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Re: Why You Feel Remorseful After Certain Sexual Activities by Billygee2u: 10:43am On Aug 21, 2022
Interesting15:
God's design is that all forms of sexual pleasure should be shared between a married man and his female wife inside the safe confines of their marriage institution, with no other party involved

Therefore, any other sexual activity contrary to God's design is sinful and wrong, and a lot of people feel bad and dirty after indulging in them.

These sexual activities includes:

1. Premarital sex (fornication). Having sex when you are not married. 1 Corinthians 6: 18

2. Extramarital Sex (Adultery). Having sex with someone other than your own spouse. Exodus 20:14; Proverbs 6:32-34

3. Homosexuality: Sexual relations between members of same gender, like lesbianism (which is between females) and gayism (which is between males). Romans 1:26-32

4. Pornography And Masturbation. Deriving sexual pleasure from seeing the unclothedness of others; Playing with your sexual organs for sexual pleasures. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4

5. Other Immoral Sexual Acts like smooching someone not your married spouse, sextings and the rest of them. Colossians 3:5

One of the major reasons you feel remorseful after doing something wrong is because you have a conscience. God created you and purposefully inserted your conscience inside you as one of His instruments to regulate your actions. He did this because of love. So that, whether you are a believer or not, you won't go on taking dangerous steps that will bring you into harm.

Now, if your conscience is dead and you don't feel bad after doing wrong and sinful things, you are close to destruction. Hence, you should quickly declare a state of emergency over your life, and run to Jesus for help right now. Simply call upon the Name of Jesus RIGHT NOW, and ask Him to show you mercy.

If you have indulged in sexual immorality, repent and ask the LORD for mercy. It gets easier as you get closer to Jesus, giving your attention to spiritual things only. Study the Bible more, pray and fast often, etc. You can contact me if you need assistance.

Finally, the flesh is weak, and the devil will always want you to indulge in sin so you can destroy yourself. Therefore, avoid people, things and places that keeps pushing you into sinful things.

The LORD comes...

https://www.sundayakanni.com/2022/08/why-you-feel-remorseful-after-certain.html?m=1
Re: Why You Feel Remorseful After Certain Sexual Activities by Stanley3562(m): 10:46am On Aug 21, 2022
Some people are still arguing undecided
Oh well happy Sunday to you all cool
Re: Why You Feel Remorseful After Certain Sexual Activities by diplomat058(m): 11:04am On Aug 21, 2022
Offpoint1:
It's simple psychology, if you fed 15 kids from birth with the belief that "killing a fly is a sin" and they'll perish if they do so. 30 years later, they're still fed with such beliefs, it's simple logic to know if one of those kids kill a fly it'll feel remorse due to what they've been fed with. Their mind has been programmed and configured to that belief....

As a Social Scientist who understands the modality of psychosocial conditioning (Pavlov theory of classical conditioning), I am inclined to agree that many of our actions and actionable conscience are consequences of environmental influences, particularly in a push -pull conditioning.

But how did Adam and Eve realize they were naked immediately after eating the fruit? Verily, they weren't socialized with the concept of unclothedness
Re: Why You Feel Remorseful After Certain Sexual Activities by tradepunter: 11:20am On Aug 21, 2022
Mpcoll001:
Ok

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Re: Why You Feel Remorseful After Certain Sexual Activities by Cjayboy: 11:20am On Aug 21, 2022
This is timely!!!

Thank you..
Keep sharing and sensitizing..

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Re: Why You Feel Remorseful After Certain Sexual Activities by Offpoint1: 11:22am On Aug 21, 2022
diplomat058:


As a Social Scientist who understands the modality of psychosocial conditioning (Pavlov theory of classical conditioning), I am inclined to agree that many of our actions and actionable conscience are consequences of environmental influences, particularly in a push -pull conditioning.

But how did Adam and Eve realize they were naked immediately after eating the fruit? Verily, they weren't socialized with the concept of unclothedness
Adam and Eve is another psychological conditioning... The reality on ground defies the Adam and Eve concept/story.
Re: Why You Feel Remorseful After Certain Sexual Activities by Hohaiiiode(m): 11:24am On Aug 21, 2022
The person just start to d sin be that o
Re: Why You Feel Remorseful After Certain Sexual Activities by jclassiq(m): 11:32am On Aug 21, 2022
pegix:
I didn't see the correlation between masturbation and the bible verse quote
1 Thessalonians 4 vs 3
I have always wanted to see a verse about self sexual pleasure
It must not be clearly spelt out in the bible before you accept it's wrong.
If you are a Christian you have the spirit of God in you, which the author rightly called your conscience. Do you feel proud of yourself after you orgasm by mastur**tion? The answer is no. And i know this because i used to indulge myself in it too.

