MY ORDEAL AT THE HANDS OF LUCKY


I have come across numerous comments regarding the statement released by the Women Group, the Society for Women Empowerment (SWE). Although I cannot ascertain the existence of the group or the true intentions behind the story, I feel it is important to express my pain for the sake of other women.


I am a woman who deeply respects and supports my husband. Our story, like many others, has been one of grace and growth. While I am sociable, I am always mindful of my husband's position. I have dedicated myself to nurturing our home and children, as any wife and mother would. I have done so with unwavering strength.


Prior to Lucky's appointment as the deputy governor, we had ongoing issues revolving around abusive behavior. Each time, he would apologize, often attributing his actions to alcohol. Our children have witnessed this on two occasions. They implored me to have him arrested, but I explained that Nigerian culture does not provide room for such measures.


I am not happy about revealing my personal struggles publicly. It is a painful reality I must confront. I have reached the conclusion that concerted efforts must be made to eradicate the scourge of violence against women. I have endured physical, emotional, and mental abuse from my husband—beatings, torture, and constant mistreatment.


On December 1, 2022, during a minor argument, I experienced one of the most severe beatings of my life at the hands of my husband. I was left bruised and battered, to the extent that I could not attend the birthday ceremony of Toyin Akeredolu, the younger sister of Governor Akeredolu, in Ibadan. He threatened to kill me, uttering words of disdain.


On Friday, December 2, I traveled to Ibadan to meet with the First Lady, Chief Betty-Anyanwu Akeredolu, to report Lucky's actions. When she saw my battered face, she was enraged. She subsequently reported Lucky to the Governor. Lucky used to be the First Lady's favorite, but since that day, she has distanced herself from him.


Upon returning to Akure, even with my bruised face, Lucky slapped me again. He accused me of exposing him to the Governor and First Lady. He not only slapped me but also poured Hennessy on my head, berating me as a worthless woman.


A few days before the FOWOSO summit, I was burdened with depression and numerous issues. I had already made up my mind not to attend the program. However, Lucky approached me, pleaded, and promised never to harm me again. I had to apply heavy makeup and wear dark glasses to conceal the bruises on my face, just to attend the event.

By the end of January, Lucky resumed his abusive behavior. As much as I am a strong supporter of his aspirations to succeed the Governor, I have consistently advised him to exhibit decorum in his public life. Every time I mentioned this, he dismissed it as jealousy and insecurity, showing no regard for my feelings. Disrespectful calls were frequently received at our home, especially from one Ambassador Tolu Taiwo, one of his girlfriends.

During the first week of February, we had a conversation about his political aspirations, and I advised him to refrain from making certain remarks to people. Instead of considering my advice, he unleashed his anger on me, subjecting me to further physical abuse. He threatened to kill me and make another woman the First Lady when he becomes Governor.


Lucky not only assaulted me but also locked me out of the house. I had to spend two nights at St. Jacob Hotel. He instructed the gatekeeper not to allow me entry. From there, I had to travel to Lagos and eventually moved to Ilesa, my hometown.

After being locked out, my driver eventually went to the house to retrieve my bag, which contained my passport. Since then, I have relocated to London.


I am aware that Lucky may attempt to deny this story once again. However, I urge you to question him: Why have I not refuted the allegations of his abuse? He is my husband, and no woman would want to falsely accuse her spouse. If he claims that all of this is untrue, ask him to call me and put our conversation on speaker. He is well aware of my position on this matter. I refuse to continue hiding and suffering in silence.

Once again, the First Lady is fully aware of this situation. If Lucky denies it once more, I will come out with pictures and videos, no matter how humiliating it sounds. I am taking this step because I can no longer endure this situation silently.

OLUWASEUN ESTHER AIYEDATIWA
LONDON, UNITED KINGDOM
7TH JUNE, 2023.

This is very sad and shameful

How do you sleep at night? I hope watever you are being paid make you successful cos you will end up miserable.

What type of nonsense is this?



You bloggers better be careful.

I don't really know how true this story may be, but if it's true, then oga deputy governor Lucky Orimisan Aiyedatiwa you bleeped up big time.

Where is that guy that was talking down on Igbo men because they married Yoruba husband.

Come and see what a Yoruba man is doing to his Yoruba wife.

Wisdom is hearing from the two sides before concluding. Women can do anything. Hell hath no fury like a scorned Nigeria woman.

Adunnionigege:
How do you sleep at night? I hope watever you are being paid make you successful cos you will end up miserable.

