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Grow Above Offences by edet19892015(m): 12:42am On Jan 07, 2023
Grow Above Offences.

Learn how to maintain relationships with people this new year.

It is uncultured and immature to pick offence at every provocation or perceived wrong and then you start keeping grudges as a result.
Grow above it.

�Someone did not invite you for their celebration, you pick offence with them.

�Someone did not compliment you, you pick offence with the person.

�They did not like your social media post or comment, you pick offence.

�They did not support you in a debate you had with someone, you pick offence with them.

�They are your junior colleagues and they have the audacity to talk or oppose your opinion, you pick offence with them.

�They said NO to your request, you pick offence and start keeping malice.

�You asked them for money, they said they did not have, you pick offence.

�You are even keeping records of people who came around when you were bereaved, hospitalised or had an occasion so you can know who to pick offence with.

Please take note of the following:

1. Everyone has battles you are not aware of.

2. Those who you need help from are also seeking for Help.

3. Not everything is personal and Intentional.

4. Not everyone hates you and never hate anyone.

5. Sometimes, people are just caught up with their own lives, struggles, human weaknesses and limitations.

Above all, Learn how to manage being disappointed by people and still be on friendly terms with them. It will save you a lot of unnecessary grudges and save you some friendships you may need in future.
Grow above all unwanted attitudes and behaviors this 2023 and Beyond.
Re: Grow Above Offences by CanadaOrBust: 1:49am On Jan 07, 2023
Or just don’t give a fućk. Giving too many bleeps is the root of all evil

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Re: Grow Above Offences by edet19892015(m): 2:04pm On Jan 09, 2023
CanadaOrBust:
Or just don’t give a fućk. Giving too many bleeps is the root of all evil
Hmm

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