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Dunionk30:
That is why I'm advising the op to get back to his faith make Hunger no finish am Oooo, Atheist does not help one another, Gbam! If they could come up with the statement " NO GOD " then if any of them have any Challenges, they have no heart to lift him up or help, Even the ones that Claim to be Atheist On this Platform, All of them have Suddenly Kept off this Thread, Maybe they are reading and remaining Mute due to shame.. ...
Bros the earlier the better ooo you gets back to the Faith Oooo. Hunger no Good ooo, I know you could be having a rethink now... Here no be China where you have lots of Atheist ,Most Naija Atheist are Fake tan

I remember an atheist on this forum who always speak against faith in God but when his wife was in the hospital needing financial support this guy came here on this same forum begging religionists for money with his wife who claims she's a born again Christian both begging for financial assistance to foot the hospital bill. Well trust religionists nah they were giving him in the name of their gods and the funny atheist thanking them in the name of their god!

MaxInDHouse:
I remember an atheist on this forum who always speak against faith in God but when his wife was in the hospital needing financial support this guy came here on this same forum begging religionists for money with his wife who claims she's a born again Christian both begging for financial assistance to foot the hospital bill. Well trust religionists nah they were giving him in the name of their gods and the funny atheist thanking them in the name of their god!

You are on your own.

Poverty-stricken and very selfish JWs are the ones I know, who like to use JW doctrine as an excuse not to assist those outside their group.

The wealthy JWmembers have no qualms in assisting non members.

If you only help your fellow JW, how are you different from a Boko Haram terrorist who would also do the same?

Redoilbeta:
Hello, Does ones Personal Decision being an Atheist, Free thinker / Humanist Warrants family and Friends Withdrawing there Assistance / Help and Supports?

They said, I stopped believing in the god that Provides for them to assist me,then I should go and seek help from atheistism I Practised now.

I Practiced Christianity before, Now I'm an Atheist. Pls. The reason I Changed to be an Atheist is not the main reason for this thread.
I'm not the first and I'm not going to be the last, It happens. reasons best known to Individuals.

There are situations Atheists turned to Christians, Muslims,... Muslims Converts to Christianity. Christians Changed to Muslims, Babalawo/ Ogboni Fraters Becomes a Strong Evangelist / Pastors.. Everyone with his Personal Reasons. Not on here to Judge.

My Questions is that why must family and friends became so Annoyed, took it Personal To withdraw all there Help, Sack Me from Work,insults,Bully me.

Where are the Atheist in this Forum Pls. I need your Encouragement and Words.

Forget about them..

U have seen the light, but thats not enuf...

U have to follow the light..

Dunionk30:
I'm sure if you were an Atheist Turned to Christian ,by now you would have had someone mention he or she wants to help you.

But quite funny, No Atheist not even a single one that might have read your Matter have offered to talk about help here ..Chai! Does it means that Atheist does not help one another?

U are on your own Oooo, Be like say Atheist are all heartless. .Maybe they sent you a message off here...

No talk wetin you no know...

Who dey epp who for Naija?

triplechoice:
You are on your own. Poverty-stricken and very selfish JWs are the ones I know, who like to use JW doctrine as an excuse not to assist those outside their group. The wealthy JW members have no qualms in assisting non members. If you only help your fellow JW, how are you different from a Boko Haram terrorist who would also do the same?

So you know JWs do assist non-jws, shey?

That makes your comment useless because i never said JWs don't help non-jws!

Redoilbeta:
Hello, Does ones Personal Decision being an Atheist, Free thinker / Humanist Warrants family and Friends Withdrawing there Assistance / Help and Supports?

They said, I stopped believing in the god that Provides for them to assist me,then I should go and seek help from atheistism I Practised now.

I Practiced Christianity before, Now I'm an Atheist. Pls. The reason I Changed to be an Atheist is not the main reason for this thread.
I'm not the first and I'm not going to be the last, It happens. reasons best known to Individuals.

There are situations Atheists turned to Christians, Muslims,... Muslims Converts to Christianity. Christians Changed to Muslims, Babalawo/ Ogboni Fraters Becomes a Strong Evangelist / Pastors.. Everyone with his Personal Reasons. Not on here to Judge.

My Questions is that why must family and friends became so Annoyed, took it Personal To withdraw all there Help, Sack Me from Work,insults,Bully me.

Where are the Atheist in this Forum Pls. I need your Encouragement and Words.

My advice is this:
Your personal convictions are personal especially when you have dependencies.

Believers are known to be an irrational lot. They believe in stories and are hurt when you try to let them know their stories have no basis.

So what you should have done is keep your views to yourself or within those you can really trust until you become fully independent of them.

Now , if you really depend on their help, what you can do to salvage this is a form of deception. Act like you have realized your mistakes, go back to becoming a believer and get them all into play. The more you can act like RMD, the better. They will be more than happy to start helping again. Afterall, they are believers and they would believe anything.

