According to the popular concept of relationship," relationship is the way in which two or more people are connected by blood or marriage". This write-up, is not meant to explore the nitty- gritty of what relationship is all about, which as l understand it, may not make much sense to embrace the main purpose in it's entirety.
However, in what l may regard as accidental and loosely defined concept, it must be emphasized, that the self- realization is the full flow of personality, that can take place in any fruitful soil of satisfactory interpersonal relationship.
Be that as it may, it is the attainment of a new kind relationship with others and with oneself. And it is what ultimately can come to heal us of any wound and indeed, of the many ocean of conflictuality and human drama of today's world, as has been the case in resent time.
Oftentimes, no matter how mature we think we are, we still find that, we are still carring some reminants of childhood undertones, that leave us face to face with difficulties we do not understand and yet in many respect, we see ourself as mature and have what it takes to get over anything, anyway.
The truth is that, often, our emotions and instinct, will not allow us, because the twinkly of an eyes will always disclose the child concealed behind our adult exterior.
It is truism to state that our relationship to an unknown person is often conditioned, by the kind of relationship we have had in the past. The same is true, that sometimes, it is difficult, if not impossible, in particular, in a stagnant culture, to meet a person for the first time, one from whom we may hope for help, without some degree of prejudice or misgiven, derived from previous experiences. It must be said, that it is common knowledge that opinions with aquitances changes as time evolves to get to knows one another better. And sometimes, such changes may not simply be the result of finding out more about such individual, rather, of what l may called that corresponding corrections of the partially distorted picture, of which our imagination could be held responsible in an atmosphere of anticipated construction.
Ideally, in any sane and non- stagnated culture, people approach one another, due to the wind of change,
as is currently making a wave in Europe without any form of misconception.
Although, in practice the image of the next person always look a complex one to decipher of the bargage it hold.
Nevertheless, this does not often remove from our emotion and instinct , not to read from people of their needs and inspirations of which through the act of relationship it can adequately find an exit.
According to Mother Theresa of Calculta,
one of the problem of our time, is not more of the suffering or the pain in the people, but rather the very feeling of being unwanted or rejected, uncared for by those we look up to.
Accordily, it is the lack of love for one another and charity not without the terrible act of indifference towards even neighbour and assaulted through exploitation, poverty, name it ravaging the society at large in spite of the opulence of materialism.