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Marriage Proposal: Army Kept Female Soldier In Safe Guardroom by ijustdey: 10:44am On Dec 21, 2021
By Kingsley Omonobi


A female soldier who recently got engaged to a corps member at the Yikpata Orientation Camp of the National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) in Kwara State was never by the army authorities.

Rather for perpetrating an act of indiscipline contrary to the code if the service, she was kept in a safe facility (guardroom) where erring personnel are kept in the enforcement of disciplinary discipline.

This is just as it emerged that the soldier may get a soft landing with a strong warning/reprimand over the incident.

A video of a male corps member proposing to a female soldier at the NYSC Camp recently went viral in the social media which is contrary to military laws.

In the clip, the lovers were seen sharing intimate moments while the corps member wore the lady’s military cap as she stood directly behind him. They thereafter shared a kiss to the delight of other corps members filming the incident.

A military officer maintained that the female soldier was never ‘arrested’, but was only going through a normal disciplinary measure to send a clear warning to others who may attempt to flout military rules.

“If the female soldier had not engaged in public romance in uniform at the orientation camp, but outside, nobody would have bothered.

“If she is not sanctioned, others may just be emboldened to do even worse than she did. Remember that military laws and regulations are different from that of the civil service.

“The military, as an institution, has its laws, and regulations that need to be followed and complied with, and if they are being abused by officers and soldiers, without any sanction, then it is only a matter of time before the institution loses its respect in the eyes of the public.”

A senior staff of the NYSC disclosed that even the male youth corps member who proposed to the female soldier was queried and reprimanded for sharing the video on social media, though he denied sharing it himself.

Army spokesperson, Brig Gen Onyema Nwachukwu while speaking on the development said that it is an act of indiscipline for a trainer to engage in an affair with her trainee.

Describing the act as fraternisation in military terms, he said it is an act of gross misconduct for personnel to engage in romance while in uniform.

His words, “The Nigerian Army has codes of conduct, rules and regulations guiding our personnel whenever and wherever they are deployed for duty.

“As personnel, her task was to train the corps members and not to indulge in an amorous relationship with any of them.

Mr Nwachukwu said the public perception would have been different if a male soldier had proposed to a female trainee, adding that it (public) would have seen it as taking advantage of the female trainee.

“These rules were put in place for the purpose of proper administration and discipline in the Army. If I may ask, what if the soldier was a male? How would the public have perceived his action? Definitely, it would have been perceived as taking advantage of a female corps member, a trainee, put in his care for training.

“The same applies here. The Nigerian military like all others has its disciplinary codes, distinct from that of the general society. Every personnel has voluntarily undertaken to be bound by this code,” he noted.

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/12/marriage-proposal-army-did-not-arrest-soldier-only-kept-her-in-safe-guardroom-source/

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Re: Marriage Proposal: Army Kept Female Soldier In Safe Guardroom by WiszyFraud: 10:45am On Dec 21, 2021
No matter how dem put am..... Na still arrest ! undecided



Dem suppose carry their love and engagement drama go outside the camp premises, or even do am privately.

No be everything be social media

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Re: Marriage Proposal: Army Kept Female Soldier In Safe Guardroom by WibusJaga: 10:45am On Dec 21, 2021


No difference between 6 & half-dozen.

If the female soldier had not engaged in public romance in uniform at the orientation camp, but outside, nobody would have bothered.
This is where she erred. She was carried away by love.

This is just as it emerged that the soldier may get a soft landing with a strong warning/reprimand over the incident.
Abeg make una release her. She should go & sin no more.

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Re: Marriage Proposal: Army Kept Female Soldier In Safe Guardroom by MEGA4BILLION(m): 10:50am On Dec 21, 2021
Change of tune

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Re: Marriage Proposal: Army Kept Female Soldier In Safe Guardroom by amnesty7: 10:53am On Dec 21, 2021
The difference between six and half a dozen.

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Re: Marriage Proposal: Army Kept Female Soldier In Safe Guardroom by Jidemoo: 10:53am On Dec 21, 2021
Seen and noted
Re: Marriage Proposal: Army Kept Female Soldier In Safe Guardroom by hisexcellency34: 10:55am On Dec 21, 2021
Rubbish talk. Safe guardroom. So that Nigerians will not mob her or what?

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Re: Marriage Proposal: Army Kept Female Soldier In Safe Guardroom by LibertyRep: 11:04am On Dec 21, 2021
Emotions and sentiments aside, she shouldn't have done that public romance while in the army uniform.

The Nigeria Army, as well as other institutions should be guided by ethics, rules and regulations and not mere sentiments and emotions.

We can only plead for soft landing for her.

Good luck to the love birds.

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Re: Marriage Proposal: Army Kept Female Soldier In Safe Guardroom by Nobody: 11:04am On Dec 21, 2021
amnesty7:
The difference between six and half a dozen.
shebi na your plan to finish me today with laff abi?

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Re: Marriage Proposal: Army Kept Female Soldier In Safe Guardroom by Siwisheswereesh: 11:09am On Dec 21, 2021
Why did they make the whole proposal thing go public That's where they went wrong.

