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Victory Only In Terms Of Defeat by Oyindamolah: 7:00pm On Dec 12, 2021
Growing up, we have been taught to think about positive things only in terms of negative ones.

We understand victory only in terms of defeat.

In terms of money, people think that providing value is robbing someone else of money.

Poor people would look for any reason to justify their hate for rich people.

People tend to think that the world is hostile and the system needs to be "beaten”.

People tend to think that other people are "in competition" with them (leading to comparing oneself to others, jealousy and other problems) etc.

This has a lot of problems on the deeper levels of our mental functioning.

As people, we have to start getting used to the idea that “I can actually win even more, if I don’t beat anyone or anything”

We will have more peace and calm when we realise that people can win without us losing.



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Re: Victory Only In Terms Of Defeat by Oyindamolah: 9:17pm On Apr 17, 2023
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