Sometimes you have the ability to put two and two together, on your own, and arrive at a conclusion.

Sex is primarily meant for reproduction. And, as humans, with whom do you reproduce? Your wife. And as a bonus you get to enjoy other benefits of sex like pleasure and bonding. Period.

So, i can tell you that anything else people do these days -- fvcking for pleasure, self pleasuring, homosexuality etc -- these are totally wrong and can only be explained as abusing the act of sex.

But we are too far gone and too set in our ways to see the truth.

The act of sex is so powerful. Probably the most powerful element in the universe. The only act that is capable of creating another life. How powerful is that?

Yet we abuse it with reckless abandon.

@OP nice post by the way. Well done.

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Re: Why You Feel Remorseful After Certain Sexual Activities by Interesting15: 11:37am On Aug 21, 2022
Odebayo4010:



I need some orientation from you
Alright
Re: Why You Feel Remorseful After Certain Sexual Activities by OscarDboss: 11:42am On Aug 21, 2022
princepee:
Sex sex sex! That overrated s@it that took Kings to prison and kill the strong.
The only weapon women have!
That means it is not overrated now
Re: Why You Feel Remorseful After Certain Sexual Activities by Jacksoncoke(m): 11:43am On Aug 21, 2022
Interesting15:
Happy Sundah everyone. Jesus loves you. Amen

Jesus loves us, but why do we go through so much pains, sorrow and agony while he watches us?
Re: Why You Feel Remorseful After Certain Sexual Activities by diplomat058(m): 11:46am On Aug 21, 2022
Offpoint1:

Adam and Eve is another psychological conditioning... The reality on ground defies the Adam and Eve concept/story.

Adam and Eve are reality. It seems you don't believe the story.
Re: Why You Feel Remorseful After Certain Sexual Activities by ufotunang: 11:49am On Aug 21, 2022
Ones feels remorseful after nacking something with all your energy and later realized that.. that sexual urge and desire that was disturbing you amount to you just wasting your energy and power on a woman when you release
Re: Why You Feel Remorseful After Certain Sexual Activities by T0BY(m): 12:05pm On Aug 21, 2022
That porn and masturbation expecially is a destiny killer.. run away

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Re: Why You Feel Remorseful After Certain Sexual Activities by phemmyfour: 12:07pm On Aug 21, 2022
AntiChristian:


Reason you may fail any compression passage given to you.

Paul said this not Jesus.
Coming from someone that cannot spell COMPREHENSION
Re: Why You Feel Remorseful After Certain Sexual Activities by LoveGifted(m): 12:08pm On Aug 21, 2022
AntiChristian:
Where in the Bible did Jesus himself specifically forbids fornication?

Mark 7:20–23 
"And HE said. That which cometh out of the man, that defileth the man. For from within, out of the heart of men, proceed Evil Thoughts, Adulteries, FORNICATION, Murders, Thefts, Covetousness, Wickedness, Deceit, Lewdness, an Evil Eye, Blasphemy, Pride, Foolishness. All these Evil things come from within and DEFILE a man."

The above is JESUS Christ Speaking to the Pharisees and Scribes who came to accuse him.

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Re: Why You Feel Remorseful After Certain Sexual Activities by CALCULUS16: 12:23pm On Aug 21, 2022
Why is the topic that people always preach on as if inwardly they are not craving for it.
Sx, sx sx, that is what post people think of. The feeling to have it is normal, ability to conquer it is Divine. It should be between a married couple. There is no remorse when it's done between the duo who are legally and divinely bound together.

If you are so thoughtful, you would have this belief of which I have that, one body to one body, this body is meant for the one I will eventually marry or that which I have married.

