done something we later regret doing but i belive once you make up your mind to change it should not be used against you anymore.na u sabi ,when i find the right girl,i will send you her picture ayeesha.

its good that u've now changed ur ways. True love does not just turn up out of the blue, it takes time and is hard work. U have to be patient, ur right girl might just be some1 who u know.
Repent, ask God for forgivness and guidance. Dont go back to ur old ways, as Gods time is the best time.

Well nemesis is one way to put it . . karma is another name for it.

But one thing though, if you truly repent, all hopes might not be lost. Be patient, live life and hope for the best. Don't think of rushing things, or going back to your old self, will only make your healing process longer

Life has a way of surprising us when we least expect it!! QUOTED BY CUTEASS I THINK U WIL WALK UP TO DE RIGHT ONE, ONE DAY JUST ASK GOD FOR FORGIVENESS ND NEVA GO BACK TO UR SINFUL WAYS AGAIN ND ALWAYS PRAY TO GOD AS HE SAID IN HIS WORD THAT HE DAT FINDETH A GOOD WIFE FINDETH A GOOD THING ND OBTAINETH FAVOUR FROM HIM AND TELL HIM TO DIRECT U TO THE RIGHT ONE FOR U.

As long as you're alive and able to run, nemesis has not caught up with u. You're probably going through a period of psychological transformation and adaptaion to the new "Good Fella" kind of life. . . Enjoy it while it lasts cos you will miss the feeling so much when its gone. . . Experience is the justification for experience!