WHAT EVERY MAN SHOULD KNOW BEFORE GETTING MARRIED.

To find a woman to marry is not as difficult as most men are insisting now. What is actually hard is their inability to decipher between the woman they want and the one they need.

There is no man who doesn't want a God fearing woman with Halle Berry looks, Okonjo Iwela's brain and Folorunsho Alakija's wealth. The question is, ' is that the woman you really need?'

Cut your coat according to your cloth. Even when you get the woman mentioned above, can you meet up to the responsibilities?

The Halle Berry in her will need constant expensive beauty products, the Okonjo Iwela brain in her will need a lot of intellectual engagements cum support and the Folorunsho Alakija's wealth in her will demand financial advice and many unexplained business meetings. Can you handle that? Is that what you really need?

Listen!

Unless you are extremely mature, do not marry a woman who is wiser than you. This is not because doing so is bad. It is because you would constitute a problem in the marriage. If she Insists on her superior argument, you will interprete it as insubordination and claim she is not submissive. If you must marry such a woman, go and increase in wisdom first. If not, go for your size. When a woman think you are wiser, following you becomes easy for her.

Ensure you marry a woman with the same financial persuasions as yours. Don't marry a woman who has developed a taste beyond your financial capacity and do not understand why she should lower it. Nothing is wrong with her, it is your desire to make her your wife that is a problem. The amount of money and sacrifices you are making for her and getting insulted for, another woman somewhere is getting lesser than that from her husband and she is worshiping him for his effort. Nothing is wrong with both women. Something is wrong with the man who gets insulted for doing his best.

This is not an attempt to support extravagant women, it is to teach you wisdom. One woman's extravagance is another woman's poverty.

Anytime you hear people say 'this is a good wife' it is because she believes in her husband's vision and has aligned with it. Walking together becomes easy. Don't marry a woman who would struggle so hard to align with yours and give her a bad name in the end.

No matter how powerful a man is, there is a woman who is out of his reach.

Rather than use a ladder all the time, to reach fruits that are out of reach, go for low hanging fruits. Ladders may break or get missing but your legs will always be there for you.

Do not let your desire for what you want, deny you of what you really need.

Forever is a very long time and time moves slowly when things are bad.

Receive wisdom.

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100% perfect. I'm married, thus, I get the points you've marshalled.

Nice submission

Any man wey wan combine those three women qualities together get first class greediness
for im DNA.

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Just marry the woman your heart follows

With the chameleon nature of women, who knows who's not good?

My crush is on nairaland.