Why is it that when you offend a person in this country, instead of the person to come to you and settle the issues involved, they wouldn't... Rather they prefer to go to people who know you to report you to them while you remain in the dark no confrontations nothing at all but you're kind of noticing a change in attitude.

It would only take someone else who cares about your reputation to tell you what been said and honestly speaking it's just so so bad I mean why do people still behave like this.
I know I am not the only one so nairalanders share with experience let's learn too

That's called Prejudice