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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by Nobody: 1:34pm On Nov 27, 2022
EmahBoss:



You belong to the gutter, no need exchanging words with you... Your use of language is a turn off! Won't reply you again...

See who be like chuckley saying I belong to the gutters... Don't even let me start cos you won't like yourself.

Madam who uses advanced Oxford dictionary language, come and continue talking.
Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by Karleb(m): 1:35pm On Nov 27, 2022
lansile:
You said you representing youth yet you're talking like a man from 12th century. Even if the other styles e.g doggy, See-Saw etc were from mojo films, they are still the styles of the youths. You fall my hands o, no be in this world where many pastors have been caught with all kinds of styles on top other men wives? The last one was caught in vigorous doggy right inside the husband's room by the man himself. If you ask for my opinion, I'd say once you are married, you have been licensed to try all kinds of styles as long as you both enjoy it.

That aunty is not a youth.

Wetin my mama collect from her no reach 10 years. She's in her early 40s.

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by ShaqFu: 1:36pm On Nov 27, 2022
Octopusssy:

The argument is senseless. Of all the sins that condemn one's soul to hell, it is what sexual position I and my lawfully wedded spouse adopt in the bedroom that will condemn one?

Shior
Now I wish I could see the heavy scowl on your face now. grin grin

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by Mayeldah(m): 1:36pm On Nov 27, 2022
Is God really bothered about the style? Too many rules making being a Christian difficult, funny enough these rules are made by men and not God. Most times they twist a Bible verse just to back up their control of your life.

Remember that Kumuyi once use Bible verses to paint watching TV as sin, now he knows better.

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by Nobody: 1:38pm On Nov 27, 2022
EmahBoss:



You belong to the gutter, no need exchanging words with you... Your use of language is a turn off! Won't reply you again...

the fact that you keep attacking my looks shows you are threatened!

Threatened? Or it's you who keeps mentioning my age that feels threatened because even in my 40s, you don't measure up. Lol..

Please don't go there. I don't know how to brag but Biko, no try am.
Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by Penguin2: 1:39pm On Nov 27, 2022
profndu:


It hurts those who are impotent and sexually weak. They will do everything under the shadow of the Bible to make you behave like them in bed.. Religious fanatism is the problem of the world. These gullible over righteous lots have multiplied the 10 commandments to include everything we do on earth. The cannot keep the 10 commandments but they have expanded it and they are now operating 1000 commandments.

I like the way you put… they are have expanded the 10 commandment to accommodate whatever fancies their biases, sentiments, superstitions and other bullshits.

Someday Africa will be free from religious slavery.
Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by Ladymillion(f): 1:41pm On Nov 27, 2022
Even Missionaries are tired of the missionary styles. . . . . I am married by the way
Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by ibtommy(m): 1:44pm On Nov 27, 2022
Dey there dey place burdens on yourselves. Na una dey like 'am' pass. As long as it's not anal, you can reach her V with your manhood through different styles. Marriage is not only for procreation; it's for pleasure also. Better enjoy what God has given you and stop being too religious. In the first place this kind of topic shouldn't have been discussed in the presence of youths right in your so-called church. Later now, you find out they got turned on and hammered themselves. Be warned. Nawa for you!!!
Some of you will not do different styles with your wives, but you will be practising it with young girls and students outside. That's a very grievous sin before God!!! When those girls get married, do you expect them not to expect more from their husbands? You are not God; allow people to do practise what's not sinful. Do as you're led ( that's if even if you're being led by the Holy Spirit... e get many kinda spirits wey dey lead people)

Blessedmercy8:
Someone raised this question in church last week being a family weekend in my denomination.
She asked if it's right for christian couple to do other sex styles apart from the "mummy and daddy " style and there were mixed reactions from the youth and some of our old school parents.

One elderly woman said, there's only one way to the door while some young mothers said if both parties agree then it's fine but I ( representing the youth) was of the opinion that it's a sin. This didn't go down well with some of our middle aged mommies until I backed it up with some points..

One of the mommies was like, since they are now married, they own their bodies and can do whatever they like with it but I countered her by asking if such styles glorify God.

I went on to ask where such styles were copied from... Pornography. This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers; even if it was, it was probably during Sodom and Gomorrah and we all know God's take on their actions. Now bringing to our own time, these styles became popular when pornography took over the internet and most couples practicing it learnt it from pornographic contents ( which is a sin) probably during their worldly days and are now gradually bringing such practice into the church and trying to paint it nice by saying their bodies belong to each other therefore they can do anything.

