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M by huutmannn(m): 9:03pm On Oct 29, 2021
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Re: M by Fahdiga(m): 9:05pm On Oct 29, 2021
1 billion dollars

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Re: M by deen84(m): 9:06pm On Oct 29, 2021
Am waiting for the Elders in the forum here to learn Please move to Front Page
Re: M by Nobody: 9:06pm On Oct 29, 2021
At least N2,000,000/month

huutmannn:
You'd agree that a lot of men are still single because they feel that they do not earn enough to raise a family.

How much do you think is reasonable for a man to earn before considering marriage?.

You can share your experience or that of a friend to inspire a young man today!�
Re: M by 6ixT8: 9:13pm On Oct 29, 2021
so much that u feel so secured.

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Re: M by DavidHarry(m): 9:18pm On Oct 29, 2021
He should earn enough to be able to take care of himself first before family. How much depends on whatever you're comfortable with.

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Re: M by Nobody: 9:19pm On Oct 29, 2021
at least, 150. Your woman must also be working.

Then plan, plan, plan and work around and within your means.

Most importantly, Plan the number of children you wanna have and stick with it. Not losing guard to avoid stories that touch.

Live within your means per time.

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Re: M by Samfloxin(m): 10:24pm On Oct 29, 2021
There is no specific amount that answers this question. It depends on your location, a person can survive with 80k in Onitsha but you may not survive with that in Abuja . House rent in Enugu is not the same in Abuja or Portharcout. More over your culture of spending also comes to play but if you must ask this question,ask somebody in your location

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Re: M by Oglock(m): 10:57pm On Oct 29, 2021
Irredeeemable Simps Are Useless...All Of Them
Re: M by SnowSmile: 11:03pm On Oct 29, 2021
Mercychen:
at least, 150. Your woman must also be working.

Then plan, plan, plan and work around and within your means.

Most importantly, Plan the number of children you wanna have and stick with it. Not losing guard to avoid stories that touch.

Live within your means per time.



It's very easy to spot a lady whom have never walked down the aisle, before ,on the internet,with the kind of advice they give and opinions they have about marriage.

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Re: M by tensazangetsu20(m): 12:49am On Oct 30, 2021
If you ask me I would say at least 2 million a month.

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Re: M by MistaMann: 8:02am On Oct 30, 2021
huutmannn:
You'd agree that a lot of men are still single because they feel that they do not earn enough to raise a family.

How much do you think is reasonable for a man to earn before considering marriage?.

You can share your experience or that of a friend to inspire a young man today!�

I do hear/see guys taking the financial responsibility of their girlfriends, while others take care of it themselves.

There is no major difference when you are single compared to when married. Maybe you only added a mouth to feed in the case of if the wife isn't working or contributing financially.

But when you bring children in to the equation the whole narrative changes.

The decision to marry, have children and number of children you wished is greatly influenced by the type of life you want to leave or give your children.

If you don't mind living in a slum, eating 2 or less square meal a day, your children attend all these public schools without sit/desk, not be able to afford 10k emergency medical fees and so on. Sure with a salary or income of 20k you can marry and have 5 kids.

While on the other hand if you want your child(ren) to attend a good school paying like 50k school fees, visit a fairly good hospital which you can afford, eat good food, wear good clothes, leave in a good good rented or personal house in a good neighborhood and so on. Your current income will tell you if you can pull such type of life.

The more luxurious life you want to leave or give your children the more you have to earn. So decided for yourself.

There are people earning 20k, they birth 5 children. Sure they know the kind of life they want to leave and also give their children.

There are people earning 500k with only 2 kids. They wish to have more but they feel their income can't accommodate such the life they want.

There are those with 500k whom are not yet married with the excuse that they don't earn much.

So OP what type of life do you want to leave and also give your children, there you'll have your answer.

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Re: M by Sonnobax15(m): 8:07am On Oct 30, 2021
lipsrsealed
Re: M by debbydams(f): 8:10am On Oct 30, 2021
Whala for who Neva marry
Re: M by ibechris(m): 5:48pm On Oct 30, 2021
If u are ready to marry.

Pls,u need a capital of not less than 2million naira in your account. Do not just start telling me that u earn 300k because that won't save u when another thing like COvid 19 surfaces.

Many hard working men and women lost their jobs and some relocated to the village because they never had plans for tomorrow.

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Re: M by AutoChick4U(f): 9:10pm On Oct 30, 2021
Mercychen:
at least, 150. Your woman must also be working.

Then plan, plan, plan and work around and within your means.

Most importantly, Plan the number of children you wanna have and stick with it. Not losing guard to avoid stories that touch.

Live within your means per time.


So a lady who ain't working at d time of her wedding is doomed to stay unemployed forever?
Re: M by Nobody: 9:25pm On Oct 30, 2021
AutoChick4U:
So a lady who ain't working at d time of her wedding is doomed to stay unemployed forever?

It's all part of the planning. You don't jump into marriage without any tangible source of income.

Both of you plan and wait until everyone is set to some extent before thinking of moving it to the next level. It all boils down to planning.
Re: M by 2special(m): 6:26am On Oct 31, 2021
Even if he earns ₦300,000 a month what happens if he lost his job 3 months after the wedding? Will he divorce the Lady

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