I have a room mates currently who is a pastor son.He is really a nice person but what I currently don't like about his is his ability to bad mouth someone to the core.
He needs circumcision of the heart.

There was a day he called me his house boy.
Another day he insulted me in front of friends at the university.
Most of the time when we are together,he hits me like a kind of toy,I have warned him tirelessly even involved his mother but he won't budge.
Yesterday night he said my clothes doesn't makes sense..meaning I wear rags..the clothes I have are highly commendable,people comment them but he insults it just to make me feel bad.
Am fed up and as a Christian am trying to control my temper and anger.
He uses foul languages on me any time he like of which I never reciprocate because I wasn't taught that way.

What can I do?

stay away from toxic people.

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I have a room mates currently who is a pastor son.He is really a nice person but what I currently don't like about his is his ability to bad mouth someone to the core.
He needs circumcision of the heart.

There was a day he called me his house boy.
Another day he insulted me in front of friends at the university.
Most of the time when we are together,he hits me like a kind of toy,I have warned him tirelessly even involved his mother but he won't budge.
Yesterday night he said my clothes doesn't makes sense..meaning I wear rags..the clothes I have are highly commendable,people comment them but he insults it just to make me feel bad.
Am fed up and as a Christian am trying to control my temper and anger.
He uses foul languages on me any time he like of which I never reciprocate because I wasn't taught that way.

What can I do?

Is his name Austin?
Anyways, the name does not matter. Maybe the born-to-rule mentality that some pastors use to coach their people is the cause. Maybe the pastor father is good and the son is just bad. But you confuse me by saying he is nice.

He is a bully no doubt. Instead of giving him the attention, and sense of power he seeks, give him an assertive but unemotional response that will make him know you do not intend to be victimized.

The thing don dey him blood na.

yuping:
stay away from toxic people.

Exactly what I plan doing

Arkadrob:
He is a bully no doubt. Instead of giving him the attention, and sense of power he seeks, give him an assertive but unemotional response that will make him know you do not intend to be victimized.

Thanks bro

U no fit fight ?. Give am back hot hot and he will start respecting you. He’s already seeing you like a slave. Stop acting like a mugu. Someone folks only understand violence.