THE PREDICAMENT YOU FACE WITH A DISTURBING PATERNITY DNA TEST.
(By Emeka Ugwuonye, Esquire)
Due process advocate (DPA)

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From our experience in DPA in the past few years, we have come to know based on statistical evidence available to us that nearly half the time, the child is not the biological child of the father. And in growing number of cases, the child is not the biological child of the mother either because children get switched in large hospitals with large maternity wards.

The most risky is the first child. It should be noted that in many cases, a lady never breaks up with her boyfriend until around the time of her wedding. Some take up to six months after their wedding before they finally ended their affairs with their boyfriends. This should not be a surprise to you in a country where there is usually a wide age gap between the man and his wife. Because of the economy and culture, the man is not able to save enough to marry early. He marries in his 40s and 50s. But he is marrying a lady in her early 20s who needs to marry immediately because of the economy that has no employment for her. For her, marriage is a substitute for employment. And she has to marry a rich man probably in his 50s. The implication is that the lady will leave her boyfriend in his 20s to marry the husband in his 50s. She will likely remain in the relationship with the boyfriend even as she gets married to the husband. The first child is usually the biological child of the boyfriend.
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Paternity crisis could be a delicate and heart-wrenching experience for parents to face. DPA will continue to provide delicate, confidential, and highly professional services to families in such situations
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What causes a high rate of negative DNA negatives includes:
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(1) Infidelity in the marriage: Unfortunately, people focus on the mother's infidelity. That is true, but there is more to it. The mother did not get herself pregnant. In many cases of mother's infidelity, it was a married man who got her pregnant. A husband who is angry that his wife's child is not his biological child has actually sired many children with his side chicks (somebody else's wife) without it ever coming to light. Also, it may be the husband's infidelity that led the bored and abandoned wife into reciprocal or remedial infidelity. So, let's not be judgmental about these things.
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(2) Rascality and fraud: Some women are simply too ignorant and reckless to assume that the truth would never come out or that it doesn't really make a difference who the biological father is. They assume that the man should be happy to father any kid he sees in his house. That is dumb. Most men want to sow their own seeds. They believe that they come back to life through their genes reproduced through their sperms. So, giving him the product of another man's genes is not the same thing. But, some ignorant women don't realize this. Or, they do, but somehow naively or fraudulently believe that the man will never find out.
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(3) Ignorance of biology: Some women don't know their body circles. They misjudge. They assume that because they slept with their husband on the day they considered the peak of their ovulation, the husband must be the father and not the boyfriend she slept with two days earlier or later. Sperms have various ranges of potency. And sperms can live for 3 days in your body. A more potent sperm can push out your husband's relatively weaker sperm and fertilize your egg. The sperms struggle inside your body, and the most powerful among which can swim fastest is the one that breaks through.

Since your husband is cheating, I can't stop you from cheating back. But be wise about it.
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(4) Deliberate and calculated decision at gene selection: A woman may deliberately not want her children to have the genes of her husband. Your husband may be a wealthy man through political corruption. But otherwise, you know your husband is unintelligent and uncompetitive. You want your children to benefit from your husband's wealth (which was why you married him in the first place). But you want your children to be of superior genetic stock. So, you deliberately get pregnant from your boyfriend who is super intelligent (PhD nuclear physics) while allowing your husband to train the kids as his. You have cleverly matched the wealth of your husband with the intellect of your boyfriend, thereby achieving an optimal factor selection. But, this is risky and dangerous because it is now so easy to perform paternity tests. Indeed, we expect that the next four generations of mobile phones (4 years from now) will have apps that can perform DNA and pregnancy tests on the spot.

For women, whoever your husband starts insisting on paternity test or if your husband suddenly declares that any of your children is not his biological child, unless you know for certain that he is not the biological father, the first thing you should do as the mother is to go and perform a DNA maternity test. This is to ensure that your biological child was not switched by mistake in the maternity ward. There have been situations where that happened, and the woman was falsely accused of adultery. It took many years before it was realized that it was a switch. Then, it was too late to save the marriage.

In any event, if you face a situation like this, the DPA Family Law Clinic is the best in Nigeria to assist you. Don't panic. Don't fight. Just come to us for the most assured professional service.

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