sometimes I think that dying is the end of life but as things stands for me now, joblessness is worse than death sometimes, when u wake up and nothing to do after graduating from school, HND civil engineering from a federal polytechnic, I have never contemplated suicide but seriously I am not happy, I can't sleep and nothing gives me joy, its hell for me here, what I explained here is exactly the condition I am now. life is not fair, at 31 being first son and nothing to show.
sometimes I wished I never come to life, this life is not fair at all, though am not married yet but sleeping late and wake up early is making me lose my life, life is not fair at all

Bro there’s always a way...never give in to life pressures.

Times are evolving and technology is taking over...get a digital skill and get paid for life.

Mkingz:
Bro there’s always a way...never give in to life pressures.

Times are evolving and technology is taking over...get a digital skill and get paid for life.

sir, its not everybody that is good with this digital stuff of a thing, let me shock u that since I finish school I never get work wey pass 20k (teaching job), problem is that I have two younger ones in higher institution that am helping in school, to be honest life tire me I swear

Bro, digital is the new oil and nobody is born good, people learn...I understand your situation bro and really wish i could help buh never lose hope pls

patosky55:

sir, its not everybody that is good with this digital stuff of a thing, let me shock u that since I finish school I never get work wey pass 20k (teaching job), problem is that I have two younger ones in higher institution that am helping in school, to be honest life tire me I swear

First, let me say that I'm not here to write the typical spill about suicide being wrong, and you'll burn in hell and yada yada yada. Because, it is my belief that absolutely no one can verify 100% where any of us will go after death. And, I don't care how deeply ingrained "their" beliefs are regarding Christianity, it is still just that....."their" beliefs.

Back to your issues, I honestly cannot proffer a solution for you at the moment, but I can say that life is definitely unfair, cruel, and sometimes people are wrong when they tell you that it will "get better someday". Truthfully, they cannot definitively confirm that statement, but I will say this, if you feel that your life is worth fighting for, then try to sit quietly and brainstorm some ideas. If you have anyone around you that can perhaps come up with some solutions, that can help as well. There's an old saying, "two heads are better than one", and maybe someone else can suggest something that you haven't considered yet. I do hope that your situation turns around real soon. But again, do not let anyone tell "you" how to feel about your circumstances in life, or what "you" should ultimately do about your situation. After all, it is you that is living your life and no one else. Op, this is a new year and I hope your situation turns around and that 2022 begins to look favorable for you.

Gnosis777:
First, let me say that I'm not here to write the typical spill about suicide being wrong, and you'll burn in hell and yada yada yada. Because, it is my belief that absolutely no one can verify 100% where any of us will go after death. And, I don't care how deeply ingrained "their" beliefs are regarding Christianity, it is still just that....."their" beliefs.

Back to your issues, I honestly cannot proffer a solution for you at the moment, but I can say that life is definitely unfair, cruel, and sometimes people are wrong when they tell you that it will "get better someday". Truthfully, they cannot definitively confirm that statement, but I will say this, if you feel that your life is worth fighting for, then try to sit quietly and brainstorm some ideas. If you have anyone around you that can perhaps come up with some solutions, that can help as well. There's an old saying, "two heads are better than one", and maybe someone else can suggest something that you haven't considered yet. I do hope that your situation turns around real soon. But again, do not let anyone tell "you" how to feel about your circumstances in life, or what "you" should ultimately do about your situation. After all, it is you that is living your life and no one else. Op, this is a new year and I hope your situation turns around and that 2022 begins to look favorable for you.

thank u bro I really appreciate u and the truth is that this saying that things will be better, to me its just a statement, I have been struggling since I was a child, started paying myself school fees since JSS3, yes u heard me right and tried my best to finish my HND and then nothing is working out n someone out there will be like 2moro will be better, the question is WHEN?

patosky55:

thank u bro I really appreciate u and the truth is that this saying that things will be better, to me its just a statement, I have been struggling since I was a child, started paying myself school fees since JSS3, yes u heard me right and tried my best to finish my HND and then nothing is working out n someone out there will be like 2moro will be better, the question is WHEN?

You are welcome. And yes you are right, people are quick to say "things will get better", and while I think they are well-meaning when they say this; the truth is sometimes it doesn't. But, as I've said earlier, if you feel as if your life is worth fighting for, then do everything you can to fight for a better life, and that means utilizing "everything" within your disposal. This also includes any friends and family who can help come up with some new ideas that you haven't considered yet. Also, try to think outside of the box. Sometimes, "making it in life" may require unconventional skills, or odd jobs that no one else seems to be doing at the moment. At any rate, I wish you luck this year. Take Care