She is my cousin, I called her aunty because she's older than me. She is a very beautiful woman even now that she is close to 50. She got married first in 1999, she and her first husband have two kids together, the man died after a brief sickness in 2005.
She waited for 10 years and remarried to a divorced man in 2015, the man died 4 years later in 2019 after being sick for just 9 days.
Now more than 3 years after, she has another suitor but aunty said she isn't marrying again and would stay single for the rest of her life.
People in my area always believe such incidences has deep spiritual causes.
Is it true that she could be under a spiritual spell?
What can she do about it?

It could be a coincidence, it could be a spiritual problem but all the same, I'll advise her to just forget about marriage focus on her kids.

Someone who's first marriage was in 1999 would be way above 45 years today, at that age, chasing marriage at the expense of her kids wouldn't be ideal cos she shouldn't expect whoever she's married to adopt them, she can have relationships, boyfriends...but her kids should be her utmost pirority.

I don’t subscribe to the spiritual spell thing. This could literally happen to anyone.

Her kids are already adults assuming the last child was born 18 years ago (same year her husband died); her focus right now should be on raising her kids and not trying to get married anymore.

Make aunty forget marriage ooo.. First husband die, second one die. It can be coincidence and it can be spiritual. She don born pikin nao.. make she face them.. no be like say she still one born pikin again... she fit just dey sama a constant guy but make she say no to marriage..

No matter what we say another simp will still marry her

What’s spiritual about this? People are born to die! My auntie was widowed 3 times before she left the world. Women often marry men who are older than them so it’s only natural that these men would die before their younger female counterparts!

wwwkaycom:
Now more than 3 years after, she has another suitor but aunty said she isn't marrying again and would stay single for the rest of her life. People in my area always believe such incidences has deep spiritual causes.
Is it true that she could be under a spiritual spell?
What can she do about it?

People no dey die again? Or do you have evidence to prove she killed any of her previous husbands? If not, I don't see why you feel the need to bring this here for folks to judge. So, what evidence do you have against her?

Nazgul:
It could be a coincidence, it could be a spiritual problem but all the same, I'll advise her to just forget about marriage focus on her kids. Someone who's first marriage was in 1999 would be way above 45 years today, at that age, chasing marriage at the expense of her kids wouldn't be ideal cos she shouldn't expect whoever she's married to adopt them, she can have relationships, boyfriends...but her kids should be her utmost pirority.

You are not certain yet you advice she doesn't get married again? If your wife where to die and maybe a side chick too, would that also stop you from remarrying?

Nairalander01:
I don’t subscribe to the spiritual spell thing. This could literally happen to anyone.

Her kids are already adults assuming the last child was born 18 years ago (same year her husband died); her focus right now should be on raising her kids and not trying to get married anymore.

Her focus should be on raising her kids because remarrying, she is no longer to raise her kids?

Would you also refuse to remarry if you were in her shoes or you are saying this because you are not currently in her shoes??

As the resident NL prophet,

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TheGoodAmerican:
■Because she's close to 50 now, then there's no need for her to get married again. She should find a window like herself for a committed relationship, not marriage. A man her age or older might have some health issues, hence, to avoid history repeating itself, whether committed relationship or another marriage, she should inquire beforehand.

So, because she is a woman and close to age 50 there is no need for her to marry again? Are you joking?

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wwwkaycom:
She is my cousin, I called her aunty because she's older than me. She is a very beautiful woman even now that she is close to 50. She got married first in 1999, she and her first husband have two kids together, the man died after a brief sickness in 2005.
She waited for 10 years and remarried to a divorced man in 2015, the man died 4 years later in 2019 after being sick for just 9 days.
Now more than 3 years after, she has another suitor but aunty said she isn't marrying again and would stay single for the rest of her life.
People in my area always believe such incidences has deep spiritual causes.
Is it true that she could be under a spiritual spell?
What can she do about it?

Since she has gotten two from bad experiences

Let her keep a lover while facing her children

Because if she marry's now, she may not be able to have children considering her age and I don't know how relevant she will be with that family especially if she happens to experience the third one with her man

Is she well to do and able to take care of herself and children? If yes, she should focus on raising her kids. She can have relationships and it should be with responsible men her age or older.

But she's considering marriage again for financial security, she has to be careful and thread with sense. But she must not get married to someone who would depend on her financially, otherwise, it may affect her kids welfare.

What happened to her could be coincidences, but if a third one happens...

It happens.

Life happens,but at that age,I think her priority should be well defined.
But the craze for intimacy sha, wetin gbola never cause.

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Going by your cal she's more than 60.

She should forget about marriage and focus on her children.

Superstition believes that she fell from her mother's back

She's a witch. You need to kill her as the Bible commands.

Marriage isn't for everybody....

Know this and know peace ✌️

1Sharon:
She's a witch. You need to kill her as the Bible commands.

WTF

She can get married again if she wants.
Companionship is important.