Threat to blackmail.
Pls I really need help from this family of mine( nairalanders)..My name is Dr Jacob working with a very popular hospital which specialises on IVF among other medical services in one of the middle belt states. I briefly cought a very serious fever with both cold and sudden rise in temp was the order of the day. After a day medications I couldn't get any better so I did call my female neighbor to help me with little chores like making hot tea, light meals and buying some medications. While this lady was with me I actually gave her access to my phone and pin for my ussd as she needs to make little withdrawals to buy anything I need. I actually showed her my phone pattern as she also said she will like to get some movies from my phone. This lady went through every corner of the phone from gallery to inbox and sent items. my bank alerts wasn't excluded and realized we are often paid on the 25th except if it falls on weekends. During her surjourn in my house she actually took some pics around the setting room and the kitchen with my shirt on. In one occasion she did pass the night in my room and we shared the bed together but trust me guys with the temperature rise, parasympathetic nerves didn't send any messages to little Jacob and certainly no erection came into play. While i was all covered with duvet shivering, this helper of mine took some pictures revealing some nasty body parts of her's in my bed and the moment she cuddled me saying the cuddling may be of help to lower the body temp due to heat exchange. To cut the long story short she actually snapped me with towel when she kept bathing water for me to shower. Now with all the ammunitions she is got, she threaten to send both real and Photoshop clips to my fiancee which we are about to marry in less than a month saying we are in a romantic relationship. My mistake was, I didn't tell my fiancee that am ill coz I didn't know the ill health will go that far and she is working In a different state. Tomorrow is 25th I just received her call now asking me for 50k or she will activate the first step. Guys what should I do? Go to police? Or that will be too far a step. After gifting my so called helper #20000 and some raw foodstuffs as an appreciation. Pls I need ur advise who to handle this in a very civilised and professional way.

Cc: lalasticlala

Go to the police but this story sef! If someone tells you this exact same story will you believe the person?

Go to the police and if possible involve a lawyer.




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I no finish the story. Go to the police.

@OP if truly you are innocent you won't be bothered...do you know why? Because she's got nothing on you.....I'll give you a simple approach just try have same conversation recorded physically or put a recorded video call through to her and let her start the threat all over again....you can use that same video conversation to convince your fiancee....leave the rest to your fiancee.

doggedfighter:



Follow this advice first..

Pinned....he won't if he told this forum HALF TRUTH.

BeanmanX:
Report to the police ASAP,,, don't treat dis case with kids glove

Brokeloser:
Go to the police but this story sef! If someone tells you this exact same story will you believe the person?

doggedfighter:
Go to the police and if possible involve a lawyer
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meobizy:
I no finish the story. Go to the police.

Pinned@everyone suggesting police when he has no concrete evidence? SMH.
He might even get into more problems if the lady shows those pictures to a female police and accuse him of infidelity or heartbreak or whatever other story.

Deep Nigerian Quote:
No be who first call police de win case!

OP be guided.

@Seniorwriter

Brokeloser:
Go to the police but this story sef! If someone tells you this exact same story will you believe the person?

Certainly am not a script writer to polish a fake story to make it real

meobizy:
I no finish the story. Go to the police.

Meobozo

Seniorwriter:
@OP if truly you are innocent you won't be bothered...do you know why? Because she's got nothing on you.....I'll give you a simple approach just try have same conversation recorded physically or put a recorded video call through to her and let her start the threat all over again....you can use that save video conversation to convince your fiancee....leave the rest to your fiancee.

@Seniorwriter

Follow this advice first..

Report to the police ASAP,,, don't treat dis case with kids glove

First of all explain all what you wrote to your fiancée. If she trusts you, you'd be fine.

Let your neighbor go to hell.

JoviaIjune1:
Same way Beanmanx a nairalander wants to blackmail me with my nudes.
You may ask how he got hold of my nudes, dude is a phone repairer, he actually asked me to unlock my phone so he could gain access to check if the phone is in good condition after repairing it. Boom that's when the low life idiot gained access to my WhatsApp and saw my chats with my abroad based husband and my nudes I've been sending him.
Now he's threatening to release it on Twitter.
Please i need you guys to help me arrest him.
He is Igbo and stays in the South East.
His monikers are Beanmanx and Firemanx

Messi1 come see the useless troll again,,,

I wonder why the real account owner dat u cloned haven't reported u to the mods yet

Everything about the story is a lie.....


Any one in a distance relationship always inform their partners of happenings..... Except they have motive to achieve....


Anyone who is sick and shivering, will never wrap a towel around their waist but cover it on their body while heading to t he bathroom....


If all she came for was to assist you, she will have limits to accessing your phone out of fear .. A woman will respect you when you respect yourself....

OP, you got yourself into this mess... the only way way is to not heed to her blackmail.... but to set her up...

Someone suggested that you call her and have her threaten you... yes, let her make the threat while you deny everything on call... record the conversation and take it to the police station....

FireManX the idiot actually created that thread
cc thonia69
joviaijune1
efelicity

Messi1:
FireManX the idiot actually created that thread

cc thonia69

joviaijune1

efelicity

What thread?

Thonia69:
What thread?

This thread you created

Messi1:
This thread you created

You need help honestly.

Thonia69:
You need help honestly.

U are the one that actually need help becoz u are already at the brink of isolmtion.How can u be replying to a known account cloner? i dare u to respond to him.I will not take it soft with u like FireManX do.people like u are the ones habouring and feeding trolls..u are satanist!

Messi1:
U are the one that actually need help becoz u are already at the brink of isolmtion.How can u be replying to a known account cloner? i dare u to respond to him.I will not take it soft with u like FireManX do.people like u are the ones habouring and feeding trolls..u are satanist!

Okay

First call your finance to a round table..
Sit and discuss with her..
Second step police

The second step will make your finance have a little trust to your story..

You didn't tell your fiancee you were sick?
Your "helper" slept on the bed with you?
Your "helper" had unrestricted access to your phone because she needed to buy somethings?
You mean you were so sick that you needed someone to sleepover, yet your fiancee didn't have an idea?
Anyways, that doesn't excuse the cheap blackmailer and even if she's your side chick, she has no right to blackmail you. You should involve the police asap.

U deserved what u got, Infact u deserve more punishment than d blackmail. U were so stupid to trust that gender