Some people grumble that roses have thorns; I am grateful that thorns have roses.”
– Godsgift Bassey Willie

This is a wise saying.

Some people see the positive in a situation, and others see the negative. It is all about the point of view. For one person, something might be pleasant, but for the other, it is annoying.

The question is how to focus on the positive and avoid the negative?

The short answer is very simple. See the positive in everything and focus on it. Pretty simple! However, for most people this is not enough. Negativity is often too embedded, and one needs various methods and time to uproot it.

The magical tools that change your attitude and point of view are inner work and persistence. These are the very things most people, especially at this period of time in history, don’t like.

People want instant results, without much effort. If there are no immediate results, they don’t want even to try.

There is a saying, “Just because something isn’t happening for you right now doesn’t mean it will never happen. All good things take time.”

Here is another quote, by Catherine Pulsifer:
“It takes effort and belief to persevere and stay dedicated to accomplish your goal. When you find yourself doubting whether the effort is worth it, visualize how you will feel and what you will have once your goal is completed.”

Do you want make real changes in your life? You will need patience and persistence. This also includes focusing on the positive and avoiding the negative.

If you really want to learn how to focus on the positive and avoid the negative, I suggest you read the article “How to Stop Negative Thinking”, which also includes 10 tips to stop negative thinking.