Since I was born I love been alone, when am in boarding house am always alone, even at the university I am always alone at my work am always alone and is given me low self esteem I can't miss up with others . I can't stage 4mins convo with the opposite sex am so sigh as a man.
Pls people look me weird pls my only friend at d moment is Nairaland I need prayers
Suicide always come across my mind due to set backs all my mates are ahead.
My father told me am the least among my mates

Abeg I get free sniper comon go make money B4 u dey contemplating on suicide

I wondered why your father should make such a derogatory statement about you, anyways don't mind him. God created you in His own image and likeness and His breathe is within you, therefore, you a person of great value.
You are just an introvert and that does not make you less human. So believe in yourself.
If you are a Christian, know that you are not alone because God is with you and He loves you. Try and involve in a hobby like writing or drawing and dancing. if possible go and learn a skill. Please, know that suicide is not an option. If you need someone to talk to please contact me.

Lovelash:
I wondered why your father should make such a derogatory statement about you, anyways don't mind him. God created you in His own image and likeness and His breathe is within you, therefore, you a person of great value.
You are just an introvert and that does not make you less human. So believe in yourself.
If you are a Christian, know that you are not alone because God is with you and He loves you. Try and involve in a hobby like writing or drawing and dancing. if possible go and learn a skill. Please, know that suicide is not an option. If you need someone to talk to please contact me.

thanks sir

There isn’t anything like spirit of loneliness

Workch:
There isn’t anything like spirit of loneliness

OK my own case is worst am far away from my family despite still in my family house am far away from my friends despite seeing them

kenzysmith:
Since I was born I love been alone, when am in boarding house am always alone, even at the university I am always alone at my work am always alone and is given me low self esteem I can't miss up with others . I can't stage 4mins convo with the opposite sex am so sigh as a man.
Pls people look me weird pls my only friend at d moment is Nairaland I need prayers
Suicide always come across my mind due to set backs all my mates are ahead.
My father told me am the least among my mates

I guess we have many things in common, friend. But I had some major trouble that made me start seeking, trusting and obeying Jesus. Don't let that offend you, friend. Cos I was like that: deeply rooted in the world system.

Let Him set you free from people's opinions, including your Dad's and other close relatives' Opinions. You will still love and respect them, but their opinions in some personal areas of yours will be as Dung (poo) to you. Because God's Opinions about you would only matter to you.

Lonely? Well, to be Frank, it's safer to be lonely in this world: I've had friends and I have been lonely. People don't really Love themselves... That's why they gossip and backbite, and are sometimes curious to know your problems to fuel their next gossip about you. They want to Impress you and belittle you, just as we want to do to them too. True friends are dangerously scarce: I mean the David and Jonathan type. Not the common Judas and Jesus type, or the Cain and Abel type.

That's the way friend: to seek Jesus and obey Him.

About girls, well, I was terribly shy in those days (in sec. School). I made it look like I was "proofing levels". But I was enslaved by lusts, Pornography and Dirty thoughts inside. I try to talk reasonably and normally these days. God saved me from all that; but trying to become a professional in that is like looking for Greater Trouble. As more and more people are getting destroyed through fornication/adultery and other sexual sins as common.

Matt.11.28 - COME to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will GIVE YOU REST.
Matt.11.29 - Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.

God bless

anu3:


I guess we have many things in common, friend. But I had some major trouble that made me start seeking, trusting and obeying Jesus. Don't let that offend you, friend. Cos I was like that: deeply rooted in the world system.

Let Him set you free from people's opinions, including your Dad's and other close relatives' Opinions. You will still love and respect them, but their opinions in some personal areas of yours will be as Dung (poo) to you. Because God's Opinions about you would only matter to you.

Lonely? Well, to be Frank, it's safer to be lonely in this world: I've had friends and I have been lonely. People don't really Love themselves... That's why they gossip and backbite, and are sometimes curious to know your problems to fuel their next gossip about you. They want to Impress you and belittle you, just as we want to do to them too. True friends are dangerously scarce: I mean the David and Jonathan type. Not the common Judas and Jesus type, or the Cain and Abel type.

That's the way friend: to seek Jesus and obey Him.

About girls, well, I was terribly shy in those days (in sec. School). I made it look like I was "proofing levels". But I was enslaved by lusts, Pornography and Dirty thoughts inside. I try to talk reasonably and normally these days. God saved me from all that; but trying to become a professional in that is like looking for Greater Trouble. As more and more people are getting destroyed through fornication/adultery and other sexual sins as common.

Matt.11.28 - COME to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will GIVE YOU REST.
Matt.11.29 - Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.

God bless

God bless u sir your advise lift my spirti

kenzysmith:
God bless u sir your advise lift my spirti

Amen... May we get grace from God to Overcome Permanently.