For matured minds only!
av been in this relationship for almost 3 years now! Just finished my service last month. However i believe things are working out for good for both of us, I came to her place because it's been long we'v seen each other and i need to know what she has become. We communicate online throughout my service year. But meeting her again was almost like meeting a new person when it come to facial appearance. Throughout my stay with her, she has been the woman any reasonable man wished for, she has her own business, she's a great cook, i mean one of the best cook i'v ever met. She doesn't have entitled mentality either and very hard working. My little concern is that, have grown to become an handsome man and my stature is everything any woman wished for! But when it comes to beauty i do feel she has to be extremely beautiful to match my handsomeness. I just want to hear from the married ones in the house! If my little concern really matters in marriage.
P.s: my elder brothers' got married to wife more beautiful than they are.

You never ready

Op.

You said...
"she's the kind of woman any reasonable man would like" So, you can see that you're being unreasonable here. If you no like her, no just toy with her emotion

A lot of people had married because of outward beauty forgetting what really matters the inner beauty (#attitude). Latter they would come to nairaland and create topic such as:
"Help, my husband has gone mad again"
"My wife don't like my parents visiting"
"Help, my wife or my husband is a lucifer"
"Help, my husband does weird things"
And so on and so on....

Now, you just testify that she's the woman any man can dream of having as wife ooo. But you just created this topic. Is like village people dey shake your calabash for this matter.

For me oo.. I will first put her on probation, i.e her attitude/character, if I'm satisfied with it, the next question is, do I love her? Ofcause is my priority that would decide if I love her or not. Is she presentable? Then, I will ask myself this important question. Money dey to dey fan the Love even if na time to time?
Because, sometimes povaty dey rub love commot from person and when money dey, love is sweeter.

From the look of things, you're looking for slayqueen that wears G-strings. . The Lord is your strength.

OP....

Marry whoever you're comfortable with...
Don't allow anyone to make such an important decision on your behalf, cause in the end, when the marital issues starts showing up, you and only you will bear the brunt of it all ...

However...
I believe that, character is far more important than beauty ...

Did you ask us when you started? Haba! To be a husband is not a child's play. Grow up boy, will you still come back here to ask if you should engage or marry her Nobody can choose for you, go for what is best for you

Van vicker and his wife?��

You are still warming up... Get a job first biko

You are not ready to marry.

Holly Gram


The WEED wey Dem give u SMOKE during ur YOUTH SERVICE Na very strong WEED!


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

You no too get sense...

A grown man laying emphasis on his facial looks..

I pity you.

Check it..

You might not be as handsome as you portray..

Do you have money?

I see ur ego at play.. You're already feeling you're better Than her. I guess she isn't a graduate like you're

Dowenship:
For matured minds only!
av been in this relationship for almost 3 years now! Just finished my service last month. However i believe things are working out for good for both of us, I came to her place because it's been long we'v seen each other and i need to know what she has become. We communicate online throughout my service year. But meeting her again was almost like meeting a new person when it come to facial appearance. Throughout my stay with her, she has been the woman any reasonable man wished for, she has her own business, she's a great cook, i mean one of the best cook i'v ever met. She doesn't have entitled mentality either and very hard working. My little concern is that, have grown to become an handsome man and my stature is everything any woman wished for! But when it comes to beauty i do feel she has to be extremely beautiful to match my handsomeness. I just want to hear from the married ones in the house! If my little concern really matters in marriage.
P.s: my elder brothers' got married to wife more beautiful than they are.

beauty doesnt keep or sustain marriage.

pls don't marry her , there are thousands of slay queens with beautiful faces and body you can pick. leave her for a man who is mature and can appreciate her for who she is. biko!

Dowenship:
My little concern is that, have grown to become an handsome man and my stature is everything any woman wished for! But when it comes to beauty i do feel she has to be extremely beautiful to match my handsomeness. I just want to hear from the married ones in the house! If my little concern really matters in marriage.
P.s: my elder brothers' got married to wife more beautiful than they are.

Please let that woman know this truth and leave her to go find yourself that more beautiful woman you want instead.

From your description of her, she deserves much better.

@Op you well so? You dated this woman for almost 3 solid years and you didn’t know that she is not your spec asin not as beautiful as you want her to be. The 1st year you didn’t realise this abi. Ok; the 2nd year you still did not realise it right ; but you waited for the 3rd year before it now comes to your mind that she is not as beautiful as you want her to be. Really; you got to be kidding me; come on get real mate. If you know that her beauty will create a problem then why did you waste her time for almost 3 solid years WHY? IN THIS INSTANCE, YOU NEED TO LET HER KNOW AND FREE HER. IT WILL BE A WICKED THING ON YOUR PART FOR YOU TO KEEP WASTING THIS WOMAN’S TIME KNOWING FULLY WELL IN YOUR MIND THAT SHE’S NOT BEAUTIFUL ENOUGH FOR YOU. As the saying goes; one man’s meat is another man’s poison. Bear this in mind; external beauty fades but internal beauty remains. ENOUGH SAID.

Dowenship:
For matured minds only!
av been in this relationship for almost 3 years now! Just finished my service last month. However i believe things are working out for good for both of us, I came to her place because it's been long we'v seen each other and i need to know what she has become. We communicate online throughout my service year. But meeting her again was almost like meeting a new person when it come to facial appearance. Throughout my stay with her, she has been the woman any reasonable man wished for, she has her own business, she's a great cook, i mean one of the best cook i'v ever met. She doesn't have entitled mentality either and very hard working. My little concern is that, have grown to become an handsome man and my stature is everything any woman wished for! But when it comes to beauty i do feel she has to be extremely beautiful to match my handsomeness. I just want to hear from the married ones in the house! If my little concern really matters in marriage.
P.s: my elder brothers' got married to wife more beautiful than they are.

Akuko ndi mgbu.

This guy is not serious

Na handsome dem take dey Feed family? This one never grow

Dowenship:
For matured minds only!
av been in this relationship for almost 3 years now! Just finished my service last month. However i believe things are working out for good for both of us, I came to her place because it's been long we'v seen each other and i need to know what she has become. We communicate online throughout my service year. But meeting her again was almost like meeting a new person when it come to facial appearance. Throughout my stay with her, she has been the woman any reasonable man wished for, she has her own business, she's a great cook, i mean one of the best cook i'v ever met. She doesn't have entitled mentality either and very hard working. My little concern is that, have grown to become an handsome man and my stature is everything any woman wished for! But when it comes to beauty i do feel she has to be extremely beautiful to match my handsomeness. I just want to hear from the married ones in the house! If my little concern really matters in marriage.
P.s: my elder brothers' got married to wife more beautiful than they are.

I quite understand how you feel. Every man want a woman they can easily flaunt and be proud of. You're being sceptical when you start having kids they should take after your beauty. Sadly, which isn't certain unless the woman is also beautiful and gorgeous then you'd be rest assured the kids are free like a bird to take after anyone. You want a woman that can compliment your beauty. Your brother's wife and some other beautiful couples was a case study. I do understand how you feel. But permit me to say you claimed the woman is everything a reasonable Man want as a wife. My concern is that if have money, it will definitely go along way in bringing out her beauty

I'd advice you to let her be. Do not start what you can't finish. Trust me, if you eventually marry her due to how industrious she was. You'd cheat on her with girls that suit your taste in terms of beauty. Especially when you make money

You consider looks alot in spouse considering the fact that you are handsome. Since this your choice, I'd admonished you to stick to it and let the lady be. Do not consider her out of pity and start misbehaving later in marriage because you're handsome and got lots of girls wanting to have you