Those people claiming holy holy are the most desperate for *this thing*. They feel jelous inside when they hear about someone having different ladies for themselves and having their way.
Most brothers in the Lord so to say married not because the Lord says but because of the gift miss *Deborah, Rachael �* carry for back and because they want to taste what they have been craving for. When these sisters married them with the thought that my husbands are saints that really feel remorseful even by seeing the unclothedness of someone or don't like this thing, they would be surprised at the kind of animalistic thrust their husbands are giving them and the constant demand for it and the women will be like, ahh bro john , bro Gabriel I don't know you are like this o�

One hole, one rod is honorable. Only ladies or men of animalistic nature tend to knack anything under skirt and trouser even whatever look like hole even rectum, mouth in human, goat, dogs etc while their ladies always long for any thing like cucumber, candle to service their rotten hole if they don't see any rod to do so.

I'm not religious or spiritual, but I know within me that *what you know that it doesn't belong to you , you should not taste it*

Don't trust those brothers and sisters claiming holy holy o, na them bad past. I have reasons�
Lets live a life not for pleasure seeking but for the happiness of God. You know you won't marry someone yet you deceived her into sleeping with her cos you have what the ladies always fall for , i.e money, position in church, school, place of work, assalatu etc , good look, masculinity etc .
Most ladies too have inferiority complex , the only thing they are proud about is that perishable and changing bag of flesh they carry for back and front. You will see this in the way they pose for pix, --protruded yansh facing North east by tilting their leg cheesy, and exposing their chest. They know that one mumu man who cannot control what he sees must fall for them

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Re: Why You Feel Remorseful After Certain Sexual Activities by 256laye: 12:41pm On Aug 21, 2022
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Re: Why You Feel Remorseful After Certain Sexual Activities by NigerGossip(m): 1:16pm On Aug 21, 2022
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Re: Why You Feel Remorseful After Certain Sexual Activities by beyondPen(m): 1:20pm On Aug 21, 2022
Offpoint1:
It's simple psychology, if you fed 15 kids from birth with the belief that "killing a fly is a sin" and they'll perish if they do so. 30 years later, they're still fed with such beliefs, it's simple logic to know if one of those kids kill a fly it'll feel remorse due to what they've been fed with. Their mind has been programmed and configured to that belief....

You gave the best analogy.

I woke up one morning to ask myself why will I do what we were been told about religion since birth. I decided to start focusing on myself and my mind instead of focus on what religion say about this and that which I have never seen any christian live up to it ever.
Most clergymen who preach against fornication and adultery are the ones who even fall short of it.
Should we say it's hypocrisy? No! It's nature we can't cheat.

Sex is part of nature and it's hard to curb it because we cannot stop nature from happening. We can have sex and still be focused about our goals and ambitions.

The only time I can be remorseful about sex is when I slept with unclean babe or I didn't please her or I didn't please myself.
Re: Why You Feel Remorseful After Certain Sexual Activities by Okhuadams(m): 1:49pm On Aug 21, 2022
Bubu4Sea:
yes oh


Matthew 15:19
For out of the heart proceed evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, false witness, blasphemies:
thank you

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Re: Why You Feel Remorseful After Certain Sexual Activities by Lotechi(m): 1:53pm On Aug 21, 2022
Interesting15:
God's design is that all forms of sexual pleasure should be shared between a married man and his female wife inside the safe confines of their marriage institution, with no other party involved

Therefore, any other sexual activity contrary to God's design is sinful and wrong, and a lot of people feel bad and dirty after indulging in them.

These sexual activities includes:

1. Premarital sex (fornication). Having sex when you are not married. 1 Corinthians 6: 18

2. Extramarital Sex (Adultery). Having sex with someone other than your own spouse. Exodus 20:14; Proverbs 6:32-34

3. Homosexuality: Sexual relations between members of same gender, like lesbianism (which is between females) and gayism (which is between males). Romans 1:26-32

4. Pornography And Masturbation. Deriving sexual pleasure from seeing the unclothedness of others; Playing with your sexual organs for sexual pleasures. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4

5. Other Immoral Sexual Acts like smooching someone not your married spouse, sextings and the rest of them. Colossians 3:5

One of the major reasons you feel remorseful after doing something wrong is because you have a conscience. God created you and purposefully inserted your conscience inside you as one of His instruments to regulate your actions. He did this because of love. So that, whether you are a believer or not, you won't go on taking dangerous steps that will bring you into harm.

Now, if your conscience is dead and you don't feel bad after doing wrong and sinful things, you are close to destruction. Hence, you should quickly declare a state of emergency over your life, and run to Jesus for help right now. Simply call upon the Name of Jesus RIGHT NOW, and ask Him to show you mercy.

