some family member are usually like this especially when everyone thinks highly of the said person.

Rubbish

For a second there, I thought he asked to know who would be willing to help him.

How shameless of the uncle to even reveal the real reason why he asked.

family should be a bong that can stand against every other forces.
If the unfortunate happen to a member of such family, that your so called uncle will be the first to cry and call for criticism " WHY WHY, he never ask for help na, he never shear his burden na etc"

If God destine you to help, please do help others, we can never be equal in life, and your wealth was given to you because the needy will always be among Us