Please anybody with a reasonable answer should please answer me because I don't understand..

Why is it that if you don't call someone for a long period of time but he/she somehow connects with you, they be like "you don't even call me to know how I'm doing"
They feel like you don't call them because you don't love or care about them or something, but only call when you need something.

I've experienced this a lot from people even from my own parents LOL because me I can go for months without calling anybody for the sake of checking on you or to know how you're doing.
But that doesn't mean I don't love or care about you. Infact, I feel like people who do that are just doing it just to fulfill all righteousness.

Ok

But this is in the crime section na, back to the question, everyone has his own love mentality

Me that have a terrific calling attitude.....

People who complain should be the first to make the call..

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But this is in the crime section na, back to the question,
everyone has his own love mentality

some people feel it's a crime so? That's why I posted it in the crime section

You don't need to pretend to love when you don't. You might feel that you love them but you are not just connected or let me phrase it better, you have no "affection" for them.

Even if you don't call, how about messaging (voice, text)?

Ask yourself each day you wake up, 'who do I call with my call cards"?

That or those are the ones that you truly love.

In my case, I discovered that some relatives do not want the calls but the cash. So, I limit the calls too. Cos I feel like a cash cow when every call leads to begging. If your case ain that way, then your life has ending in frying tastypussy rather being human or affectionate to your family.

Cos you ain't gon tell me that you do not load your phone.

I don't like calling people. It doesn't mean I don't love or miss them, calling is just not my thing.

My mum don complain tire