If you don’t really depend on them, they can keep their help and you move on.

A life lesson is this: in real life, never rub it onto others matters of religion. They might hold a lifelong grudge against you that you might not know exists until you need them. Keep your religious views to your self and conform to your societal views. It is a survival strategy

truthCoder:
My advice is this:
Your personal convictions are personal especially when you have dependencies.

Believers are known to be an irrational lot. They believe in stories and are hurt when you try to let them know their stories have no basis.

So what you should have done is keep your views to yourself or within those you can really trust until you become fully independent of them.

Now , if you really depend on their help, what you can do to salvage this is a form of deception. Act like you have realized your mistakes, go back to becoming a believer and get them all into play. The more you can act like RMD, the better. They will be more than happy to start helping again. Afterall, they are believers and they would believe anything.

If you don’t really depend on them, they can keep their help and you move on.

A life lesson is this: in real life, never rub it onto others matters of religion. They might hold a lifelong grudge against you that you might not know exists until you need them. Keep your religious views to your self and conform to your societal views. It is a survival strategy

Thanks so much for this.

Redoilbeta:
Hello, Does ones Personal Decision being an Atheist, Free thinker / Humanist Warrants family and Friends Withdrawing there Assistance / Help and Supports?

They said, I stopped believing in the god that Provides for them to assist me,then I should go and seek help from atheistism I Practised now.

I Practiced Christianity before, Now I'm an Atheist. Pls. The reason I Changed to be an Atheist is not the main reason for this thread.
I'm not the first and I'm not going to be the last, It happens. reasons best known to Individuals.

There are situations Atheists turned to Christians, Muslims,... Muslims Converts to Christianity. Christians Changed to Muslims, Babalawo/ Ogboni Fraters Becomes a Strong Evangelist / Pastors.. Everyone with his Personal Reasons. Not on here to Judge.

My Questions is that why must family and friends became so Annoyed, took it Personal To withdraw all there Help, Sack Me from Work,insults,Bully me.

Where are the Atheist in this Forum Pls. I need your Encouragement and Words.

I created a topic on why they might be doing this years ago

https://www.nairaland.com/3950514/why-most-theists-more-hostile

Redoilbeta:
Thanks for you inputs. I understand, But honestly, I wasn't Being Rude or Engaged them in any Form of Arrogance, I'm not the type at all, Also I'm still trying to fathom how I have bitten them.

I never even relate with them bringing up a discussion about Religion at all ,They just discovered I wasn't following them to church Programs anymore, the weekly Activities, I use to be very Sound and Eloquent when it comes to Evangelism...

They asked me reason I wasn't joining them anymore and I Humbly told them my stand now.

So they became Wild and Annoyed.

Well as many gave rightly Said... There is no Problem, It's a Matter of time, I will gets something to do, After all I wasn't a Lazy Person right from time...

Not Specifically I would get a help from an Atheist too, I didn't becomes an atheist because I wanted help from any, If it comes fine,if not fine also.

If you depended on religious people for survival and thriving then you shouldn't have make your new stand known. you should've kept it under wraps till you are no longer dependent on them or you've fostered an interdependence which would make their withdrawing support for you hurt both of you.

I'm more of an open atheist but even then I restrict my Atheism to home and to an extent work. I hide my Atheism in my business cuz I might lose some costumers if I don't

MaxInDHouse:
So you know JWs do assist non-jws, shey?

That makes your comment useless because i never said JWs don't help non-jws!

If JW can assist non members, then why are you still mocking someone who openly asked for help here a very long time ago?

Is he still asking you or anyone else for help after that time?

Did he specifically ask for help from you and JW members alone?

are JWs the only ones on this board who could have assisted him at that time?

I remembered you and your friend, Tatime, were
behaving diabolicaly during that period, in order to prevent other people from assisting the person who abandoned ego to seek help from the public.

Not only that, your friend, with your support, even embarrassed the wife when she came out here, while still lying down on the hospital bed where she just put to birth, to confirm that the plea was a genuine one.

Now, after that show of shame from both of you, you still want to regard yourself as one of the JWs who assist non members.


Speak for yourself, and don't hide behind other kind hearted JWs.

And, Just imagine they way you keep bringing up something everyone else as long forgotten.

You keep reminding us, and still continue to talk about it as if it just happened yesterday.


Old man maximum, wey dey behave like small pikin

SMH

Dunionk30:
I'm sure if you were an Atheist Turned to Christian ,by now you would have had someone mention he or she wants to help you.

But quite funny, No Atheist not even a single one that might have read your Matter have offered to talk about help here ..Chai! Does it means that Atheist does not help one another?

U are on your own Oooo, Be like say Atheist are all heartless. .Maybe they sent you a message off here...

The OP literally said all he wants is words of encouragement, why are you wailing more than the bereaved?