Pornography where these styles emanated from is a sin and this makes the practice of such styles a sin as it doesn't give glory to God but the devil. As christians, I believe everything should be done in moderation and to the glory of God.

Remember, your body is the temple of the holy spirit. So, do not use worldly practices and fetishes to defile your bodies.

What you guys think?


Modified.

Ok guys, I see everyone trying to justify this act by saying it's not stated anywhere in the bible what styles couples should do but at the same time condeming the act of anal sex. What a double standard.

Now, if we are to go by your submissions, where is it stated in the bible that the VJ is the right entrance and not anal?

Were Adam and Eve taught where to use, going by your argument? No, they chose it themselves. So why kick against anal if I can't kick against different styles?

This shows that we all have a sense of right and wrong and should be able to do the right thing and not try to bend it to favor us when it's not convenient reason some can say anal sex is wrong and different styles is not right. Simple!


Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by iconomics(m): 1:44pm On Nov 27, 2022
The term missionary style has no basis or foundation in bible and by extension Christianity. Its a boring and monotonous sexx position which has the man on top and the woman underneath (cos the man is the head of the woman right?)
Sexx as an act has no rule, the exception is anal sexx because its against the human nature. The female sexx organ is designed to receive the the male organ. The anus is designed as an exit point for body waste and not for intercourse.
Couples are expected to enjoy sexx so long as it doesn't contradict the natural order.
Humans are experimental in nature more reason different sex positions are adopted to enjoy a good sex life. Some Christians over think these things making it look like missionary style is the only acceptable sexx position a believer must adopt,meanwhile there isn't a biblical passage or injunction that dictates or stipulates such. Some Christians are extremist in views and would end up making life boring and unenjoyable for themselves and their spouses by their holier than thou attitude.

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by dazzlingd(m): 1:45pm On Nov 27, 2022
triple996:
Try every style u want as far as it's not anal..........islam

Anal whey Jesus dey do
Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by Nobody: 1:46pm On Nov 27, 2022
I think Op intentionally creates controversial threads for validation, attention, boredom, and loneliness, especially loneliness, reading all her threads you can see she has no life outside nairaland, if she doesn't create threads of her looks, she must create threads of her twin, or her every lifestyle, and this is someone in her early 40s

What a sad life.

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by RichardRexs(m): 1:47pm On Nov 27, 2022
crackhouse:
Is missionary the approved one?
Christians felt because the name missionary implies "holy". They now Christened it a Godly style.

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by Octopusssy(f): 1:47pm On Nov 27, 2022
ShaqFu:
Now I wish I could see the heavy scowl of your face now. grin grin
I'm not scowling o. My face is calm despite my irritation grin

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by Nobody: 1:47pm On Nov 27, 2022
dazzlingd:


Anal whey Jesus dey do

With you abi?

Just tell us you are gay nobody will beat you.

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by chris51(f): 1:49pm On Nov 27, 2022
Blessedmercy8:


Islam can permit it, fine. we don't have the same religious beliefs and practices, so it's cool but definitely not for christians.

Modified.
What I deduced from y'alls reactions here is. people enjoy and are so immersed in bad things a lot that if you try to tell them to stop, because it is sweeting them, they can bite off your head. That is what I see in all your reactions. .

Non is even arguing brightly, only attacking and tearing themselves up and down.

Bad things dey sweet. This is why it is difficult for majority to live a holy life. Too many bad things.

Is there any where in the Bible where style of sex was discussed?

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by chris51(f): 1:49pm On Nov 27, 2022
chris51:


Is there any where in the Bible where style of sex was discussed?
Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by jojothaiv(m): 1:50pm On Nov 27, 2022
The question now on my mind, is missionary style reserved for the holiest or what..

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by Nobody: 1:51pm On Nov 27, 2022
chris51:


Is there any where in the Bible where style of sex was discussed?

No.
Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by SenatePresdo(m): 1:52pm On Nov 27, 2022
Blessedmercy8:


Islam can permit it, fine. we don't have the same religious beliefs and practices, so it's cool but definitely not for christians.

Modified.
What I deduced from y'alls reactions here is. people enjoy and are so immersed in bad things a lot that if you try to tell them to stop, because it is sweeting them, they can bite off your head. That is what I see in all your reactions. .

Non is even arguing brightly, only attacking and tearing themselves up and down.

Bad things dey sweet. This is why it is difficult for majority to live a holy life. Too many bad things.

Wahala for people wey dey fear go hell fire.

