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enjoy the toto and stop deceiving your own self!!!!

Go marry, let us hear word!!!!!


Repent sef

Sammiegreg:
Hello guys. I will go straight to the point.
This year, a struggle with sex came as I committed it and reported myself to the Pastor but yet I still had sex for the third time this year. Am drifting from Christ and I hate what am doing. I need a lasting solution to it as it can land me in Hell if I don't genuinely repent. So any Christian who had an experience and how they overcame?

You are yourself not ready to commit to God. You still think to be a Christian is about committing to your Pastors and mogs.

You shouldn't bother yourself then as what you have is religion and not real. When you are ready to obey Jesus Christ no matter what, then your real journey will begin.

How can you be struggling with sex as a Christian? You are either a Christian (a person following in the footsteps of Christ and utterly devoted to his teachings. Hence no premarital sex) or you are not a Christian hence you have conflicting understanding on premarital sex.

Na so one girl Dey stress me say she would rather be a believer than be a Christian because Christians are sinful people but believers are disciples. I com Dey vex. How person go be believer and disciple of Christ and e no go be Christian?

Get married.

Timoleon:
How can you be struggling with sex as a Christian? You are either a Christian (a person following in the footsteps of Christ and utterly devoted to his teachings. Hence no premarital sex) or you are not a Christian hence you have conflicting understanding on premarital sex.

Na so one girl Dey stress me say she would rather be a believer than be a Christian because Christians are sinful people but believers are disciples. I com Dey vex. How person go be believer and disciple of Christ and e no go be Christian?

The word 'Christian', in today's world, is used as a sort of brand name use to reference any thing that connects to the Bible in any way or form.

It is a good one that you didn't cover your sin as you have it in your signature.

But as you can see, opening up alone doesn't mean repentance, therefore the ball is in your court.

It is better to open up to God and repent totally than to open up to a Man everytime you commit thinking and patting yourself you've done well according to the Bible.

Some posters suggest that you marry but I'm afraid if you can't deal with the issue now that you're unmarried how sure that you wouldn't commit adultery and then open up to your Pastor

Deal with the activities and demand of the flesh instead

the urge will always be there, it's only for you to be discipline and anytime the urge come, distract yourself, don't keep thinking about it, get busy and all that until the feeling temporary goes away.

mastering how to control that feeling is the best.

Sammiegreg:
Hello guys. I will go straight to the point.
This year, a struggle with sex came as I committed it and reported myself to the Pastor but yet I still had sex for the third time this year. Am drifting from Christ and I hate what am doing. I need a lasting solution to it as it can land me in Hell if I don't genuinely repent. So any Christian who had an experience and how they overcame?

It could be overwhelming!
Sudden contact with sexually provocative cites on the TV or internet, musical videos that exposes private parts of the opposite sex, songs with erotic lyrics, provocative dresses all around you and attractive opposite sex making sexual advances at you, and to worsen matters people you highly revere and respected as religious are also getting involved in promiscuity.
So how on earth can one conquer all these and remain chaste?
Perhaps you will like to learn from my experience.
I am Maximus one of Jehovah's Witnesses, would you like me to share my experience with you?

culf:
the urge will always be there, it's only for you to be discipline and anytime the urge come, distract yourself, don't keep thinking about it, get busy and all that until the feeling temporary goes away.

mastering how to control that feeling is the best.

Any individual who has yet to learn self-control or self-discipline where the things of this world is, is not ready to make a committed where God is concerned.

Buddhist monks, who know no God, have self-control and throughly disciple themselves daily in order that they may reach their enlightenment. How much more then a one who claims commitment to God?

Kobojunkie:
Any individual who has yet to learn self-control or self-discipline where the things of this world is, is not ready to make a committed where God is concerned.

Buddhist monks, who know no God, have self-control and throughly disciple themselves daily in order that they may reach their enlightenment. How much more then a one who claims commitment to God?

hmmmm....

Timoleon:
How can you be struggling with sex as a Christian? You are either a Christian (a person following in the footsteps of Christ and utterly devoted to his teachings. Hence no premarital sex) or you are not a Christian hence you have conflicting understanding on premarital sex.

Na so one girl Dey stress me say she would rather be a believer than be a Christian because Christians are sinful people but believers are disciples. I com Dey vex. How person go be believer and disciple of Christ and e no go be Christian?

I tire o.

Like a person saying she is a human being but not a man.

culf:
the urge will always be there, it's only for you to be discipline and anytime the urge come, distract yourself, don't keep thinking about it, get busy and all that until the feeling temporary goes away.

mastering how to control that feeling is the best.

If you knew that all women are that evil woman whom you read of in the news, I am certain the urge will be gone.

Secondly, if you understand that proverbs tells you that there is only one woman in the whole earth who will be good to you (law of male and female), the rest are the-evils, I believe you would understand why God is God Indeed and why He says "Obey me".

Thirdly, you need to Truly understand and Agree to why you need to be Holy else, you will be no different from sin filled men.