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The Secret Causes Of Breakup In Modern Relationship by KamalGS: 7:05am On Nov 06, 2021
*There is nothing like love at first sight*

You are only infatuating, not loving.
Infatuation simply means the act of loving senselessly and that is what you got at the first sight. Your relationship with this will lead to 99% break-up in the long run.
Love takes time; infatuation could happen at first sight. It is impossible to love at first sight because you cannot know a person at first glance. What you actually feel is an attraction at first sight—usually because of the person’s physical appearance—and too much of it is infatuation.Yes, normal romantic love begins with attraction, but it cannot be called “love” until your love grows through a deep personal connection like a friend. It takes time to develop that kind of care for someone. Have you ever wondered why you like your partner? If your honest answer is his/her being good-looking, then it is probably not true love yet. It could be mere infatuation or the pride of being with a head-turner.Genuine love is not based on physical appearance. You love a person regardless of how he/she looks because it is not about what your eyes see. It is about what your mind sees. What matters more is how the person means to you.How will you convince yourself that what you feel for your love ones right now is true love? Is it just because you feel like the world stands still whenever he/she passes by? Or is it because you cannot get him/her out of your head?Sometimes, what we think to be love is actually infatuation. It is too much admiration for someone that causes you poor judgments and preoccupation. You feel so much attraction to the point that you become head over heels for that person. It is usually mistaken for love—but it is actually way different.
Love ‘grows’; infatuation ‘falls’.We are used to saying we ‘fall in love’. However, the real thing should be ‘grow in love’. Falling is characterized by uncomfortable behavior—and that is how infatuation happens—you are suddenly spell-bound by an uncontrollable emotion.On the other hand, true love usually has a stronger basis than emotion. It is always founded on time spent together, friendship, respect, and trust.

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Re: The Secret Causes Of Breakup In Modern Relationship by dollynnn(f): 7:23am On Nov 06, 2021
Re: The Secret Causes Of Breakup In Modern Relationship by olaitann93(m): 4:04pm On Nov 06, 2021
There are some meaningful things here but some people don leave love for people wey get am.
Re: The Secret Causes Of Breakup In Modern Relationship by Bentiens: 4:13pm On Nov 06, 2021
This is wisdom
Thanks

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