Anal will be my favourite, I won't mind going to hell fire if I will be able to be having anal sex with beautiful mami water daughters for there.
Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by ibtommy(m): 1:53pm On Nov 27, 2022
Mayeldah:
Is God really bothered about the style? Too many rules making being a Christian difficult, funny enough these rules are made by men and not God. Most times they twist a Bible verse just to back up their control of your life.

Remember that Kumuyi once use Bible verses to paint watching TV as sin, now he knows better.

No mind dem jare.
I watched one Christian film like that. The guy and em wife na novices for s*x. The hubby dey give her normal l. One man leveraged on the naivety of the wife; got her aroused by discussing different styles with her. She loved it as Eve was also deceived. Na so forget herself dey open leg. Even for kitchen. At the long run, she lost her health and her hubby. Let's be careful. Do it to her or someone will deceive her if she's the gullible type. Women shouldn't be left to suffer in that aspect or they might learn it from an agent of Satan in the office, church ( true to say) or elsewhere.

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by Tochj(m): 1:53pm On Nov 27, 2022
Which verse in the bible taught you any style at all?

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by dazzlingd(m): 1:54pm On Nov 27, 2022
Jovialjune1:


With you abi?

Just tell us you are gay nobody will beat you.

No I’m not, but Jesus is gay

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by luluosas(m): 1:55pm On Nov 27, 2022
Well, I think the missionary style is the Godly style in Christian sexual approach. But however, I think those that chose other styles do so for maximum pleasure if agreed upon by the couples. So, anal is totally ruled out please
Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 1:56pm On Nov 27, 2022
Blessedmercy8:


Please note this was clearly for real born again Christians not children of the world.
Go and sit down in one corner.
Self righteous fanatic

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by jmichael259(m): 1:57pm On Nov 27, 2022
Blessedmercy8:


Islam can permit it, fine. we don't have the same religious beliefs and practices, so ..definitely not for christians.

Modified.
What I deduced from y'alls reactions here is. people enjoy and are so immersed in bad things a lot that if you try to tell them to stop, because it is sweeting them, they can bite off your head. That is what I see in all your reactions. .


Bad things dey sweet. This is why it is difficult for majority to live a holy life. Too many bad things.

The bible and quran both condemns uncleanness or animalistic acts and lack of self control. There is nothing unclean or animalistic about having sex with ur marriage partner except bestiality, anal, mouth, doggy, torture, necrophilia. scatology, canibalism etc.

There is absolutely nothing wrong or sinful with sex in shower, couch, kitchen, standing, sitting, lying down, wheelbarrow, cowgirl and all forms of normal penetration.
Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by Allisgud: 2:06pm On Nov 27, 2022
Make who na dey decieve una self,all I know is that there is a reason why the reproductive organ is where it is,which is to sex and bring forth children
Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by Nobody: 2:10pm On Nov 27, 2022
dazzlingd:


No I’m not, but Jesus is gay


Ani you are his gay lover, for you to be certain he's gay.

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by xynerise: 2:11pm On Nov 27, 2022
Are you kidding me? undecided

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by TOPCRUISE(m): 2:13pm On Nov 27, 2022
So if you engage your partner in BDSM you will enter hell fire. angry
Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by dazzlingd(m): 2:17pm On Nov 27, 2022
Jovialjune1:



Ani you are his gay lover, for you to be certain he's gay.

No I'm not, maybe your hubby
Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by Ellasure: 2:22pm On Nov 27, 2022
Bahamas95:
"This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers;"



How did you know it wasn't in existence during their time? You dey there when dem dey knack? I dislike religious people.


Don't mind the writer. Just writing something.

Who told you pornographers introduced sex style? Where do the pornographers learn their styles from?

How do crippled couples sex? How do people with other bodily abnormalities sex? What of various animals like dogs lions birds etc? Please open up your mind to see the variety nature offers and their applications to mankind.

The good book even tell you to learn from other animals for good living.


Allow me enjoy my "dirty styles" in peace.

Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by jmichael259(m): 2:23pm On Nov 27, 2022
Blessedmercy8:


Please note this was clearly for real born again Christians not children of the world.


Only God knows and can make someone "born again". You have no authority to pronounce who is what.
Your statements reeks of zealotry, fanatism, extremism and "causing a murmuring" or being a "stumbling block" in the congregation.
You are also displaying what Jesus condemned the pharisees of "burdening their followers" with irrelevances while failing to "lift a finger" to the law.

By the way, as a very spiritual person, i'll like to ask you people, Who in your church watched blue film to know which styles they use? The style pictured in blue film is it not people doing what people previously did? So, how is it blue film that invented styles? Is missionary not also pictured in blue film, so that makes it a sin too?

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