In Sha Allah, I want to start reviewing this book, ‘The Islamic Etiquettes of Using the Telephone’. This is a book written by Shaykh Bakr Abu Zayd and translated into the English Language with the title ‘The Islamic Etiquettes of Using the Telephone’. Makkah Al-Mukarramah published the book in 2013, this book discusses the etiquette that a Muslim is required to uphold when using the telephone.

All Muslims are encouraged to follow the review because it is beneficial.

I will start with the introductory part this week. I hope to review similar books in future.

Introduction

The introduction of the book "The Islamic Etiquettes of Using the Telephone" by Shaykh Bakr Abu Zayd starts by praising Allah and invoking peace and blessings upon the Prophet Muhammad. The author then notes that the topic of manners when using the telephone is rooted in the Islamic teachings about manners of meeting, seeking permission, speech, and talking to others. The author emphasizes that these manners are important in building good character and following the example of the Prophet Muhammad, who said that gentleness is essential to beauty and goodness. The author also notes that these manners are required from both the caller and the called, although some are more strongly required from the caller. The author concludes by emphasizing that good manners are essential to the objectives of Islam and that the successful, intelligent person is the one who follows the Islamic teachings on manners while being understanding and forgiving of those who may fall short.

The author concludes the introduction by stating that the purpose of writing this book is to remind themselves and other Muslims of the importance of manners when using the telephone. The author also states that they have written the book as a warning against two harmful practices: remaining silent when the phone has been answered and recording telephone conversations without permission. The author notes that the telephone, pager, and mobile phone have become an essential part of our lives and play a vital role in verbal communication, saving time and effort. Therefore, it is important to understand the manners of using the telephone in light of Islamic teachings. The author gives thanks to Allah for the blessings of modern technology.

In light of this, the author encourages readers to join them on this journey of reviewing the book and learning about the Islamic etiquettes of using the telephone. They hope that by gaining a deeper understanding of these teachings, readers will be able to apply them in their daily lives and improve their communication with others, in accordance to the shari'ah. The author emphasizes that this is an important topic to explore, as the telephone plays such a central role in our lives, and it is crucial to use it in a way that is respectful, considerate and in accordance with Islamic teachings.

The author also highlights the importance of being mindful of the impact of our actions and the consequences of neglecting to follow the Islamic etiquettes of using the telephone. They remind readers that these manners are not just a set of rules to be followed, but rather, they are rooted in the teachings of Islam, that aim to promote goodness, fraternity, and love among Muslims. By adhering to these etiquettes, we can not only improve our own behavior but also contribute to a more positive and harmonious society.

In conclusion, the introduction of the book "The Islamic Etiquettes of Using the Telephone" is a comprehensive overview of the importance of manners when using the telephone in accordance with Islamic teachings. The author emphasizes the importance of this topic, and encourages readers to join them on this journey of learning and self-improvement. The author also reminds us that by adhering to these etiquettes, we can contribute to a better society and fulfill the objectives of Islam.


As we embark on this journey of reviewing this book, "The Islamic Etiquettes of Using the Telephone", we hope to gain a deeper understanding of the Islamic teachings on manners when using the telephone, and how to apply them in our daily lives. Again, InshAllah I will be reviewing the book weekly, and providing insights, summaries and reflections on the key points covered in each chapter. I hope you will join us on this journey of learning and self-improvement.

May Allah make it easy for us (Aameen).

Chapter 1: [Dialling the ] Correct Number

The first chapter of "The Islamic Etiquettes of Using the Telephone" focuses on the importance of making sure you have the correct number before dialing. The author stresses the importance of not waking someone sleeping, inconveniencing someone who is sick, or troubling someone for no reason. They advise to double check the number is written in front of you or you know it correctly, and be mindful when dialing, following your finger and to excuse yourself if a mistake happens.

The author also advises the person being called to be patient and not act harshly if they receive a wrong call. They suggest saying "sorry, you have the wrong number" and to pretend to be unaware of the situation. The author emphasizes that there is no harm on the caller if the mistake was made inadvertently, and that the person being called should not be harsh or retaliate. They also advise that one should be kind and not to cause harm to others, and that one who ignores and does not pay attention to minor matters will be successful.

Overall, the first chapter emphasizes the importance of being mindful and cautious when making phone calls, to avoid causing inconvenience or trouble to others. It also stresses the importance of being patient and kind when receiving wrong calls, and to avoid retaliation or causing harm.

What do you gain from the book today? Can you summarize what you gained to benefit others?

InshAllah, we start with the next chapter (The time of calling) next week.
Shukran