I have this friend, a guy, we've been friends since our school days, later we started dating. All seemed well and was ok until he told me he was a free thinker. told him to give me a break to think things out but i knew i couldn't date him no more, didn't want to lose his friendship and i've called him to apologise on different occasions but he would say it's ok and he'll call back but never does.

wat do i do as i really miss his friendship.

pls advice.

u have lost him to a pot of soup. Simple.

pixie:

I have this friend, a guy, we've been friends since our school days, later we started dating. All seemed well and was ok until he told me he was a free thinker. told him to give me a break to think things out but i knew i couldn't date him no more, didn't want to lose his friendship and i've called him to apologise on different occasions but he would say it's ok and he'll call back but never does.

what do i do as i really miss his friendship.

please advice.

Maybe he just provided an avenue to get out himself of the relationship.

Dont get guilt ridden. You have apologised like you claim and if your friendship means anything to him, he will call back. Or maybe he also needs to think things through as well.

Seems that he is not a free thinker after all

@ Imani,

that was what a friend of mine thot too, if dat's the case too bad. I'm not guilt ridden far from it but i someties think if things could have turned out different.

@ simply_me

simply_me:

u have lost him to a pot of soup. Simple.

Imao na for your pot he land? . no be small thing o.

@mama put,
maybe he ain't truly.

He ain't calling cos you're no longer on his mind, he's moved on to another free thinker.

oju imale ko kuro loti

You mustn’t force yourself on him. If he promised to call you and later broke his promise, that simply means he has less interest in you. Just let him be.

Cheer up there are still nice guys out there ok?

Roadblock:

oju imale ko kuro loti

@ roadblock
lol which oti? pele o imale.there are many otis so imale in this case is not addicted to one oti i just want to make peace with that oti, i might still need it ok?

@crazykid

thanks but don't gtit twisted i'm not forcing myself on the guy no reason to i'm just someone who will raher have more friends than enemies as they say keep an eye on your friend but a closer eye on ur enemy.

free thinker ke?

what crazykid said.

If he said he'll call, and doesnt, he's obviously probably into something else.

not that you're forcing yourself on him, but that's how it could look to the guy.

Does it mean that all through your friendship, you never knew he was a free thinker before you started dating?

@Poster

I think the brother has read your book titled " Wishy washy".

tpia:

what crazykid said.

If he said he'll call, and doesnt, he's obviously probably into something else.

not that you're forcing yourself on him, but that's how it could look to the guy.

So true !

@ Topic,

Looks like at the time the "ship had sail"

At this time "more passenger/s" must have boarded the ship,. ,  .  ,  . . ,  .

Sorry, 

why was the break in the first place ? And you shouldn't have dated in the first place since you knew you were going to take the candy away from the child .

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YES. . . . if it doesn't, . . . hunt it down n' kill it.

Scopium:

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Word!

Give him a break, stop calling him . . .maybe he'll come around later.

I think you've lost him.he's no good 4 u

Just let him be.
if he realy cares for u even if he doesnt love u at least if he cares for he will come back
if not as ur guy then just as a friend.
so be cool .

Your guy is not a free thinker as he claimed,i am sure he does not understand anything about free thinking.

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Which one be free thinker abeg? Are you a slave thinker?