Why are you attacking me? I only shared the Statement of the wife of the Deputy Governor. I didn't write the statement. May whatever you wish me be yours in folds.

Adunnionigege:
How do you sleep at night? I hope watever you are being paid make you successful cos you will end up miserable.

Crazy speesh... From a Loonatic

Until he kills her untop deputy governor...We all know how useless governors and politicians in general can be regarding drug abuse and prostitutes.. She has every right to complain.. I have sisters too

So shatap or geddifok

Pls sensitive posts like this should have verifiable source...this is a public forum

This deputy governor is tired of this woman

This is a very serious allegation.
Let's wait for Lucky's side of the story.

And I love women from Osun state o. I plan to marry from there sef.

Lucky! Lucky!! Lucky!!! how many times did i call you? No go spoil market for me o.

That said, his ambition to become governor of Ondo State is dead on arrival, regardless of whether the allegation of domestic violence is true or not.

Modified: I take that back. He'll probably be presented as the next governorship candidate of the APC

Some men sha! Before you consent to spending your life with anyone, background check is of utmost importance! 'Their papa get moni' no be upbringing oo, & a humble background does not signify humility!

There are those that will always mismanage wealth or power, no matter how humble they appear in the beginning.

The signs are always there, but somehow we explain it away because "love always finds a way!"

Well, love found a way for this madam, but the final destination has not been a bed of roses!

LeopardX:
This is a very serious allegation.
Let's wait for Lucky's side of the story.

And I love women from Osun state o. I plan to marry from there sef.

Lucky! Lucky!! Lucky!!! how many times did i call you? No go spoil market for me o.

That said, his ambition to become governor of Ondo State is dead on arrival, regardless of whether the allegation of domestic violence is true or not.

Modified: I take that back. He'll probably be presented as the next governorship candidate of the APC

Don't let any forms of report negate your beloved. State don't determine good marriage bro

It's a true incident. Am from Ondo State.

aremubabs:
What type of nonsense is this?



You bloggers better be careful.

Then, leave the man and move on na

He sees you as a liability, move on woman.....

aaking:


Don't let any forms of report negate your beloved. State don't determine good marriage bro

Well said brother-man

Nawa o

Registered today

Adunnionigege:
How do you sleep at night? I hope watever you are being paid make you successful cos you will end up miserable.

Believe a woman like this at your own risk

OndoEyes:
MY ORDEAL AT THE HANDS OF LUCKY


I have come across numerous comments regarding the statement released by the Women Group, the Society for Women Empowerment (SWE). Although I cannot ascertain the existence of the group or the true intentions behind the story, I feel it is important to express my pain for the sake of other women.


I am a woman who deeply respects and supports my husband. Our story, like many others, has been one of grace and growth. While I am sociable, I am always mindful of my husband's position. I have dedicated myself to nurturing our home and children, as any wife and mother would. I have done so with unwavering strength.


Prior to Lucky's appointment as the deputy governor, we had ongoing issues revolving around abusive behavior. Each time, he would apologize, often attributing his actions to alcohol. Our children have witnessed this on two occasions. They implored me to have him arrested, but I explained that Nigerian culture does not provide room for such measures.


I am not happy about revealing my personal struggles publicly. It is a painful reality I must confront. I have reached the conclusion that concerted efforts must be made to eradicate the scourge of violence against women. I have endured physical, emotional, and mental abuse from my husband—beatings, torture, and constant mistreatment.


On December 1, 2022, during a minor argument, I experienced one of the most severe beatings of my life at the hands of my husband. I was left bruised and battered, to the extent that I could not attend the birthday ceremony of Toyin Akeredolu, the younger sister of Governor Akeredolu, in Ibadan. He threatened to kill me, uttering words of disdain.


On Friday, December 2, I traveled to Ibadan to meet with the First Lady, Chief Betty-Anyanwu Akeredolu, to report Lucky's actions. When she saw my battered face, she was enraged. She subsequently reported Lucky to the Governor. Lucky used to be the First Lady's favorite, but since that day, she has distanced herself from him.


Upon returning to Akure, even with my bruised face, Lucky slapped me again. He accused me of exposing him to the Governor and First Lady. He not only slapped me but also poured Hennessy on my head, berating me as a worthless woman.


A few days before the FOWOSO summit, I was burdened with depression and numerous issues. I had already made up my mind not to attend the program. However, Lucky approached me, pleaded, and promised never to harm me again. I had to apply heavy makeup and wear dark glasses to conceal the bruises on my face, just to attend the event.

