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Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by Denco2023: 7:56pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
Odin13:Guy you too much, this advice touch my kidney, Kai nice1, you suppose the counsel people 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by starz100: 7:58pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
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Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by theophorus(m): 8:10pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
Allisgud: If you claim to be doing well in business at 27 and do not have your own personal house, then you are not doing well. Adding Wife and children to it means except your business experience a Boom, you may never be able to build a house. Don't forget that Business is not pensionable and so if anything happen along the way na Wahala, so preferably before He go dey claim doing well, hope say He don build House. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by Airoflaw(m): 8:39pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
Slizzords:you can do both. Who elaborate wedding help. Just go church let pastor join you together and plan your relocation use her as home tie later send for her to come and work as dependant |
Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by 2mch(m): 8:40pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
Marry her, ensure you improve yourself education wise, go back to school and you both can relocate in future. Don’t use all your life savings for wedding. There is still marriage after and women like good life. |
Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by akins33: 8:41pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
Go abroad and get a better life you are still both young.Marriage is an illusion,...you are still young..apply for citizenship in watever country u settle in.Your unborn generation will be forever grateful to u. She may even have someone by the side already. Guy think of yourself first. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by LordReed(m): 8:57pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
Slizzords: Advance yourself first, marriage can wait. |
Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by Allisgud: 8:58pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
theophorus:ur head correct,I say make I wyne u small |
Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by Kaido: 8:58pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
Slizzords: Do you think she would think twice about you, if she has any opportunity to travel abroad? Use your head, bro 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by sniperr007(m): 9:02pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
Slizzords: Wife her ASAP. Thank me later |
Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by dmahn(m): 9:02pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
Slizzords: If travelling is more important to you, do so, if making a family is more important, then get married. It's so simple. You know your priorities, nairalanders don't. Follow your heart. I nono wetin all una dey rush go do for abroad , I'm not just moved a bit. I'm very confident that I will do well in my country. Ibi tì ọ̀ka bá wà ní oúnjẹ ọkà tí má wá nba. No loose her if she's a very good girl sha oo... Money wey u go bring from abroad might not buy you someone ever close to her I heard someone said she's young.. Haba 24 is young for a lady.. How?.. So na until 28 wey pressure go Don dey bàa |
Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by 007s(m): 9:07pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
Do Small thing on her head and Japa with her For UK Japa, let her do M.Sc while you huzzle.... to improve your income in the UK, you can learn skills in plumbing, construction or areas that requires physicality....i don't think you should regret it. Trust me, it doesn't make sense living your other half in Nigeria and travelling, even if she is a good girl, temptation can easily set in.... However, the best country to relocate to at the moment is Canada but for your case, i will advise UK cos of the ease of getting Student Visa with dependants |
Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by captaininiobong(m): 9:34pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
Slizzords: Mehn I would say 3 years I good though, but check out the lady and be very sure she isn't agigated to get married. See her annoyance level if she can listen to you and be with you. To me na japa sure pass o, japa go hustle for yanki, get name get brand , call her to come. 27 and 24 is okay for marriage but if I be you mehn I will japa and go out, get sharp job and invite her. With this you will know if she still loves you and can wait, likewise you. |
Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by meobizy(f): 9:36pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
Do what you have in mind. |
Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by MrIyke002(m): 10:03pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
think twice, it is not always easy for one to relocate unless you have a reliable source[b][/b] Odin13: |
Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by Blupen969(m): 10:03pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
slizzords marry that girl and grow with her, i promise you, you will be shocked at how slowly your life will change for better there is wealth in true love, don't mind those telling you to go abroad, oga you wan go begin suffer from beginning again and for what?? money?? your babe is working you are working, set rules no child till after 2years, so that you can save money and start a business oga own it you are a man, no ask another man for permission to live your best life |
Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by rickleye: 10:21pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
Hmm hmm hmm. Does your business translate abroad.( can you do the same thing you are doing here abroad ) . Without a university degree how you do want to relocate and work . ? Unless you are working at Walmart , Amazon loading & shipping or driving Uber things will be hard. My advice - Marry her here ( so the introduction ) and then relocate together. While she’s doing the 9-5 thing, you can do whatever you need to do to support yourself to establish a career . Either drive Uber of work in shipping. A good woman is hard to find. Yes there a many women abroad but not everyone would understand that you need to build a house back home or that you want to support your siblings or hers. No every woman would know how to make your favourite dish and treat you right . Whatever your decision I wish you all the best 1 Like |
Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by gfelo(m): 10:21pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
Bros if your income is stable fine, but if ur hassle is not bringing a stable income, I mean money that will continue coming regardless of whatever policy, because na money dey make marriage sweet o. |
Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by Connected1: 10:35pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
Marry her but do it small, don't break the bank so that you have enough funds to relocate or boost your business. Financial Stability is a mindset, if some people can afford basic things of life without begging then they are Financial stable, others need the whole world. If she's a faithful woman, after marrying her you can impregnate her then set up a business for her and relocate or if you are really financially okay as you presume then relocating has no value. Just my tips. |
Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by Poleski: 10:39pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
Slizzords: Sane people mostly save to invest in order to make their lives better before thinking about marriage. My advice is to go abroad to get yourself financially settled. When you're ready to marry, you can then marry her if she's still available. |
Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by geniusaustin(m): 10:41pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
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Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by princetom1(m): 11:09pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
Do what makes you happy... No be all these adviser go help u carry ur cross. Know wat u getting into, plan well and pray for guidance. |
Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by MARSHALDEMSA202(m): 11:16pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
Some women are Blessing in our lifes, don't underrate that promising lady for NL advice, do whatever you can to carry her along |
Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by 9JAFULLBREED(m): 11:51pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
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Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by Nyceguy92: 11:59pm On Apr 11, 2023 |
The OP says he has saved enough money and he loves his girlfriend who works. So I don't see reason why he shouldn't go ahead and marry her. Weddings need not be extravagant. When people say " go abroad, make money, then marry," they give the impression that once he gets there, he begins to money without the enabling paperwork, which takes time. If the OP leaves, the girl will definitely marry someone else almost immediately. It is always a story of sadness and frustration when families give their daughters out in marriage to men who later travel out to hustle. And I have seen several such cases. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by Tayorshd2(m): 12:21am On Apr 12, 2023 |
God bless you for this truly u ate an adult because the only point I was Abt saying is she is still very young so she won't understand the meaning of commitment in marriage. So make d guy chill and gain more life experience Odin13: |
Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by Tayorshd2(m): 12:26am On Apr 12, 2023 |
So u believe a girl with M.sc will marry a guy without higher qualifications in this with century 😲 I tire for u oo 007s: |
Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by Goodnigga: 2:00am On Apr 12, 2023 |
Who love help? I left my girlfriend in Naija to move on with my life. Had I married before I decided to travel, then POF may not have been complete. Family responsibilities won't even make you wanna travel. Forget love for now. Babes plenty everywhere. Once u travel and u begin to see clean babes, you will thank God that you were not yet attached before u travel. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by pdclab1: 2:01am On Apr 12, 2023 |
Hello, I am with my brothers in the TV room . We can all read from you at the same time. Here are our comments PDC- instead of people to be living for today, they be living in the fear of tomorrow where as it isn't even promised . LOL Edd- Bro marry yo babe today if you both agree and understand what it is PDC- hehehehe Nigga have so many good visions of himself from here to many years counting. Everyone dreams like that but what about the other dreams that unfolds in our very reality? hehehehe Edd- Maybe go abroad and after 10 years of hustling without being told by one other prophet on nairaland you wake up with realer eyes to realize that yo blow is in yo current hustle heheheheheh, then you go catch head hehehehehe, PDC- returning back to 9ja go come be problem hehehehehe you no go amount ticket lol. Edd- We all had some sort of dream PDC- thats Game |
Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by Goodnigga: 2:09am On Apr 12, 2023 |
advanceDNA:na u go finance both. You know how much it takes for two people to japa. You know what it takes to survive for obodo oyinbo? |
Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by Anonymoususher: 2:46am On Apr 12, 2023 |
At 27yrs you are too young for that marriage.... Don't argue with me on this, in Nigeria as we speak the marriage bracket for guys starts from 30yrs up. Don't fall for silly pressure from ladies to tie you down. Just 3yrs difference is too close, once she starts giving birth she will appear like your big sister and will challenge the hell out of you. Look around any age gap should begin from 7yrs and above. Believe me on this, I have alpha males on this table as friends who got married to wives they gave 3yrs gap and just in space of 5yrs in the marriage, wives are looking like their mothers while they go around chasing smaller girls. One literally is constantly being challenged by the wife at home. Good luck! 1 Like |
Re: Should I Get Married To Her Now? by AirbagsNg: 4:57am On Apr 12, 2023 |
Slizzords: Dont use the money you saved for marriage. Work with a budget. Max 500k. If she thinks it is too small, she can add too. As she is earning. You also need a plan, a vision. When your woman understands why you do the things you do, they follow you easily. So discuss about your long term goals with her Marriage opens doors. When I married, I no get shi shi. But I had a goal, and how I was going to achieve it. I am not lazy, my wife isn't either. I have always had cause to wish I had married earlier, because everything turned around. I sold some things, and added the monies people sent for support to start a business. A quarter was what I used for the wedding. I can recall when we went for intro, and they brought list, and what they were planning for wedding. My people they hold mouth to talk. Right there, both parties knew was going to be running the home. Told them, I am rich now, and very soon, I will be extremely wealthy. Your daughter will never suffer. Any monies I have now is towards the sustainance of the family we want to build. The event will go, only pictures will remain. Bro. God has blessed me.. I want you to get married, and discuss your plans with your fiancé. If she wants you to spend your savings to do wedding, she's not the one. And going abroad... Mehn, don't follow the Herd. |
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