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Living With A Lier And A Jealous Friend Please I Need Advice by Apili: 9:52am On May 27, 2022 |
Good morning my fellow nairalanders Please am bringing this issues here because I need advice am just so worried There is the a secondary school friend of mine We were so closed till I stopped hearing from him after our graduation in secondary school The last time I heard from him he said he was in akure Learning photography He ended up coming back to delta Where we reunited in villa during Xmas period I went back to my base in warri he called me that he needs shelter with me I took him inn Made him comfortable got him an android phone Even started training him in my photo lab studio and printing press He was acting loyal And my plans was to keep the my company under his care when I travel to Ukraine before Russia invaded My friend who knows him well saw his picture on my phone he was surprised he asked me when the guy came back from remind after stealing a motorbike and attempted to murder the bike owner I said there was nothing like that I denied for him And that was the end of discussion His girl friend came visiting him I was never informed about it till he told me he was at the park that he went to pick his girlfriend He came back to store where I was working And his attitude changed he started acting like he was the boss He took the girl home went straight to my bed locked the room The girl spent two days And they both never came out I gave him money to make her feel comfortable I never knew he told the girl that we both pay the rent together And contributed money to purchase my car And also contributed in opening my store He also showed her my building project in villa that he owns it I was shocked when I heard it Sometimes he lies to me that he needs to send money to his mum I never knew he was sending it to a girl Am currently in villa now and I have heard alot about him Of how he attempted to rap a girl after stealing from their hux and lots more and how he crippled his mums business Infact there are so many things I have heard And now his mum doesn't answer my mum's greeting He mum is always saying I and my family turned his son to slave where as when ever we too visit villa people who knew him before I took him to warri Always keeps thanking me because he looks fresh and added up lots of Wight My brothers wife confronted him on why he lied to his girl friend He apologised and he was warned He even went as far to bring a stranger into my hux to live with us and I was told yesterday that the guy he brought has corrupted my younger brother they both now goes out to smoke weed Am so worried and he is also a jealous type Am thinking of telling him to go back to villa Please I need advice should I send him back or warn him and give him a chance My greatest fear is the fact that he is a jealous type |
Re: Living With A Lier And A Jealous Friend Please I Need Advice by DoctorOlasDesk: 9:57am On May 27, 2022 |
Simple. Talk to your mother or elder ones to do the talking, that he has stayed long enough that they feel it is time he left to his family. Don't do the talking yourself. Learn how Banky W's mum sent 9ce away from his house. Use the same method. Chase him out of everything/place he had access to before. Change all padlocks. You too relocate for six months after you chase him away to break the link permanently |
Re: Living With A Lier And A Jealous Friend Please I Need Advice by Zonefree(m): 9:57am On May 27, 2022 |
. I never knew he told the girl that we both pay the rent together Why are you shocked? This is exactly what Nigerian girls love to hear. Your guy took the shortcut to get the kpekus. Tell them what they love to hear and get the kpekus. Simple stuff. |
Re: Living With A Lier And A Jealous Friend Please I Need Advice by madridguy(m): 10:06am On May 27, 2022 |
You are sitting a on time bomb keeping such a person very close to you. |
Re: Living With A Lier And A Jealous Friend Please I Need Advice by BigYash: 10:09am On May 27, 2022 |
Apili:You dey seek advice on this death trap again?? If you don't send him packing asap,he will kill you and take over all you laboured for.. Be wise.. As his lies and doings are known to you now,he might just decide to end you.. People I hate to work with are ,lairs,the jealous types and thieves.. 2 Likes |
Re: Living With A Lier And A Jealous Friend Please I Need Advice by Apili: 10:17am On May 27, 2022 |
BigYash: Am doing that ASAP when I get back to warri Thanks for the advice bro |
Re: Living With A Lier And A Jealous Friend Please I Need Advice by Apili: 10:21am On May 27, 2022 |
DoctorOlasDesk: Thanks for the advice bro my rent is expiring next month and I want to relocate to another environment So I will just do exactly what you said |
Re: Living With A Lier And A Jealous Friend Please I Need Advice by Apili: 10:26am On May 27, 2022 |
Zonefree: Not all girls are after what's in your pocket My girlfriend never knew I was living a comfortable life I was even working as an apprentice And also going to building construction site with my dad The day she found out she got so mad at me for not Telling her the truth I hate people who live fake life |
Re: Living With A Lier And A Jealous Friend Please I Need Advice by DoctorOlasDesk: 10:26am On May 27, 2022 |
Apili: Please make sure say you miss for like six months. Anywhere he know you with, no go dat area, make the matter no turn from envy to war. If the rope between you both break, e go find him way. You don over-feed am, e go hard for am to want discharge. Just keep us updated here make we dey follow the matter up. Too many evil friends dey these days. No dey open up too much like this again my brother. You get luck say him never enter you. Do good to people and friends, but maintain the privacy of your life and household 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Living With A Lier And A Jealous Friend Please I Need Advice by Aforxzy(f): 10:26am On May 27, 2022 |
This is one of the reasons why you don't open your door to everyone. Learn to help from afar especially when it's money and accommodation related issues. I had a similar experience with my church member once and had to tell her to leave cos I had become a squatter in my own house. She brought in her family and almost took over my house. This your friend is a bad influence to your siblings and a chronic liar. He needs to leave. Start by putting boundaries on your personal belongings and Stop giving him access to your room. You can invite your family members to come visit regularly and stay over too. And finally, tell him to start looking for an alternative accommodation cos he's overstayed in your apartment and you are not renewing your rent. You can use your mother or sister in law to pass the message to him if he proves difficult. 1 Like |
Re: Living With A Lier And A Jealous Friend Please I Need Advice by Apili: 10:28am On May 27, 2022 |
madridguy: It might soon explode that's why I came to seek advice |
Re: Living With A Lier And A Jealous Friend Please I Need Advice by Apili: 10:33am On May 27, 2022 |
DoctorOlasDesk: I will do just that I don't even mind closing my studio for a year prevention is better than cure |
Re: Living With A Lier And A Jealous Friend Please I Need Advice by BigYash: 11:11am On May 27, 2022 |
Apili:Very good. And be security conscious hence fourth, cux such niggas mind is the real definition of wickedness. He might wanna fight back,after discharging him.. So,be very careful and prayerful brother. Shalom! |
Re: Living With A Lier And A Jealous Friend Please I Need Advice by baretalk: 3:36pm On May 27, 2022 |
Useless broke guys life revolves around stealing, drugs, alcohol, women. Na who know man dey kill man, move with better people. |
Re: Living With A Lier And A Jealous Friend Please I Need Advice by DoctorOlasDesk: 3:57pm On May 27, 2022 |
Apili: I take God beg you. That studio go don dey turn to idle place to smoke weed, sleep with girls and do all sorts the devils appoint him and his goons to do. I for say make you close am a year, then divert to another business |
Re: Living With A Lier And A Jealous Friend Please I Need Advice by Fisiryorh(m): 6:13pm On May 27, 2022 |
Get him out of thy house and thy life before we read about thy death here on Nairaland... Full-stop... |
Re: Living With A Lier And A Jealous Friend Please I Need Advice by Blackfire(m): 6:24pm On May 27, 2022 |
The friend will kill you.. Bury you... Tell your family you travelled... And when Jesus comes to judge the world will the truth be known Foolish boy |
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