Response To: "Nigerian Lady Residing In Canada Berates Fellow Nigerians (Video)"

Nigerian Lady Residing In Canada Berates Fellow Nigerians (Video)"
https://www.nairaland.com/7267194/nigerian-lady-residing-canada-berates

Responding to above video and link of a Nigerian lady in Canada complaining that Nigerians who have lived there long enough don't like to help other Nigerians or newly arrived. She only told one side of the story from the side of Nigerians needing help abroad. I think it would be helpful to hear from the side of those who have lived there long enough to tell you why they may be reluctant to help other Nigerians.

Nigerians who have lived there long enough do actually help other Nigerians but you have to earn it! Most of them have dealt with wicked and heartless Nigerians they helped. You help someone without expectations, just pure from your heart, tomorrow, the same person will turn against you for no reason. You yourself will be wondering, what kind of evil person is this? Like, an unwarranted evil. Many Nigerians abroad have experienced this with other Nigerians, so if you find yourself in this situation as someone seeking help, be patient and prove to them they should help you, don't be entitled. An example of an ungrateful and heartless Nigerian helped by a Nigerian abroad https://www.nairaland.com/7180505/nigerian-man-defrauds-us-sponsor#113843316

Now, the fact of the matter is most Nigerians who just arrived abroad are ungrateful and entitled, which is a typical Nigerian mindset and culture back home, that takes time to erase abroad from relearning those bad habits. Remember, the culture and mindset abroad is designed to reward good behaviors, not bad. If people see you are a good person, they will help you. It's not like in Nigeria where you will be disrespecting and inflicting evil on someone and at the same time, seeking help from them. In-laws and village people all on your neck, pressuring you to help the ungrateful idiottt. Nobody here will help you if you are an ungrateful and entitled person. Even the woman making this video is entitled, thinking someone has to help you just because you are a fellow Nigerian, no, you have to prove to those people you deserved to be help. The Filipinos you mentioned, they are not ungrateful and entitled like Nigerians are, so don't compare.

Advice to Nigerians coming abroad, don't come here with that stupid naija mindset of "sharp guy and everything about having sense." Leave all that nonsense in Nigeria with you and come clean. You think Nigerians abroad don't know all those the Niaja tricks? We know, but we've advanced from living abroad in a honest system where things work. Further more, be grateful to people and don't feel entitled. Be honest, be fair, be reasonable and always always reciprocate in kind for help given to you.

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Response To: "Nigerian Lady Residing In Canada Berates Fellow Nigerians (Video)"

Nigerian Lady Residing In Canada Berates Fellow Nigerians (Video)"
https://www.nairaland.com/7267194/nigerian-lady-residing-canada-berates

Responding to above video and link of a Nigerian lady in Canada complaining that Nigerians who have lived there long enough don't like to help other Nigerians or newly arrived. She only told one side of the story from the side of Nigerians needing help abroad. I think it would be helpful to hear from the side of those who have lived there long enough to tell you why they may be reluctant to help other Nigerians.

Nigerians who have lived there long enough do actually help other Nigerians but you have to earn it! Most of them have dealt with wicked and heartless Nigerians they helped. You help someone without expectations, just pure from your heart, tomorrow, the same person will turn against you for no reason. You yourself will be wondering, what kind of evil person is this? Like, an unwarranted evil. Many Nigerians abroad have experienced this with other Nigerians, so if you find yourself in this situation as someone seeking help, be patient and prove to them they should help you, don't be entitled. An example of an ungrateful and heartless Nigerian helped by a Nigerian abroad https://www.nairaland.com/7180505/nigerian-man-defrauds-us-sponsor#113843316

Now, the fact of the matter is most Nigerians who just arrived abroad are ungrateful and entitled, which is a typical Nigerian mindset and culture back home, that takes time to erase abroad from relearning those bad habits. Remember, the culture and mindset abroad is designed to reward good behaviors, not bad. If people see you are a good person, they will help you. It's not like in Nigeria where you will be disrespecting and inflicting evil on someone and at the same time, seeking help from them. In-laws and village people all on your neck, pressuring you to help the ungrateful idiottt. Nobody here will help you if you are an ungrateful and entitled person. Even the woman making this video is entitled, thinking someone has to help you just because you are a fellow Nigerian, no, you have to prove to those people you deserved to be help. The Filipinos you mentioned, they are not ungrateful and entitled like Nigerians are, so don't compare.

Advice to Nigerians coming abroad, don't come here with that stupid naija mindset of "sharp guy and everything about having sense." Leave all that nonsense in Nigeria with you and come clean. You think Nigerians abroad don't know all those the Niaja tricks? We know, but we've advanced from living abroad in a honest system where things work. Further more, be grateful to people and don't feel entitled. Be honest, be fair, be reasonable and always always reciprocate in kind for help given to you.

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