And how can a soldier not know the rules and regulations guiding her profession

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Re: Marriage Proposal: Army Kept Female Soldier In Safe Guardroom by Lattop(m): 11:13am On Dec 21, 2021
I hate this public proposal of a thing with passion

The Army should just release the Lady jare

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Re: Marriage Proposal: Army Kept Female Soldier In Safe Guardroom by Nobody: 11:17am On Dec 21, 2021
The army should warn her not to do such a thing again after releasing her from the guardroom.

Though I see nothing wrong in what she did.

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Re: Marriage Proposal: Army Kept Female Soldier In Safe Guardroom by amnesty7: 12:42pm On Dec 21, 2021
Vickyvice:
shebi na your plan to finish me today with laff abi?
grin grin grin
Re: Marriage Proposal: Army Kept Female Soldier In Safe Guardroom by fourboys: 12:49pm On Dec 21, 2021
Ogas don finally bring her closer grin grin grin

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Re: Marriage Proposal: Army Kept Female Soldier In Safe Guardroom by Nobody: 1:29pm On Dec 21, 2021
These punks are even more sick than I thought? Safe guardroom? Who's threatening her safety?

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Re: Marriage Proposal: Army Kept Female Soldier In Safe Guardroom by Sonnobax15(m): 6:39pm On Dec 21, 2021
grin
Our army na joke abeg grin

Which one be safe guardroom? grin

So the ones that proposed over there in Turkey,dem no get guardroom cheesy. Mumu people....

Well,make dem just say dem get plans for her tongue. Or Probably they are even jealous that meat wey dem suppose to dey chop for military,one bloody civilian get mind come carry am leave dem grin

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Re: Marriage Proposal: Army Kept Female Soldier In Safe Guardroom by Iamdbull: 6:40pm On Dec 21, 2021
Dbull on this one!!!

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Re: Marriage Proposal: Army Kept Female Soldier In Safe Guardroom by dmbb: 6:40pm On Dec 21, 2021
She should be punished for her offense, if she can't abide by the rule of her engagement why did see join the Army? What I like about Army is that it didn't care about public opinion, so anybody is free to say any rubbish

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Re: Marriage Proposal: Army Kept Female Soldier In Safe Guardroom by Lee99: 6:40pm On Dec 21, 2021
Safe guard room where them go dey tear up her kpekus, poor copa na out used kpekus he go carry enter him matrimonial home undecided

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Re: Marriage Proposal: Army Kept Female Soldier In Safe Guardroom by GeorgeTheCoder: 6:40pm On Dec 21, 2021
Waiting for the day the Nigeria Army will arrest all those soldiers in NYSC camp who bang female corpers. Then I will take them serious.

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Re: Marriage Proposal: Army Kept Female Soldier In Safe Guardroom by rentAcock(m): 6:40pm On Dec 21, 2021
She should be punished for breaking the rules. Quite frankly I find all these public proposals to be very silly and attention seeking.
when I proposed to my darling wife I did it inside a photo studio of which she kinda already knew it was coming so not much of a surprise there. What's the essence of proposing in front of strangers? You want them to show fake affection and say aww or what?

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Re: Marriage Proposal: Army Kept Female Soldier In Safe Guardroom by BigYash: 6:41pm On Dec 21, 2021
Siwisheswereesh:
Why did they make the whole proposal thing go public That's where they went wrong.

And how can a soldier not know the rules and regulations guiding her profession
E blike say u no know say ,she value the proposal pass the army job... grin Anty wants to feel something huge grin

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Re: Marriage Proposal: Army Kept Female Soldier In Safe Guardroom by crazyABO(m): 6:42pm On Dec 21, 2021
Person say e no Dey chop beef say na cow meat e Dey chop. Osinwin oniyan

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Re: Marriage Proposal: Army Kept Female Soldier In Safe Guardroom by Deicide: 6:42pm On Dec 21, 2021
How would they have known
Re: Marriage Proposal: Army Kept Female Soldier In Safe Guardroom by rattlesnake(m): 6:42pm On Dec 21, 2021
Why
Re: Marriage Proposal: Army Kept Female Soldier In Safe Guardroom by omoadeleye(m): 6:42pm On Dec 21, 2021
She deserves it, she knows
Re: Marriage Proposal: Army Kept Female Soldier In Safe Guardroom by Baawaa(m): 6:42pm On Dec 21, 2021
These two must marry one another ,NA should please pardon the girl

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Re: Marriage Proposal: Army Kept Female Soldier In Safe Guardroom by olaric(m): 6:43pm On Dec 21, 2021
The Nigerian Army attracting unnecessary attention to itself with this issue. When Cupid shoots its arrow, the recipient lacks the capacity to resist it; that young girl is in love and should be allowed to express it regardless of being a soldier or not. All over the world, the military have a way of managing things like this, why is the NA not handling this well?

To all those blaming the lady for not being professional enough, I hope Cupid catches you soon enough with its shots and lets see if you have the capacity to resist.

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Re: Marriage Proposal: Army Kept Female Soldier In Safe Guardroom by hardon1(m): 6:44pm On Dec 21, 2021
Marriage proposal just under 3 weeks...
Hmmm...

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