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.. by TheBTCinvestor: 8:17pm On Feb 04, 2023
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Re: .. by Abaniwealth(f): 8:22pm On Feb 04, 2023
Oga this is spiritual...
Adultery is a sin..

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Re: .. by slimjohn2k5: 8:27pm On Feb 04, 2023
[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]Is not spiritual
Ur wife too dey naked for house
Tell her to be dressing smart at home
Or buy her nice clothes

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Re: .. by nonyofor2(m): 8:32pm On Feb 04, 2023
Na normal thing but u guys need to spice up ur marriage, u can get some sexy wears for ur wife, let her stop wearing wrapper up and down. Also try having sex outside the house or even in the car or some other crazy places.

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Re: .. by TheBTCinvestor: 8:39pm On Feb 04, 2023
nonyofor2:
Na normal thing but u guys need to spice up ur marriage, u can get some sexy wears for ur wife, let her stop wearing wrapper up and down. Also try having sex outside the house or even in the car or some other crazy places.

She doesn't wear wrapper..she's still young
Re: .. by Lionmachala(m): 8:56pm On Feb 04, 2023
Go get igboya mixed it with honey and drink it... Next Sunday come to my church for Thanksgiving

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Re: .. by TheBTCinvestor: 9:02pm On Feb 04, 2023
Lionmachala:
Go get igboya mixed it with honey and drink it... Next Sunday come to my church for Thanksgiving

What's Igboya and where do I get it?

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Re: .. by frozen70(f): 9:03pm On Feb 04, 2023
TheBTCinvestor:
Recently iv noticed that I have no sexual feelings towards my wife who has a baby for me and its giving me concerns. I love her and she loves me too. Even if she's naked.. I Don't get erections. Iv tried Vega 100 and Viagra and even Jekonmo bitters and its still the same...It comes hard but when I penetrate to have sex it falls..Its been very frustrating. It wasn't like this when we were dating.

But I noticed when I see other girls my erection comes up. What shud I do?

Discuss this issue with her and both of you will sort it out together
Just be calm

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Re: .. by TheBTCinvestor: 9:04pm On Feb 04, 2023
frozen70:


Discuss this issue with her and both if you will sort it out together
Just be calm

Okay thanks..but she's feeling bad
Re: .. by frozen70(f): 9:10pm On Feb 04, 2023
TheBTCinvestor:


Okay thanks..but she's feeling bad

She needs to cooperate with you, for you to have a successful restart

Continue to love her and make her feel at home

She may be thinking you are no longer finding her attractive

So assure her that you will be fine and that doesn't stop you form putting her through romance

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Re: .. by purehustle101(m): 9:12pm On Feb 04, 2023
I always tell guys that one kpekus dey kill dick, una done see am. Variety is the spice of life

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Re: .. by TheBTCinvestor: 9:17pm On Feb 04, 2023
purehustle101:
I always tell guys that one kpekus dey kill dick, una done see am. Variety is the spice of life

I get erections with other women but not my wife cool

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Re: .. by Lionmachala(m): 9:22pm On Feb 04, 2023
TheBTCinvestor:


What's Igboya and where do I get it?



I guess either 600 or 700

Re: .. by Stevenbright(m): 9:29pm On Feb 04, 2023
TheBTCinvestor:


I get erections with other women but not my wife cool

You are the problem.

You don't find her attractive again because you think other women you are seeing are better than her. It is psychological. Your mind is playing a game on you!

Solution: Stop cheating on your wife and you will start finding her attractive again and your John Thomas will be eager to put her to work and get the best out of her.

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Re: .. by Nicepoker(m): 9:32pm On Feb 04, 2023
Your wife has outlived her usefulness.

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Re: .. by Beremx(f): 9:49pm On Feb 04, 2023
Both of you should watch x-rated videos. It might help
Re: .. by Holybaddo: 10:53pm On Feb 04, 2023
Don’t nack for like 3-4months

Abstain from it completely

You will come back and thank Me
And tell your wife due to health issues you want to go on xbreak
Re: .. by Asebaba1(m): 11:11pm On Feb 04, 2023
TheBTCinvestor:
Recently iv noticed that I have no sexual feelings towards my wife who has a baby for me and its giving me concerns. I love her and she loves me too. Even if she's naked.. I Don't get erections. Iv tried Vega 100 and Viagra and even Jekonmo bitters and its still the same...It comes hard but when I penetrate to have sex it falls..Its been very frustrating. It wasn't like this when we were dating.
The mind controls the body, there is something you are not seeing the same way again.

But I noticed when I see other girls my erection comes up. What shud I do?
Re: .. by wwwkaycom(m): 11:24pm On Feb 04, 2023
Be sincere with yourself. You don dey knack another girl for outdide, that's why your prick no dey move for your wife

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Re: .. by Kobojunkie: 11:55pm On Feb 04, 2023
Abaniwealth:
Oga this is spiritual...
Adultery is a sin..
Stop lying to the man . There is nothing spiritual about what ails him. undecided

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Re: .. by Richy4(m): 12:10am On Feb 05, 2023
Oga, The loss of interest in sexual activity or general avoiding of sexual opportunity can be signs of either hormone imbalance or performance anxiety.

