banku:
Bloomingdale, I do admire your posts as a very experienced and educated lady. Most of your opponents do not realize that you have been there and done that.

But, of course there is a but. What you quoted is nothing but ignorance from South Africa used to justify zenophobia.

It boils down to women again, taken or attracted by West African men. Whatever Nigerians and other West African men are going through today, does not apply to all of them. Those older than their Youths today were admired all over Africa and the world.

It is now history. It is not what we did for South Africans but "what have you done for me lately".

You know there are still many West African men that are decent and well accomplished. Those who depend on past accomplishments have become the ones engaged in nefarious activities despised at home and abroad. This is the reason for the negative quote and you know it because you are well informed and experienced.

banku:
It is very embarrassing to keep on apologizing for African men everywhere. I think even Farakhan has stopped apologizing.

We must accept the blame in Nigeria because of the rat race to make dollars we do not print. It has also affected our ladies because we lack enough examplinary characters. Ladies love men that have their heads proudly on their shoulders but no pity for sorry ass men.

It is hard to think of any community that made trillions and still went south to abject poverty like Nigeria. The time to ask our women to bear with us is slipping away. We are not leveraging the opportunities we had to lift our communities up.

Africans have become the weakest men out of greed for more, not because we lack.

BloomingDale:
Is it true West African, especially Nigerian men have inferiority complex as described by the comments I saw below?