If you have indulged in sexual immorality, repent and ask the LORD for mercy. It gets easier as you get closer to Jesus, giving your attention to spiritual things only. Study the Bible more, pray and fast often, etc. You can contact me if you need assistance.

Finally, the flesh is weak, and the devil will always want you to indulge in sin so you can destroy yourself. Therefore, avoid people, things and places that keeps pushing you into sinful things.

The LORD comes...

https://www.sundayakanni.com/2022/08/why-you-feel-remorseful-after-certain.html?m=1
some people feel guilt because the society has conditioned them to feel that way.
Re: Why You Feel Remorseful After Certain Sexual Activities by Lotechi(m): 1:55pm On Aug 21, 2022
justicechichex:
As u rightly pointed out, any form sexual immorality is bad in GOD'S eyes. But ofcourse, HE'S ready to forgive one sincerely repents and turn around from such acts because HE'S a loving and merciful father.


But those who continue to engage in such acts and other detestable practices will incur his wrath because they willfully disobey him. But then ofcourse, who wants to incur GOD'S WRATH?
Ona too like religion for Nigeria.
People wen Dey steal money never incur God’s wrath, but people wen say make dem enjoy themselves na them God go punish. Our mumu nor too much
Re: Why You Feel Remorseful After Certain Sexual Activities by Ctony1: 2:00pm On Aug 21, 2022
Good afternoon greatminds. Happy Sunday to you all.

I have a question to ask.

Is it right to ask for help during an online test when one is being tested on the field one is not familiar with.

I don't know if my question is clear.

For instance, all these recruitment assessments carried out by companies, There are some aspects that are not one's field of study or specialization
. It is a wrong tin to ask Someone who is inclined in such field to be of help?
Re: Why You Feel Remorseful After Certain Sexual Activities by VenumX: 2:02pm On Aug 21, 2022
Benincity:
smiley

Even speaking from the biological point of view sex is very deep. It is a very physically significant act,that taps into you and unviels some
of your most intense emotions in response to raw pleasure. It takes away all the cloaks, You are not just naked in your body but also naked in your mind and spirit. You're off guard, you're vulnerable

There is no pretense or thoughtfulness or good boy or good girl in sex. You become fully an animal. This is particularly for the woman. So that sense of shame or vulnerability you feel after sex is actually because of your awareness of how plain you have become to your partner. He has seen you in your most basic form

That's why I pity people who take the act for granted and do it with just anyone. Especially the women
You don't have to be a pastor to know this.


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Applies to both parties equally.

But your religious chauvinistic self won't accept this.
Re: Why You Feel Remorseful After Certain Sexual Activities by VenumX: 2:30pm On Aug 21, 2022
Benincity:


The fact that men and women share an equal humanity, Does not mean they share equality on every of life pedestal including morphology and hormonal experiences.
Life is not fair, that's reality not chauvinism Men give during sex, women recieve, women get pregnant, men don't. Does that also sound equal to you. It is super daft and idiotic to assume that diversity always amount to the presence of superior and inferior. everything is gender and religious war for you and your lots. smh



We are talking about fornication here. Don't digress.

Both men and women receive during sex. Otherwise, why do men keep 'giving'? What gender is immune to STDs/ AIDs?

Always stick to what your scripture says regarding fornication and exclude your chauvinism.
Re: Why You Feel Remorseful After Certain Sexual Activities by specco(m): 2:36pm On Aug 21, 2022
unclejb2:
No remorse after sex.


Sex is a natural phenomenon.

Only remorse is when I couldn't give her orgasm

Then your conscience is dead. Conscience doesn't die abruptly. It dies gradually until finally dead. Then you won't feel any guilt again.
Re: Why You Feel Remorseful After Certain Sexual Activities by unclejb2(m): 2:52pm On Aug 21, 2022
specco:


Then your conscience is dead. Conscience doesn't die abruptly. It dies gradually until finally dead. Then you won't feel any guilt again.
conscience has nothing to do with sex. God created man and woman to have sex.

The only time you should be remorseful is when you can't perform as a man.
Re: Why You Feel Remorseful After Certain Sexual Activities by crafteck(m): 3:03pm On Aug 21, 2022
Because u aint used to adultery or furnication yet, you are getting there grin

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