*11 RED FLAGS FOR MEN IN COURTSHIP AHEAD OF MARRIAGE*


1. A lady who is not comfortable leaving her phone without password around you. My dear, TRUST is built and earned over time with such little things.

2. Avoid any lady who still talks about her ex boyfriend or flings and still do love and romantic chats with him. Cheating and Secrecy would be inevitable from such even in marriage...

3. A lady who is wilfully stubborn and rejects rebuke.

4. Marrying a lady who tells you we are in the 21st century and there is nothing wrong if a surname change is not done after marriage. My dear, that is an escape route for illicit affairs as she can readily proof to another that she is not married.

5. Ladies who can't say sorry when they are the offenders repeatedly. You may be pushed into a quick separation to find another that understands the principle of love from a man and submission from a woman.

6. Avoid the woman who insults you and your family at the same time. Marrying her might turn you into a wrestler or one that uses wrong words because of her action...

7. Run from a lady who cannot have a free week of no cursing while driving or outside her house. Expect transfer of aggression to you sooner or later.

8. Run from a girl that's supportive to a man for a selfish reason.
She will verbally run you down sooner or later.

9. Run from a lady whose default mode is to talk back at you in condescension first before thinking about the truth of what you said.
You may develop emotional breakdown sooner or later.

10. Avoid a Lady that has no boundaries with men.
You will find some nasty things about them in marriage (including dirty video calls and chats) and ask yourself why you came this far with them.

11. Most importantly any lady that does not see the need to read God's word daily and make it the foundation of her thoughts, words and deeds as well as if she doesn't see both of you working for God as one

Any lady who doesn't have at least one of these redflag isn't born of a woman

Apus:
Any lady who doesn't have at least one of these redflag isn't born of a woman

my babe doesn't. We're still relatively new though.

Apus:
Any lady who doesn't have at least one of these redflag isn't born of a woman

She could be born of a woman and reborn of the Holy Spirit hence those red flags become absent.

ecoco2014:

She could be born of a woman and reborn of the Holy Spirit hence those red flags become absent.

Hmm...deep.
Cos Ordinary woman nature cannot have any redflag no matter how they try or pretend.

greenermodels:
my babe doesn't. We're still relatively new though.

You are lucky then. Keep her tight.
We don see shege for woman hand.

Apus:


You are lucky then. Keep her tight.
We don see shege for woman hand.

if not the need to have children to take care of us in old age, most Nigerian men are better off without marriage, most of our Ladies are not wife materials.