By the end of January, Lucky resumed his abusive behavior. As much as I am a strong supporter of his aspirations to succeed the Governor, I have consistently advised him to exhibit decorum in his public life. Every time I mentioned this, he dismissed it as jealousy and insecurity, showing no regard for my feelings. Disrespectful calls were frequently received at our home, especially from one Ambassador Tolu Taiwo, one of his girlfriends.

During the first week of February, we had a conversation about his political aspirations, and I advised him to refrain from making certain remarks to people. Instead of considering my advice, he unleashed his anger on me, subjecting me to further physical abuse. He threatened to kill me and make another woman the First Lady when he becomes Governor.


Lucky not only assaulted me but also locked me out of the house. I had to spend two nights at St. Jacob Hotel. He instructed the gatekeeper not to allow me entry. From there, I had to travel to Lagos and eventually moved to Ilesa, my hometown.

After being locked out, my driver eventually went to the house to retrieve my bag, which contained my passport. Since then, I have relocated to London.


I am aware that Lucky may attempt to deny this story once again. However, I urge you to question him: Why have I not refuted the allegations of his abuse? He is my husband, and no woman would want to falsely accuse her spouse. If he claims that all of this is untrue, ask him to call me and put our conversation on speaker. He is well aware of my position on this matter. I refuse to continue hiding and suffering in silence.

Once again, the First Lady is fully aware of this situation. If Lucky denies it once more, I will come out with pictures and videos, no matter how humiliating it sounds. I am taking this step because I can no longer endure this situation silently.

OLUWASEUN ESTHER AIYEDATIWA
LONDON, UNITED KINGDOM
7TH JUNE, 2023.

No wonder Aketi no HANDOVER to am, him HANDBEATER over already 🤣🙊

The governor of that state is on his sick bed
While his deputy who is supposed to take over the affairs is busy beating the wife.
I hope this is not what I'm thinking.

Everybody you see is going through what you dont know

Adunnionigege:
How do you sleep at night? I hope watever you are being paid make you successful cos you will end up miserable.

what is this one saying? Are you normal?

Shame on Akeredolu. You personally chose a drug addict as your deputy

Na so this one ruin his chances uf becoming a governor. Shame on him!

THIS IS DISGRACEFUL. THE WORLD IS NOT YET HIS SEE HOW HE IS TWISTING IT? THE HOUSE OF ASSEMBLY SHOULD PASS A VOTE OF NO CONFIDENCE IN HIM AND IMPEACH HIM. THE DEJI OF AKURE, THE OSEMOWE OF ONDO, THE EWI OF ADO EKITI AND THEIR RESPECTIVE YOUTH LEADERS SHOULD SUPPORT AIYEDITARARE'S IMPEACHMENT.

FROM ORUNTO27 ORISAORUNTOSPEAKS.

OndoEyes:
MY ORDEAL AT THE HANDS OF LUCKY

I am a woman who deeply respects and supports my husband. Our story, like many others, has been one of grace and growth. While I am sociable, I am always mindful of my husband's position. I have dedicated myself to nurturing our home and children, as any wife and mother would. I have done so with unwavering strength.



During the first week of February, we had a conversation about his political aspirations, and I advised him to refrain from making certain remarks to people. Instead of considering my advice, he unleashed his anger on me, subjecting me to further physical abuse. He threatened to kill me and make another woman the First Lady when he becomes Governor.


Once again, the First Lady is fully aware of this situation. If Lucky denies it once more, I will come out with pictures and videos, no matter how humiliating it sounds. I am taking this step because I can no longer endure this situation silently.

OLUWASEUN ESTHER AIYEDATIWA
LONDON, UNITED KINGDOM
7TH JUNE, 2023.

While you are sociable. Wetin be that? E no go better for you. Na husband and family you want, abi na party?

Na the other woman dey make you jealous. Una dey craze.

Betty Akeredolu the glorified Olosho wey you go report to after disrespecting your husband, shey you no hear that she too dey fight fellow Oloshos who are fuccking her husband with her?

Okonjo-Iwealla get husband, even her husband bleeped a nurse for several years and was blackmailed. Yet, we didn't hear that she disrespected her husband. Bill Clinton fuccked several Oloshos in America including that Monica, yet his wife did not come to be disturbing us with tales by moonlight. But useless Oloshos like you and Betty Akeredolu are disturbing our peace, Thunder fire una Mama.

No be for road dem pick you before you use juju marry them? Go and deal with it. Your juju don clear for their faces

You for no run go London nah. You for wait make he send his to delete you without traces.