Since you are experiencing these symptoms they may be signs that you’re struggling with erectile dysfunction.

Please check your blood /sugar levels, if u do smoke, maybe it's about time that you stop.. visit the hospital buddy. It got nothing to do with your wife.. sufficient blood are not rushing to maintain the u know what..

Your doctor will explain better... you should also let your better half understand the situation that it got nothing to do with her...so she won't start cracking her brain...and her imaginations wandering far away from the real situation smiley

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Re: .. by worksmart(m): 12:26am On Feb 05, 2023
OP because it is worrying you it is making you lose your erection. If you worry about a problem too much the problem grows bigger and keeps occuring.

First avoid watching porn, masturbation and orgasm alone. Most importantly try never to orgasm with out it being your wife that gives you that orgasm.

If you have sidechicks or olosho avoid having sex to the point of orgasm with them also.

Try not worry about by trying to be naked together without sex, then after a few days massaging her naked only , She can also massage you with no intention of sex.

After a few days of doing this you can progress to touching each other sexually without penetrative sex.

By this time you have gotten to the stage of not worrying about your performance simply because you are both naked and the stress that was killing your erection should have long gone and you are back to getting your normal erections and normal sex life.

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Re: .. by Nobody: 3:02am On Feb 05, 2023
TheBTCinvestor:
Recently iv noticed that I have no sexual feelings towards my wife who has a baby for me and its giving me concerns. I love her and she loves me too. Even if she's naked.. I Don't get erections. Iv tried Vega 100 and Viagra and even Jekonmo bitters and its still the same...It comes hard but when I penetrate to have sex it falls..Its been very frustrating. It wasn't like this when we were dating.

But I noticed when I see other girls my erection comes up. What shud I do?


Over dryness of the punanni can make your erect dik fall immediately after insertion. Grease the punanni well before entering.



When she's naked and you don't get erection, it simply means that you don't find her attractive anymore. Please love your wife!



If you can find your solution from above, then it's a spiritual problem
Re: .. by techWriter3: 4:11am On Feb 05, 2023
bomb not spiritualUr wife too dey naked for houseTell her to would dressing smart at home
Re: .. by onumadu: 7:31am On Feb 05, 2023
TheBTCinvestor:


I get erections with other women but not my wife cool

But how sure are you that you won't go limp again if you want to penetrate those other women?
Unless you've actually done it with some other woman, and confirmed it (which would constitute adultery).
Oga your problem hard o. grin
But there is always a solution. cool
First step is, sit down with your wife and have a SERIOUS discussion about this problem.
Above all, tell her what you really think is the solution (you know the solution!), and hope that BOTH of you can agree.
Marriage is a good thing, but it needs maturity and constant "work".
It is not a "fire and forget" thing.
Good luck bro.

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Re: .. by jeromestarks: 7:50am On Feb 05, 2023
It's a simple thing you would have avoided.

You would have simply married a virgin woman and enjoy your marriage.
Virgins are hard to find. Yes. But they give your joy, peace and a lasting home.

Now look at what marrying a woman who has been fvcked and mounted by many men has caused you.
Soon your home will break apart and you will be back to square one.


You have brain but you can't use it.
Suffer the consequences of your action.
You're doomed!

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Re: .. by jeromestarks: 7:53am On Feb 05, 2023
Abaniwealth:
Oga this is spiritual...
Adultery is a sin..
It's his fault. The woman he married has lost her glory.

He should have married a virgin woman ( who has her hymen - glory intact).

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Re: .. by Biglittlelois(f): 7:57am On Feb 05, 2023
jeromestarks:
It's a simple thing you would have avoided.

You would have simply married a virgin woman and enjoy your marriage.
Virgins are hard to find. Yes. But they give your joy, peace and a lasting home.

Now look at what marrying a woman who has been fvcked and mounted by many men has caused you.
Soon your home will break apart and you will be back to square one.


You have brain but you can't use it.
Suffer the consequences of your action.
You're doomed!


You are daft.

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Re: .. by Biglittlelois(f): 7:58am On Feb 05, 2023
jeromestarks:

It's his fault. The woman he married has lost her glory.

He should have married a virgin woman ( who has her hymen - glory intact).


Extremely daft.

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Re: .. by onumadu: 7:58am On Feb 05, 2023
jeromestarks:

It's his fault. The woman he married has lost her glory.

He should have married a virgin woman ( who has her hymen - glory intact).

Na wao for dis type of advice

Oga please don't take this question as insult, but how old are you?
What do you really know about women?
Have you married a virgin before?
Who told you that former virgins never cheat?
BTW are you a virgin?

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Re: .. by jieta: 8:08am On Feb 05, 2023
TheBTCinvestor:


She doesn't wear wrapper..she's still young
It's like you are putting on weight. Just try and be doing small exercise.
Re: .. by femmoy(m): 8:47am On Feb 05, 2023
Biglittlelois:



You are daft.

He's a very daft boy.

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