Zonefree:

This is where you problem lies.

If your beloved wife has to listen to your prophet before doing your biddings, it means she never rated your leadership as the man of the family.

jaksmillioniar:
Am arguing with my college in d office.i told him my experience. My wife does this thing day makes me angry.when got married newly she obey in that angle.if i give her money to cook she cook what I told her. But since she born she does diffrently. If I drop money and expect soup I see something else, why cook beans when I wish to eat soup. She claim is breastfeeding dat she stired and body pains even when my mum visit she never cook but gave her second hand food. Now baby has big No excuse but she still do d same damn thing.av reported to my prophet because it paining me and I dont want to get mad.and do what I dont want to do.my friend say dere is coming nothing bad. Is dis right to disobey and disrespect wat ur hubby wish.

jaksmillioniar:
guy marriage is not easy why most marriage fail today is cos no mentor nobody to advise if their is problem.is oversabi dat kill pple. U expect me not to take advise for person dat marry for 50years. u will understand wen u marry.i agree am d man but sometimes u must share ur pain and dis is a pains of two years

Olaoluwa112:
The person who cooks the food should.

Provided its fairly done, not when she gives her adeori 1 piece of meat, that time you fit pick spoon serve ya self.

OnionBandit:

jaksmillioniar:
wat of why provide d money. Na rubbish talk cos I feel it little tins like dat dat break trust in marriage am not a greedy man. I dont care if is one meat. Cos I take if I want

Zonefree:

So, you seek advice for who to decide what to eat in YOUR house?
Smh for this Gen Z marriage.

Sometimes, the answer you seek in your marriage is right there within you.

OnionBandit:
At your age, you dey believe in fake prophets. I am sure if the prophet says you should bring your wife for 7 days cleansing and deliverance, you go happily submit her...The way dem go Bleep your wife ehn..

jaksmillioniar:
Am arguing with my college in d office.i told him my experience. My wife does this thing day makes me angry.when got married newly she obey in that angle.if i give her money to cook she cook what I told her. But since she born she does diffrently. If I drop money and expect soup I see something else, why cook beans when I wish to eat soup. She claim is breastfeeding dat she stired and body pains even when my mum visit she never cook but gave her second hand food. Now baby has big No excuse but she still do d same damn thing.av reported to my prophet because it paining me and I dont want to get mad.and do what I dont want to do.my friend say dere is coming nothing bad. Is dis right to disobey and disrespect wat ur hubby wish.

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Helpout12345:
I don't think the OP reported his wife to the pastor as per the pastor should scold her or something. I think he went to seek advise from the pastor as his spiritual leader and someone with lots of years under his belt as a married man.

Nothing wrong in seeking such advise in as much as it doesn't get to the point that its only the pastor that the woman will respect before she behaves well in her home.

Back to your question OP, a wife shouldn't not force food choice on her husband and vice versa.

You know your home better than us. You know if truly your wife is overwhelmed. If she is truly overwhelmed, then you can help her out in one way or the other to get what you want to eat.

But if she is not overwhelmed and just being lazy or imposing her choice of food on you, then you must stand your ground until she understands you.

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