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If You've Become A Punching Bag In Your Marriage, Leave - A Catholic Priest by realglob(m): 3:32pm On Apr 10, 2022
A Catholic priest from the Abuja Archdiocese tells his congregation about Osinachi's death:

If you've become a punching bag in your marriage, leave.

Fr. Benneth Umeh spoke about the Jewish people's crowd mentality, comparing it to why many marriages are failing today.

Today, being the celebration of the palm Sunday, which marks the day when Jesus triumphantly rode into Jerusalem a week before his resurrection. Fr. Benneth Umeh spoke about the crowd mentality of the Jewish people.

The same people who shouted Hossana in the highest would be the same crowd to soon shout crucify him. He warns his parishioners about crowd mentality, especially those who seek validation from people.

He opined that the same people you don't want to appear weak to would be the same people who would say that you were foolish.

Recounting the story of Osinachi the Ekweme singer, he told his congregation that it is very possible that she was subjected to domestic violence but did not want people to know about it, most likely to protect the family's image.

It's even worse if someone tells you that domestic violence is your cross to bear. Jesus loves you and would not want you to die as a result of a beating husband; he died on the cross for you.

He urged all men and women who are subjected to serious domestic abuse that threatens their lives to take a break. The Catholic Church preaches for better or for worse, but it has made provisions for separation when there is a risk of death.

Allow people to say whatever they want about your marriage, but please protect your life first. The people you're trying to hide your misery from and paint a better picture for may be in a worse situation.

Never let yourself believe that you are suffering because God wants you to suffer at that time. God does not cause you to suffer, so don't blame God for your misery when it could be your own fault.

Source: https://politicalcritik.com/2022/04/10/walk-out-of-that-marriage-if-you-have-become-a-punching-bag/

Re: If You've Become A Punching Bag In Your Marriage, Leave - A Catholic Priest by adontcare(f): 3:38pm On Apr 10, 2022
That's y i like Rev father's preaching

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Re: If You've Become A Punching Bag In Your Marriage, Leave - A Catholic Priest by GooodHardDick: 3:39pm On Apr 10, 2022
You don't marry Nigeria girls. angry

You only bang their pussies, dump them and move on. Nigeria girls were created to be banged.
Re: If You've Become A Punching Bag In Your Marriage, Leave - A Catholic Priest by GooodHardDick: 3:40pm On Apr 10, 2022
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adontcare:
That's y i like Rev father's preaching
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Re: If You've Become A Punching Bag In Your Marriage, Leave - A Catholic Priest by realglob(m): 3:48pm On Apr 10, 2022
GooodHardDick:
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Can you make your own assertion and leave someone's position.
Re: If You've Become A Punching Bag In Your Marriage, Leave - A Catholic Priest by socialmediaman: 3:50pm On Apr 10, 2022
Re: If You've Become A Punching Bag In Your Marriage, Leave - A Catholic Priest by realglob(m): 3:57pm On Apr 10, 2022
@mind44 please move to front page
Re: If You've Become A Punching Bag In Your Marriage, Leave - A Catholic Priest by Kobojunkie: 4:11pm On Apr 10, 2022
See! She probably claimed to know God yet her very life was devoid of God's Wisdom? undecided

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Re: If You've Become A Punching Bag In Your Marriage, Leave - A Catholic Priest by wunmi590(m): 4:26pm On Apr 10, 2022


One of the thing I fear most is domestic violence, God continue to protect my family and home with your love...

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Re: If You've Become A Punching Bag In Your Marriage, Leave - A Catholic Priest by LifestyleTonite: 6:35pm On Apr 10, 2022
Every clown keeps telling women to leave abusive marriages. None of them is telling ladies not to get married to a bad boy.

Ladies will spit on a nice guy then call him a simp. They prefer to hang around bad guys who go clubbing, partying, cruise around in cars and spend money well. They don't seem to know that such guys lack discipline, which is why they live a wreckless life. To them, nice guys are boring. But when they start getting slapped and kicked in the marriage, they try to bail out.

Na lie, na there you go die grin

After bailing, they start to remember all the simps they friendzoned. They placed so many guys in the friendzone such that many of them are zonal commanders in the zone. Some have stayed so long in the zone that they are now advising PDP on its zoning formula for 2023.

Check the reason why so many marriages are crashing, you will see that money is responsible. This is not the lack of money but the quest for more money. Bible clearly stated it that women are to be keepers of the home, but today's women are still listening to Satan who tricked them in the garden of Eden. They have bought into the feminist ideology that women need to work too.

When your Yahoo boy husband gets home and can't find you, he gets mad on realizing that you are still at work attending to your boss just cos you want that promotion, you want more money. What happens next can only be told by those in such situations.

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Re: If You've Become A Punching Bag In Your Marriage, Leave - A Catholic Priest by OperationalVehi: 8:46pm On Apr 10, 2022
One good punch deserves another

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